Lv99_BixNood
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My wife (36F) and me (38M) have been dating for around 7 years now, approaching 8 next month. We have recently gotten married and things were going pretty smoothly, I’ve been in a good place mentally and haven’t had barely any alcohol since meeting her. (Used to have a drinking problem)
We have 4 kids together, 3 of which are from a previous relationship so they are not mine biologically but I love them as if they were my own. I am only mentioning this because I think it is relevant to the topic, but they are half-Korean.
We have binged both seasons of Squid Game over the past week or so. I am not overly fond of the show but my wife loves it, so I watch it for her mainly. Ever since then, though, she has been making increasingly concerning remarks about Gi Hun Squid Game.
Earlier this morning, my wife has confessed to me that she struggles to climax if she does not think of Gi Hun Squid Game. I have noticed that our intimacy has dropped around the same time we started watching the show. I must say, I do not resemble this man at all. White, blue eyes, brown hair, pale. Irish. She talks about Gi Hun Squid Game like he is her husband and not me. She compliments his features TO me as if I’m supposed to agree.
I feel I will never be able to live up to her standards and have become quite insecure in myself. I worry she will leave me for a Korean man soon, as all of her past relationships that I know of have also been with Asian men.
@anandkonda