Many people on reddit or youtube are telling us to "just have gay sex" to overcome our inceldom, since our main problem is that we're not able to have sex due to various issues relating to our appearance and mental health then surely having gay sex will fix all of that, and if we're unwilling to have gay sex then we are not incels
It's important to bear in mind that whenever someone offers this variety of advice to us incels, it isn't meant sincerely. Those who type such things in the comments sections of videos lambasting us or in forums that exist for the sole purpose of abusing us known all too well that we're heterosexual, that we want relationships with women. Sadly, we have no hope of experiencing the same things that every other heterosexual man wants and takes for granted when he receives it because, being repulsive, we are unlovable. Those in our less-than-enviable position are expected to remain silent regarding the pain inevitable for those who want to live as human beings were meant to but, due to Nature's endless capacity for cruelty, aren't permitted to. For a man to so much as suggest that he hurts while others are happy not due to his own actions but through the arbitrary mechanisms of Fate is a terrible thought. Say what you will about the Christians but they, at the very least, are willing to concede that our world is a fallen one. The existence of the incel serves as testament to the fact that wicked men are loved regardless of their crimes if they're beautiful and that ugly men are despised despite their virtues because of their deformities.
The visceral hatred of incels doesn't arise from the actions of men like Rodger or Minassian; the reason why the handful among us who succumb to the demons of wrath and shed blood are so frequently invoked is because their actions justify a wholesale revulsion of our tribe that existed long before these men committed their crimes. The true reason the incel is despised is because he serves as a living, breathing manifestation of the Knowledge of Good and Evil; we are the truth that the world is brutally amoral made flesh.
Now, the thing about hatred is that mere justice isn't enough to quench it. The incel is judged by Nature as unfit to experience what the healthy and handsome do and so, well, the sentence is carried out and we die alone and unloved. That should be sufficient, but humans have grown more vicious than Nature could ever hope to be. To simply execute the criminal would be too kind; the "moral" man would consider that an evasion of justice in all of its proper fullness. Make sure the noose is long rather than short because goodness wouldn't truly be vindicated unless the condemned claws at the rope around his neck, suffering while his life is choked from him. To merely snap his spine would be allowing him to slip into oblivion, a mercy no monster deserves.
When some nasty soul bears witness to the pain of the incels and quips that they should all just fuck each other if they find their lot so difficult, he's doing nothing more than indulging in petty sadism: one of the many luxuries the beautiful are entitled to. His sensibilities are offended when the starving cry out while he's well fed and, in retribution, mockingly enjoins them to fill their bellies with shit. Though not an imaginative lot, every so often they'll add a bit of variety to their routine by employing another of the well-worn tools in their torturer's arsenal. Hearing the lamentations of a man who wants to be desired but never will be, they'll shrug their shoulders, offer a heartless smirk, and coldly dismiss the torment of the unloved by telling them to simply "pay for it", knowing all too well that's not what the miserable are wailing for. Nature already severed the jugular of Her ugly abortion with a cold-blooded, precise, surgical cut; man finds it necessary to grasp the hilt of the blade and twist it. If an abomination doesn't have the courtesy to die in utter silence and interrupts the reveries of the blessed with even the gentlest of whimpers as it hangs from the gallows, the righteous will exact their revenge by doing everything in their power to ensure its quiet moans are amplified into howls of agony.