Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rjjrib/was_anyone_else_convinced_they_were_asexual/
Here's the context: my ex did this thing where he would pucker his lips and close his eyes waiting for me to kiss him. and he would sit there waiting like that until I kissed him. And it grossed me out so bad. I couldn't explain or rationalize why it bothered me, so for a while I ignored it and opted to give him a quick sympathy peck and keep my disgust to myself but ...eventually I finally snapped and told him I hated it. Asked him to please stop doing that. So he modified it. His new version was vocally asking/demanding (like "come here and gimme a kiss"). It repulsed be even more. I would visibly wince and say no and he would pout afterwards, say he felt unloved and unattractive. And I felt horrible, of course. Over time it (obviously) turned into an actual problem in our relationship. Eventually I hated kissing all together. Never had the spontaneous urge to kiss him anymore. I also hated sex with him. More and more. But before being with him I had terrible sex with men anyway, so I dismissed it.
The audacity of scrotes