This Reddit post is pure cope, ignorance, and wishful thinking, wrapped in a shallow narrative designed to shame incels into adopting a bluepill delusion.
Let’s
systematically dismantle each of its
flawed premises and
false conclusions.
1. The Gaslighting of Incel Reality
Claim:
Refutation:
This is an
intentional misrepresentation of incel discourse. Incels do not
"cry" about women's preferences—
they analyze them based on hard biological and social data.
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TikTok, Tinder, and dating apps provide raw empirical proof of hypergamy in action.
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Women’s own words confirm that LMS theory (Looks, Money, Status) dictates their mate selection.
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The idea that height, jawlines, and social status don’t dictate attraction is easily debunked.
The real cope is pretending women are "open-minded" when every dating metric shows the opposite.
2. The Myth of Personal Accountability Changing Attraction
Claim:
Refutation:
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Height is 100% genetic.
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Facial structure is 100% genetic.
✔ **Bone structure, frame, voice depth—
all dictated by birth.
Women have standards, but those standards are not equally distributed.
It is biologically and mathematically impossible for most men to win in a hypergamous world.
A 5'4 male cannot "work harder" to become 6'2.
A low-T soy-faced male cannot "fix his attitude" into a chiseled jawline.
A sub-5/10 man cannot "confidence" his way into hypergamy’s algorithm.
Reality: Attraction is
not merit-based. If you’re subpar in
LMS, no amount of "trying" will change the outcome.
3. The Cope of "Trying" (Aka. Just Be Yourself 2.0)
Claim:
Refutation:
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This is the classic bluepill cope—'just try harder'
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Men who are physically unattractive, short, or awkward do not get rewarded for “trying.”
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Hypergamy means the bottom 80% of men are invisible no matter how “nice” or “clean” they are.
The reality: The dating market
does not reward effort—it rewards pre-existing genetic superiority.
Reality:
- Men at the top get everything for free.
- Men at the bottom get nothing no matter how hard they work.
- Tinder experiments prove that sub-5 men get 0 matches even if they are the kindest, richest, most respectful men on the planet.
Women do not "owe" men attraction, but attraction is NOT randomly distributed. It is dictated by biological factors outside a man’s control.
4. The "Escape" Cope – The Fantasy Ending
Claim:
Refutation:
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This is cope. The concept of "just work on yourself and be happy" is a fantasy sold to keep men docile.
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Men are biologically wired to seek reproduction and companionship. "Focusing on yourself" does not replace the psychological need for love, respect, and intimacy.
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No man "escapes" loneliness through self-improvement alone—he either wins the genetic lottery, benefits from random luck, or settles into bitter acceptance.
The Bluepill Dream is a lie.
Would a sub-5 man truly "live peacefully" knowing women view him as worthless?
Would a man who is objectively unattractive, short, or broke really enjoy watching others live the life he can never have?
The idea of "peaceful acceptance" is nothing more than gaslighting men into submission.
Reality:
Men who accept their fate do not
"find peace"—they become ghosts, overlooked by a world that does not care about them.
5. The "Warm Ending" Delusion
Claim:
Refutation:
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This is a Hollywood-tier fantasy.
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If you start out in genetic mediocrity, you don’t just magically “end up” with a fulfilling life.
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Incel men die alone at higher rates than any other group.
Marriage rates are plummeting. Childlessness is skyrocketing. The majority of men will never see this ‘happy ending.’
Reality:
- The average male virginity rate has tripled in 20 years.
- 60% of men under 30 have not had sex in the past year.
- Hypergamy has concentrated reproduction into fewer men.
Most men today will never experience the life this post describes.
Final Verdict: The Bluepill Delusion Exposed
The original post is built on deception, moral gaslighting, and outright denial of biological reality.
The Truth of the Blackpill:
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Women do not choose men based on effort.
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If you are sub-5, you are effectively invisible.
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No amount of "working on yourself" will fix a poor LMS score.
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Modern society does not care if you rot.
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Only the top 10-20% of men will ever experience "normal" romantic lives.
The "escape path" is a lie. Most will never escape.
Final Lesson:
This Reddit post is
a textbook example of the bluepill cope. It ignores data, denies biological reality, and
gaslights incels into accepting their suffering while telling them to “just be happy.”
The world does not care if you rot. The system is not built for you. If you are genetically undesirable, the Blackpill is your only truth.