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Serious Live thread: Solo travel lonelyness

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Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.
 
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Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.

Try installing tinder/pof and get someone to meet up with you. Sure much harder for incels but it could work.
 
You received terrible advice. You're not going to be able to work with what you've got in that situation, even socially competent Chads would struggle with that.
 
Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.
Hey, you’re making the effort, and if you’re a locationcel then this could work. What race are you? Did you go to SEA yet? In order to make friends, go to meetup events and connect with both guys and even ugly girls, who may have cute friends. All of this is difficult as an incel, but by no means impossible unless you’re a truecel.
 
Currently I'm in Croatia. After walking for hours trying to make connection (lile asking photo) people seem very cautions and reluctant to make further contact.

I'm now back in hostel posting this.

I'm very surprised that other people make very fast friends in hostels. Yes, they are Chat types and very social skilled. How?

I'm angry, frustrated and envy. Now I feel, experience the suffering of Elliot rodger.

After I put a lot of effort to make contact I'm still a outcast and people seem avoid me.

Why? I do nothing wrong. Why they treat me like this?
Let me chearify first. I'm not primarily looking for sex. I just want friends to have social contact and a drink.
 
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Travelling alone and assuming that you will easily make contact with other people is terrible advice for an incel. You need at least above average looks and good social skills. In general, people are not open to have a conversation with an ugly and socially awkward guy, especially not women since they immediately assume you are a rapist.

I did 3 weeks of solo hikes a couple of years ago and literally nobody initiated contact with me. I tried myself to start a conversation on plenty of occasions and it never went beyond a 5 minute conversation.
 
Travelling alone and assuming that you will easily make contact with other people is terrible advice for an incel. You need at least above average looks and good social skills. In general, people are not open to have a conversation with an ugly and socially awkward guy, especially not women since they immediately assume you are a rapist.

I did 3 weeks of solo hikes a couple of years ago and literally nobody initiated contact with me. I tried myself to start a conversation on plenty of occasions and it never went beyond a 5 minute conversation.
This
 
Solo travel is cope. "I am not alone when I solo travel because I meet new people teehee" only works for some blogger attention whore foids. An average male solo traveller is seen as a potential threat. I have seen normies wasting their lives in cheap hostels while a tourist Chad slays during his few days stay in that city, going out with girls they randomly meet, sleeping at places of random girls for free.
 
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Traveling alone as an aspie incel JUST FUCKING LOL
 
I would think traveling alone would be really bad for meeting girls. I know my first thought would be "why is this dude by himself, there must be something wrong? What's he running from? Is he a serial killer?"
 
I would think traveling alone would be really bad for meeting girls. I know my first thought would be "why is this dude by himself, there must be something wrong? What's he running from? Is he a serial killer?"

Solo travelling Chad: adventurer, explorer
Solo travelling incel: rapist, serial killer
 
How old are you OP? You still wanna do this travel shit or do you want to return home deep down?
 
Solo travelling Chad: adventurer, explorer
Solo travelling incel: rapist, serial killer
This. I have also thought about traveling OP, I think you should first try to get some male friend at the new place and then when you're in a group you can aim to hit on foids.
 
26 Reason to travel is because my hometown is in a rural area, no girls. When I travel to these urban area's, hot girls everywhere.

Problem = how to handle in this pool of hot chicks. Both daytime and nightgame is very hard if you have no early experience with girls.

I'm 26 KHHV virgin. Want to bang! 4 years to become a wizard.
 
No, I want to battle, to fight to get the quality chicks. I already put so much money and effort in this operation that I can't stop.

The trip is just a part of the project, goal being fluent in social situations.

The LDAR at home for 8 years made me socially undeveloped.
 
Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.


DO NOT TRAVEL UNLESS YOU HAVE MANY GIRLS LINED UP FROM TINDER WHO WANT TO FUCK

i've said this endlessly. did you at least go to the Philippines?
No, I want to battle, to fight to get the quality chicks. I already put so much money and effort in this operation that I can't stop.

The trip is just a part of the project, goal being fluent in social situations.

The LDAR at home for 8 years made me socially undeveloped.

christ, white guys who are above average and tall even fail at PUA.

this is beyond fucking idiotic. even if you were a chad it would be stupid as fuck.
 
@mylifeistrash I don't believe in Tinder. I just want the hot western girls from the street. Like many pua's, a real SDL.

Prostitution is not the solution.

I'm currently in central and east Europe try to solve my inceldom, but socialising is very hard if you normally live alone and isolated in a rural area.
 
You received terrible advice. You're not going to be able to work with what you've got in that situation, even socially competent Chads would struggle with that.
This, and going alone makes it worse
 
OP is retarded
 
Traveling alone as an aspie incel JUST FUCKING LOL
Are you kidding, haha? I take EFFORT and ACTION, because staying at home in my room will never get me laid.

I keep fighting against my incelcrisis. Please support me!
BTW I see more solo travellers, but how they socialising and get laid?
 
I am 55 and want to travel. I never left The United States. People gave me the same advice, you'd meet new people. I can't even meet right here in a New York subway, why would I meet thousands of miles away? I am dying to travel, but afraid to do it alive for the reasons above.
 
@mylifeistrash I don't believe in Tinder. I just want the hot western girls from the street. Like many pua's, a real SDL.

Prostitution is not the solution.

I'm currently in central and east Europe try to solve my inceldom, but socialising is very hard if you normally live alone and isolated in a rural area.

not even super god chad can go to a foreign country and start pulling unless it was SEA
I am 55 and want to travel. I never left The United States. People gave me the same advice, you'd meet new people. I can't even meet right here in a New York subway, why would I meet thousands of miles away? I am dying to travel, but afraid to do it alive for the reasons above.

nothing to see unless you're going to fuck whores
 
not even super god chad can go to a foreign country and start pulling unless it was SEA


nothing to see unless you're going to fuck whores
A real Chad can get a SDL in every country. I can know it, travelled to lot of countries and see these guys are quite succesful with girls. You need the right social skills. So your SEA theory is bullshit.
 
>muh traveling
>muh meet newz pplz XD
You are devouring the normie memes while they're still hot, I see.
 
Do you think about life together with every woman that even looks your way, or smiles at you like a cashier whose job it is to do that? You bring that into every interaction with a female, if you bought hookers I would think you would feel less pressure in a conversation with a civilian slut, and it might go more favorably. This is the blind leading the blind though because I am a 30 KHHV, hookers, excuse me "escorts," are too expensive and ugly where I am from and it's illegal, my luck is I'd get caught in a sting operation and have my ugly mug flashed on the news just for trying to finally get my dick wet with a hooker at 30.
In my case it is not only the sex, I want validation, having a large social circle and being social.

Incel is not only about sex, it is about validation.
 
>muh traveling
>muh meet newz pplz XD
You are devouring the normie memes while they're still hot, I see.

what's especially stupid is THIS SHIT IS MEANT FOR FEMALES not men

men cannot go to new countries and fuck tons of the opposite sex, only women can

men go to new countries and end up jerking to porn in their airbnb while crying at night
 
get drunk
what's especially stupid is THIS SHIT IS MEANT FOR FEMALES not men

men cannot go to new countries and fuck tons of the opposite sex, only women can

men go to new countries and end up jerking to porn in their airbnb while crying at night
lol
 
You need the right social skills. So your SEA theory is bullshit.
not sure youre on the right forum buddy :bluepill:
 
men go to new countries and end up jerking to porn in their airbnb while crying at night
I've had a strikingly similar experience...
Anyways, males should only travel with a given purpose.
 
Google "travel solo" for images. 90% females and 10% chads.
 
Are you kidding, haha? I take EFFORT and ACTION, because staying at home in my room will never get me laid.

I keep fighting against my incelcrisis. Please support me!
BTW I see more solo travellers, but how they socialising and get laid?
you need to be extroverted and confident and have social skillscand most incels dont have that but atleast you are trying and its better than LDARing
 
I like traveling solo.

I don't have any civilian success when doing so, but it's interesting to travel and I like airplanes.
 
I like traveling solo.

I don't have any civilian success when doing so, but it's interesting to travel and I like airplanes.
Even without approach anxiety it is very hard to play the game if you have never learned in your teens. Have been LDAR since my teens, not good.
 
You should have taken me with you.
 
Even without approach anxiety it is very hard to play the game if you have never learned in your teens. Have been LDAR since my teens, not good.

Me too. After high school I lost all my friends because we they began in vocational school and I did not. I became a selective mutist and literally only spoke to my parents for 4 years. Have since grown out of that and worked professionally in IT the last 7 years.

Last year for my birthday I was in SEA, and also the last three new years.

Even if I don't feel any anxiety or qualms about traveling, I am still unable to even attempt to pick up women on the street. It's some biological fail-safe I think -- either I'm too narcissistic that I can't handle the inevitable, invariable rejections, or I'm simply trying to protect the women from my subhuman genes.

Would be cool to travel with someone sometime though.
 
Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.
you must go to places where people are not industrial. in the far places of the cities. small towns where there are few people. If you see young women approach and ask them for some address or place even if you already know in advance. The idea is to put conversation. in one of those the conversation can flow brilliantly. The idea is to go to places where country people live. small towns where there are young women. That's the idea Take advantage of the trip It's great to travel but do not waste yourself in industrial cities where the rabble is. go to rural villages that are beautiful. talk to local young women. ask anything in relation to where that place is. If it's going badly, it does not matter. you try again with another young woman. the idea is that they are locals and not tourists of shit. the projects or vandalism do not do it in those places that is for the city where the industrial society lives
 
doesn't matter where you go your inceldom will follow you
 
doesn't matter where you go your inceldom will follow you

yup.

this has to be the most fucking stupid post i've ever seen. a guy doing something that is for females around college age.

you are not female.
 
go to a bar or use tinder / pof
what country are you from originally?
 
install grinder and take a buggery pill
 
Three months ago I was planning to take ACTION. Many ppl recommand me to travel and meet new ppl (especially girls!).

I decided to spend €10.000 to invest to fix my incelcrisis. Currently after weeks of travel i found it is very difficult to connect eith people. Almost all girls are in sets, that makes it impossible to approach necausr i'm all alone.

I see all people here walking are all in sets, groups and couples. I feel cast out. Now i can totally underdstand how Elliot feels.

About 3 days i depart to my next place. Please give me some tips to make new frends. I have approach anxiety and feel sad that nobody take initative to speak with me.

Should've gone camping in the woods instead. Solo camping and hiking - the best copes there is.
 
If you're solo traveling, try doing language exchanges. Go on Facebook and you'll easily find large groups that have people seeking fluent English speakers. Get in touch with people beforehand and you'll probably have a smoother time
 
Some accident happened. Day 2 in my hostel, 2 new guests (Spanish girls) came (mixed dorm) and asked me to move to another bed downstairs, because they want to sleep together. They even didn't say 'hello' or 'hi' to me before. I feld put under pressure and said 'ok'.

After a moment thinking about it I declined and said I don't feel right about it. Then she keeps pushing asking 'why', but I dont want be dominated by females.0

If they were friendly before and talked with me maybe i would consider it, but what she did is only leeching and dominating.

People only speak to me if they want something.
 
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THIS IS HAPPEN NOW, AS PAYBACK I LOCKED THE DORM DOOR!
 

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