Although social media is frowned on in the TRP handbook, i agree with willowhawk about snapchat. Snapchat can be used for DHV'n and dreading the way willowhawk mentioned.
Too many bird brain women out there utilize their social media for validation so why not use yours for DHV and dread. Trust me when i say, if they are interested in you, they will check your stories.
For example, i use snap as a way to keep in touch with all of my plates since im not a phone person, im not really calling them to say hi or anything. Im also not going to take the risk of giving my number to some psycho HB that is going to blow up my phone when im at home with my LTR. As well, my LTR can check my phone bill and see who im calling, so why create a paper trail?
Thats where snap comes into play. No record of anything. Everything is deleted as its opened.
Example of DHV'n and dreading with snapchat.
Recently me & the crew, a mix of guys, girls & kids took a trip to a resort for my LTR's bday. The resort had a pretty cool water park and i took pics, videos of all of everyone having fun (DHV).
When i returned back to work, all of the HB's that are interested were asking many questions.
"Oh where did you go this weekend" "Where have you been" "I saw your snaps, looks like you were having fun" "Who were those girls?" "Oh playa, i saw you surrounded by all those hotties, what'd you do, pay the cute girls to take pics with you?"
I can go on with all the IOI, shit testing that i received when i got back.
So yea although i agree that we shouldnt waste too much time with social media, it can be a tool in your arsenal if used right.
As the saying goes, "its not about the tools, its about the skills. Not what you're using but how you use it. "
