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Life seems pointless, I can not find any hobbies.

Below Human

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All of the hobbies just seem like copes. If you reflect on them you will see the worthlessness behind them, like watching sports, playing video games, movies/animes, even posting on this forum. I feel like Renegade #1 during his last weeks before his suicide, he was seeing worthlessness in everything. I am never going to suicide but I just feel like sleeping 24/7. I somewhat enjoy gymcelling and playing basketball by myself, that's all.
 
Even sex seems pointless to me, It's not something I care much about. I think once you have enough time to self reflect due to Inceldom EVERYTHING will appear as what it is, a cope.
 
The key to being happy isn't a search for meaning, it's to just keep yourself busy with unimportant nonsense and eventually, you'll be dead.
 
Our existence is inherently meaningless.
 
playing basketball by myself
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Our existence is inherently meaningless.
Yeah, I think normies never realize it because they are constantly bombarded with social interactions an stimuli. For Incels, we are in constant reflection. It all seems like cope.
 
Yeah, I think normies never realize it because they are constantly bombarded with social interactions an stimuli. For Incels, we are in constant reflection. It all seems like cope.
They are too consumed by their relationships and meaningless interactions that they never stop to think about the bigger picture. It’s as if they mindlessly go about their lives, chasing after temporary highs and superficial satisfaction without ever considering the deeper truths about existence. To be honest, they don't have a reason to think about things. In contrast, we suffer and so we think; we introspect and attempt to rationalize things.
 
They are too consumed by their relationships and meaningless interactions that they never stop to think about the bigger picture. It’s as if they mindlessly go about their lives, chasing after temporary highs and superficial satisfaction without ever considering the deeper truths about existence. To be honest, they don't have a reason to think about things. In contrast, we suffer and so we think; we introspect and attempt to rationalize things.
It's why I believe developmental milestones are so important. Even If we were to magically ascend I believe the years of social isolation and reflection will make us very jaded, not at all a normie even if we eventually have comparable lifestyles. It's very, very important for life to be like a waterslide, just let it carry you, if you are stuck you will be stuck forever, even if you can now move.
 
It's why I believe developmental milestones are so important. Even If we were to magically ascend I believe the years of social isolation and reflection will make us very jaded, not at all a normie even if we eventually have comparable lifestyles. It's very, very important for life to be like a waterslide, just let it carry you, if you are stuck you will be stuck forever, even if you can now move.
Totally agree, even if you magically get a 'normal' life later, you’ll never really be the same. The social exclusion and reflection time doesn’t just vanish.
 
i showed my mom a crystal which is my hobby and she said it will never make me happy

so i don't care about having hobbies anymore because she's right. screw hobbies i wanted a qt3.14 pipsqueak cuddle buddy
 
You wouldn't be saying that if you had a 18 year old MID TIER HQNP foid in your bed
 
Yeah, I think normies never realize it because they are constantly bombarded with social interactions an stimuli. For Incels, we are in constant reflection. It all seems like cope.
They realize it, even foids, but they don't care. And I wouldn't care either, if I had at least the chance of living a happy life like they do.
 
The key to being happy isn't a search for meaning, it's to just keep yourself busy with unimportant nonsense and eventually, you'll be dead.
 
Yeah, I think normies never realize it because they are constantly bombarded with social interactions an stimuli. For Incels, we are in constant reflection. It all seems like cope.
Didn't you quote Bible couple of times. Aren't you christian?
 
gotta find new copes or rotate copes

i watch movies on my bed when I'm feeling really down

the problem with video games is that i get bored so I gotta keep finding new video games.
 
Same, I am detached and distant even with my family. I am unable to truly have connection with people, to say I love my family is a lie, I just see it as my duty to take care of them like with my gramps for an example, I am like an observer watching from a far as they let out emotion and dreams that is alien to me yet I understand why it drives them because I don’t have autism and not fixated on things just like you.

My Adhd and life experience have turned me to the man I am right now, the Ghost or monster I will stay as forever.
 

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