SuicideFuel “Just ask her out, what’s the worst thing that could happen?”

[Guest37263]

This bluepill advice is a actually bullshit because it doesn’t take into account the most important thing.

That getting rejected fucking hurts. Especially when it is the only thing you’ve ever known in life, and especially when you’ve never known what it’s like to be wanted by someone else. To have it repeatedly, painfully reaffirmed to you that you are unwanted and unattractive by every girl you develop feelings for, can do irreparable damage to your sense of self worth/self esteem, and really make you wonder if anyone will ever actually say yes. If anyone will actually love you in life, or If you’re going to spend life alone. It’s fucking damaging ok. The insecurity and low self worth can permeate to every other aspect of an incel’s life and make life a horrible daily experience from which some of us would rather just not be a part of. I know I certainly dream of death, as life makes me cry almost every day, and I do not have fun living it.

And to be told to just suck it up and move on, is honestly just disheartening to listen to. Every time I meet a new girl I’m attracted to, all those rejections and painful insecurity and experiences of the past come bubbling up again in anticipation of it probably happening again. It makes me want to cry. I feel like an ugly, undesirable ogre. And that’s because I AM an ogre.


Honestly, fuck you assholes who don’t understand how painful a lifetime of accumulated endless rejections can be.


To those who have the mental fortitude to not care, GOOD FOR YOU. The advice to suck it up and move on is good advice yes, but so much fucking easier said than done. Congratulations if you’re an emotionally strong motherfucker but I’m not, so pls have some understanding

 

[TheRealChincel]

You can become emotionally stronger though, OP. I used to be a nervous wreck approaching women bc I knew my success rate would be 0% AND there was a good chance I’d be laughed at or cruelly insulted by her. However, it unsettled me to let women have such power over me so I forced myself approach and while I had no success, at least now I tried more than a hundred men combined ever did and can laugh off rejection. You’ve said that you don’t want to die alone, yes? Think about that when you approach and if that doesn’t give you a kick in the ass, I don’t know what will.

 

[Incelhope]

Bro if we agree foids are animals, why does it hurt when getting rejected like one time we call them shit etc yet we feel emotional eh sounds like a stupid circle tbh

 

[Smallframecel]

If u r still seeking love and validation form femoids then u learned nothing women r the inferior sex hey cannot think for themselves if tomorrow u should no see them as a human being

 

[FrothySolutions]

It's times like this that I ask myself, what advice would people give a non-incel?

 

[Guest2]

Very good post. There is negligible benefits from approaching when the chances are ~0. It's just pointless and reinforces female privilege when they can call us creepy and weird and won't even remember us in a day or two because we were just a jester for a few minutes in that we mean nothing to them, just a source of morbid entertainment.

 

[iblamemyself]

She could post you on instacuck and ruin your reputation. She could also destroy your life with a metoo accusation.
But a normal rejection is bad enough for the reasons OP has already stated. I don't approach anymore. Forget about it. Not unless the foid gives me a sign of interest.

 

[Ignas]

True ragefuel for me everytime they always tell us to man up and move on instead of being sad as if we only suffered from simply one rejection, not accumulation of rejections

 

[Grotesque]

I asked my therapist out...

 

[Damo the incel]

I asked my therapist out...

Should have just smashed her head in instead

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Not only does the rejection itself hurt, but you get socially ostracized, and sometimes even punished by the law.

 

[GoonCel]

arrest possibly

 

[Valiant Virgin]

You can become emotionally stronger though, OP. I used to be a nervous wreck approaching women bc I knew my success rate would be 0% AND there was a good chance I’d be laughed at or cruelly insulted by her. However, it unsettled me to let women have such power over me so I forced myself approach and while I had no success, at least now I tried more than a hundred men combined ever did and can laugh off rejection. You’ve said that you don’t want to die alone, yes? Think about that when you approach and if that doesn’t give you a kick in the ass, I don’t know what will.

Good post.

I've approached over 150 girls, and while I've also had no success, there's something rewarding about knowing you've tried harder than the vast majority of guys your age.

OP - at this point, if you want to do approaches, you're probably best spreading them out over a longer period of time. Too much rejection in a short space of time can take its toll.

 

[jet112]

Good post.

I've approached over 150 girls, and while I've also had no success, there's something rewarding about knowing you've tried harder than the vast majority of guys your age.

OP - at this point, if you want to do approaches, you're probably best spreading them out over a longer period of time. Too much rejection in a short space of time can take its toll.

you've approached over 150 girls? what the fuck?
didn't read the field reports. can u tell me more?

 

[Deleted member 677]

I asked my therapist out...

Should have just smashed her head in instead

 

[quinn24]

just get kicked out of university bro

 

[Valiant Virgin]

you've approached over 150 girls? what the fuck?
didn't read the field reports. can u tell me more?

I've approached in streets, malls, shops...girls who were alone, with their friends, with their mothers, at their work.

Majority of approaches resulted in quick rejection. Many girls walked away as soon as I told them I found them attractive.

5 girls gave me contact details with a view to arranging a date. 4/5 never followed up (didn't accept Facebook requests, didn't answer calls), the other one didn't come on a date.

I'm planning to do one last approach session for the year on Sunday so will probably report back here.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

The fbi will be at your door, dont try to approach.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

Not only does the rejection itself hurt, but you get socially ostracized, and sometimes even punished by the law.

 

[Grotesque]

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lololol That so looks like her fat ass when she was young too

I FUCKING HATE YOU ONEITIS

 

[jet112]

I've approached in streets, malls, shops...girls who were alone, with their friends, with their mothers, at their work.

Majority of approaches resulted in quick rejection. Many girls walked away as soon as I told them I found them attractive.

5 girls gave me contact details with a view to arranging a date. 4/5 never followed up (didn't accept Facebook requests, didn't answer calls), the other one didn't come on a date.

I'm planning to do one last approach session for the year on Sunday so will probably report back here.

fuck man. good luck
ill start approaching in 2019, god help us all