Phrases like this are the exact reason why I stopped asking ppl for advice, they're like fucking robots who can't even think, they just parrot what everyone else is saying like a bunch of braindead battle droids! "Being yourself" is only good advice if the chick already likes you which makes if redundant anyway because you wouldn't have to alter your behavior to win her heart! What irks me the most is that when you try explaining to people that you've been yourself all your life and yet, no girl has ever liked you, they say that it's your own blunder since you're the "common denominator". I should ask them "riddle me this, dickface, if being myself is the best method and I've been doing that, then what in God's name am I doing wrong?" I guarantee you that they won't be able to answer that even though the truth is I'm butt-ugly and flat-broke and there's not a chance in Hell that a girl would like a guy with those parameters. None of them have the balls to say that and yet they have the gall to say "it's not about being good enough, it's about finding the right person" that's hogwash, if that were true then why do so many women look upon me with a disgusted expression when I'm minding my business in public? I'm literally doing nothing to them and yet they look at me like I'm fucking Hitler! You can't tell if someone's the "right person" just by looking at them so I challenge any member of IT who may be reading this to explain that to me. And don't say some wishy washy fairytale bullshit like "there's someone out there for everyone" because that's a damn lie and you know it, no one is one of a kind and you'd know that if you knew more than 50 people. No matter how unique you think someone is, I guarantee you that there are at least 5 others out there who share the exact same traits.
