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Serious Letting go as an incel is important, but extremely painful.

NIKOCADO AVOCADO

NIKOCADO AVOCADO

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After a certain age, letting go the fantasies and wishes of wanting a partner and love and the classic tale of finding the right one are very important, you can't be hopeful all your life, not only it can't make you do retarded things, but it will keep poisoning your soul.

I believe most incels will have to learn letting go once they hit 25 or 30, but the steps to get there are extremely painful and its never perfect, its never easy to admit defeat, especially when the defeat comes from things completely out of our control, but at some point one breaks and once that happens, it is done, you simply become numb to the idea of having a normal existence.

Of course you still will be mad at your situation and most people, but you will also find a balance on the things you're passionate about even if they're weird as shit and the pain you have to endure, i wish most brocels here the best for this evolution, cause it can make you extremely depressed and suicidal for months.

Letting go as an incel and admiting total defeat is one of the toughest challenges we face as social failures
 
Yeah, I guess it's just natural to cope and hope that randomly your life will change. You look around and see everyone suceeding,but at some point you TRULY realize it's over and nothing will ever change. Like,completely accepting it and knowing it are 2 different things
 
I'm 20 but I've already stopped hoping. 1-2 years ago I was saying "maybe" but that's not the case anymore.
 
Just be a schopenhauercel and dedicate your life to a particular passion or interest. It can be anything so long as it sustains you
 
Yeah, I guess it's just natural to cope and hope that randomly your life will change. You look around and see everyone suceeding,but at some point you TRULY realize it's over and nothing will ever change. Like,completely accepting it and knowing it are 2 different things
mkei gray
 
The expectations you put on yourself need to drop after a certain point, especially if you had high hopes for your life when you were young. You can still achieve lots (like making money, fucking whores and having fun in w/e way you can manage, some of us might even get a girl sooner or later), but fake hope and baseless dreams will only torture you if you don't let go of them.
 
Yeah, I guess it's just natural to cope and hope that randomly your life will change. You look around and see everyone suceeding,but at some point you TRULY realize it's over and nothing will ever change. Like,completely accepting it and knowing it are 2 different things
 
I'd say that I have given up hope completely. But sometimes I still hope to wake up from this terrible dream, no matter how delusional it is. It's as if I am waiting for a movie that's not going to start.
 
i gave up on foids, now i just focus on my hobbies. My wallet is bleeding but im somewhat "happy" atleast.
 
I'd say that I have given up hope completely. But sometimes I still hope to wake up from this terrible dream, no matter how delusional it is. It's as if I am waiting for a movie that's not going to start.
 
i gave up on foids, now i just focus on my hobbies. My wallet is bleeding but im somewhat "happy" atleast.

You and me both pal, next year gonna be brutal for my wallet
 
I'd say that I have given up hope completely. But sometimes I still hope to wake up from this terrible dream, no matter how delusional it is. It's as if I am waiting for a movie that's not going to start.
 
Wtf do you do then? Do you just exist?
 
It's been 6 years and I still haven't been able to let go of my onitus FML!
 
After a certain age, letting go the fantasies and wishes of wanting a partner and love and the classic tale of finding the right one are very important, you can't be hopeful all your life, not only it can't make you do retarded things, but it will keep poisoning your soul.

I believe most incels will have to learn letting go once they hit 25 or 30, but the steps to get there are extremely painful and its never perfect, its never easy to admit defeat, especially when the defeat comes from things completely out of our control, but at some point one breaks and once that happens, it is done, you simply become numb to the idea of having a normal existence.

Of course you still will be mad at your situation and most people, but you will also find a balance on the things you're passionate about even if they're weird as shit and the pain you have to endure, i wish most brocels here the best for this evolution, cause it can make you extremely depressed and suicidal for months.

Letting go as an incel and admiting total defeat is one of the toughest challenges we face as social failures
It's okay to let go but remember to focus on spirituality. The pain may feel unbearable, but the divine light will help guide you through.
 
Oh hey...

Just a heads up, try not to push you're philosophy all the time. It's considered "preaching" and will get you either banned or ignored.

Many alt philosophy dudes have come and gone due to such behavior. (Funny how they let the Christains stay. Most get ignored, then they fade away.)

Anyway, try to be a bro first, then you can spout whatever philosophy you have. As long as it's useful and not bluepilled.

We do have a philosophy section....
 
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After a certain age, letting go the fantasies and wishes of wanting a partner and love and the classic tale of finding the right one are very important, you can't be hopeful all your life, not only it can't make you do retarded things, but it will keep poisoning your soul.

I believe most incels will have to learn letting go once they hit 25 or 30, but the steps to get there are extremely painful and its never perfect, its never easy to admit defeat, especially when the defeat comes from things completely out of our control, but at some point one breaks and once that happens, it is done, you simply become numb to the idea of having a normal existence.

Of course you still will be mad at your situation and most people, but you will also find a balance on the things you're passionate about even if they're weird as shit and the pain you have to endure, i wish most brocels here the best for this evolution, cause it can make you extremely depressed and suicidal for months.

Letting go as an incel and admiting total defeat is one of the toughest challenges we face as social failures
This is cucked. You shouldn’t let go. If anything transfer it to bringing the world around you down with you. The final titan

I’m talking making everyone’s life around you hell in secret, fighting against nature

Tatakae tatakae tatakae,, and even gaslight them into thinking it was their fault and nature. HAHAHAHAHH I DO THIS ALREdy at my WORK NIGGAS BELIEVE THEIR TORES POPPED DUE TO WEATHER OR THEY LOSt their wallets in their car seats ahahaahha

This my last war
 
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Oh hey...

Just a heads up, try not to push you're philosophy all the time. It's considered "preaching" and will get you either banned or ignored.

Many alt philosophy dudes have come and gone due to such behavior. (Funny how they let the Christains stay. Most get ignored, then they fade away.)

Anyway, try to be a bro first, then you can spout whatever philosophy you have. As long as it's useful and not bluepilled.

We do have a philosophy section....
This, such organic takes will be rightfully banned
 
Oh hey...

Just a heads up, try not to push you're philosophy all the time. It's considered "preaching" and will get you either banned or ignored.

Many alt philosophy dudes have come and gone due to such behavior. (Funny how they let the Christains stay. Most get ignored, then they fade away.)

Anyway, try to be a bro first, then you can spout whatever philosophy you have. As long as it's useful and not bluepilled.

We do have a philosophy section....
 
This is so true. I am 30, never had a girlfriend, yet until recently I was so hopeful of meeting some girl that I can actually love and will love me in in return, but having that hope makes you do extremely stupid shit. HOPE MUST DIE!
 
This is so true. I am 30, never had a girlfriend, yet until recently I was so hopeful of meeting some girl that I can actually love and will love me in in return, but having that hope makes you do extremely stupid shit. HOPE MUST DIE!
my wiz friend had his realization at 35 after meeting me and getting blackpilled, it was like seeing his third eye open
 
my wiz friend had his realization at 35 after meeting me and getting blackpilled, it was like seeing his third eye open
I made a pledge never to do stupid things in real life for foids ever again, especially since I finally have a tolerable job
 
I made a pledge never to do stupid things in real life for foids ever again, especially since I finally have a tolerable job

I've learned to let go after almost dying on octuber and my copes have gotten so much more enjoyable, life sucks sometimes but at least when im at my bubble its so much better now
 
I've learned to let go after almost dying on octuber and my copes have gotten so much more enjoyable, life sucks sometimes but at least when im at my bubble its so much better now
What happened?
 

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