Blackpill "just be low inhib bro"

[mutant]

Fears usually exist because they have a protective function.
Without fears, we all were already dead.

In terms of dating, approach fear in men serves an important function:
Men, who have a too low social status, should not try to date attractive females, because

1.) The Alphas may beat them up/kill them if the loser takes women.

2.) Visible rejection by the female will lower your social status in the group even more.

3.) Due to mate copying (a feeling males do not have), females are aroused by males who have sexual success, but disgusted at males they witness or learn of to have low/no sexual success.
Therefore, males have "dating inhibition" as long as they have low status, felt in form of fear of dating or even being near to or asking women out.
It protects them from females seeing a rejection by another female from this male, which would crash his attractiveness greatly in their eyes/feelings.
This is also the reason low-status males prefer asking females out when alone with the female,
not in public under scrutiny of other apes/humans/females.



If you think your fear is the problem and remove it by therapy or drugs or whatever,
you will not become successful, but self-destructive, physically, socially and sexually.

Improve your social status, become rich, powerful, respected, liked, beautiful, strong and successful, and your social and sexual fear will vanish, just as evolution intended.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Guys like this are never high inhib. Literal Chads (from bachlorette)

 

[Kokoro]

Fears usually exist because they have a protective function.
Without fears, we all were already dead.

In terms of dating, approach fear in men serves an important function:
Men, who have a too low social status, should not try to date attractive females, because

1.) The Alphas may beat them up/kill them if the loser takes women.

2.) Visible rejection by the female will lower your social status in the group even more.

3.) Due to mate copying (a feeling males do not have), females are aroused by males who have sexual success, but disgusted at males they witness or learn of to have low/no sexual success.
Therefore, males have "dating inhibition" as long as they have low status, felt in form of fear of dating or even being near to or asking women out.
It protects them from females seeing a rejection by another female from this male, which would crash his attractiveness greatly in their eyes/feelings.
This is also the reason low-status males prefer asking females out when alone with the female,
not in public under scrutiny of other apes/humans/females.



If you think your fear is the problem and remove it by therapy or drugs or whatever,
you will not become successful, but self-destructive, physically, socially and sexually.

Improve your social status, become rich, powerful, respected, liked, beautiful, strong and successful, and your social and sexual fear will vanish, just as evolution intended.

"mate copying" gonna make an infographic on this for sure.

 

[Deleted member 60]

2.) Visible rejection by the female will lower your social status in the group even more.

lol what group?

If you think your fear is the problem and remove it by therapy or drugs or whatever,
you will not become successful, but self-destructive, physically, socially and sexually.

this is my future

 

[mutant]

lol what group?

you've drawn attention to a good point, in that it does not matter if you embarrass yourself in front of a group you have a low investment in. This is how I consider everyone who exists outside of my neetcave.

 

[Leamb]

High IQ

Let me make a comparison:

For decades, the field of social psychology tought that humans carry harmful stereotypes. People have negative general beliefs about certain groups of people, which works as a self-fulfilling prophecy to put those groups down even more. Well, it turns out that most stereotypes are actually accurate and non-causative. Even when the stereotype doesn’t apply to a particular individual, people are quick to take that info into account and stop iudging that person based on a generalization. We’re not dumb after all!

Something similar must be going on with shy and depressed people. The common assumption is that they have false beliefs that work as self-fulfilling prophecies. You believe something bad is going to happen if you start talking with that girl, so you don’t. “Just talk to her, bro!” Nope, that belief is probably accurate. People do exaggerate sometimes, but not as frequently as commonly tought.

Does that mean that it’s ogre if you’re shy or depressed? No. But it’s probably much better to change your situation than to just change your beliefs.

 

[Kokoro]

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[mutant]

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Nice, my input would be trying to make it interesting to women. You only need to make one of the series make them curious enough to look at the rest in a different light. The tinder experiments are actually really good at this too, you need something to shock them.

 

[Kokoro]

Nice, my input would be trying to make it interesting to women. You only need to make one of the series make them curious enough to look at the rest in a different light. The tinder experiments are actually really good at this too, you need something to shock them.

I will try to do some experiments myself, maybe do overweight female vs average guy.

 

[Anger]

''Just be urself brah it works for me''

 

[Reprobus]

About mate copying, it's similar to how you know it's ogre when you get rejected the first few times by women. If one woman doesn't like you it can mean all of them