Yes, I know Tinder and similar apps are major enablers of hypergamy and chad-only chasing.
But the way it works, prioritizing photos (people's looks) and how only women and Chads are successful in these apps made it clear as day something that was seen as fringe decades ago: the notion that looks, and looks only, matters in attraction. Particularly to women who were always portrayed as holy rational beings as opposite to the "visual and shallow men". Because you know, men (many who are thirsty and would fuck anything) only care about hot Stacies with big boobs, and women absolutely care about a man's personality, having a model-tier face, 6' height and a 6-pack has nothing to do with it \s
I remember as an oldcel that during the 2000s, internet communities that discussed Lookism were seen as a thing for schizos and massive autists, many thought that way, myself included. Because, you know, "there more than just looks"
, "women put money and status before looks" []. Turns out those PSL "schizos" were right all along, and they would never really been proven "right" until Tinder and mass Chadfishing attempts came along.
I did not believe in Lookism until I created a Chadfish account myself in 2013. I was devastated back then, but then this realization made me stop blaming myself for my failures and fruitless attempts to approach women. It's not my fault I wasn't born conventionally attractive, and I'm invisible to women not because "I don't have game" or because "I'm a low status male", but simply because my flesh and bone arrangement is not pleasing enough to them and that's something I never really had full control over.
But the way it works, prioritizing photos (people's looks) and how only women and Chads are successful in these apps made it clear as day something that was seen as fringe decades ago: the notion that looks, and looks only, matters in attraction. Particularly to women who were always portrayed as holy rational beings as opposite to the "visual and shallow men". Because you know, men (many who are thirsty and would fuck anything) only care about hot Stacies with big boobs, and women absolutely care about a man's personality, having a model-tier face, 6' height and a 6-pack has nothing to do with it \s
I remember as an oldcel that during the 2000s, internet communities that discussed Lookism were seen as a thing for schizos and massive autists, many thought that way, myself included. Because, you know, "there more than just looks"
, "women put money and status before looks" []. Turns out those PSL "schizos" were right all along, and they would never really been proven "right" until Tinder and mass Chadfishing attempts came along.I did not believe in Lookism until I created a Chadfish account myself in 2013. I was devastated back then, but then this realization made me stop blaming myself for my failures and fruitless attempts to approach women. It's not my fault I wasn't born conventionally attractive, and I'm invisible to women not because "I don't have game" or because "I'm a low status male", but simply because my flesh and bone arrangement is not pleasing enough to them and that's something I never really had full control over.
