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Jesus tinder is depressing

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ukizabonje99

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Installed it today for the first time, swiped right on every single girl and no matches yet. I'm probably gonna cry now.
 
You'd willingly put yourself through the pain of Tinder, knowing what will come of it? You're suicidal lol
 
Tinder is a waste of time for sub 8 ethnics and sub 6.5 whites
 
I know that feeling buddy, that's why you should looksmax first before trying it again
 
I know that feeling buddy, that's why you should looksmax first before trying it again
 
I know that feeling buddy, that's why you should looksmax first before trying it again
I literally used the best pictures i have, and im quite looksmaxxed already, as much as i can be...guess im gonna go kill myself then
 
its because you are ugly
 
you're ugly lol. Just like me. Accept your genetic destiny and rot.
 
so I tried this tinder experiment.

I got like a 1/10 guy's pictures
and a catfish god picture 9/10
and then an average guy 5/10

and I thought that if I did that, I could then try my own pics to see where I fit in on the scale.

Problem being 1/10 guy got no matches, no replies.
5/10 guy got no matches, no replies.
catfish guy got fucking everything.

tinder is just not for you unless you're 9/10 or above. it's a fucking train wreck of hypergamy
 
so I tried this tinder experiment.

I got like a 1/10 guy's pictures
and a catfish god picture 9/10
and then an average guy 5/10

and I thought that if I did that, I could then try my own pics to see where I fit in on the scale.

Problem being 1/10 guy got no matches, no replies.
5/10 guy got no matches, no replies.
catfish guy got fucking everything.

tinder is just not for you unless you're 9/10 or above. it's a fucking train wreck of hypergamy
Yeah im definitely not a 9/10, i might be a 5 but even that's generous.
 
Yeah im definitely not a 9/10, i might be a 5 but even that's generous.

Yeah and that's why tinder is fucking suifuel.

I (don't think) I'm totally deformed or whatever, but hard to tell your own attractiveness. Tinder is the worst though. I took an average guy's photos, (he has a gf in real life and she's not a stunner but pretty cute) made his profile sound like he was interesting (love travel, got a puppy, works in finance) and he got fucking NOTHING. Like not even a landwhale or some single moms.

Meanwhile, the bodybuilding chad guy... put the shittiest profile "Hey I love the gym, movies and eating pizza" and he got a shit ton of response.

So I guess my point is don't feel too bad you're not getting anywhere with tinder. Unless you're top 1% or whatever, it's over before you start.
 
OP did you come from a time machine?
 
Yeah and that's why tinder is fucking suifuel.

I (don't think) I'm totally deformed or whatever, but hard to tell your own attractiveness. Tinder is the worst though. I took an average guy's photos, (he has a gf in real life and she's not a stunner but pretty cute) made his profile sound like he was interesting (love travel, got a puppy, works in finance) and he got fucking NOTHING. Like not even a landwhale or some single moms.

Meanwhile, the bodybuilding chad guy... put the shittiest profile "Hey I love the gym, movies and eating pizza" and he got a shit ton of response.

So I guess my point is don't feel too bad you're not getting anywhere with tinder. Unless you're top 1% or whatever, it's over before you start.
The times we live in...it's gonna get better when i stop caring i think
 
Swiping right on every woman serves no purpose since Tinder provides an indicator that someone has right-swiped you. All you do is max out your limit (unless you're paying for it, which you shouldn't). The better way to utilize Tinder is to simply install it, and forget about it, let it do it's thing. If someone does right swipe you and you haven't opened it in awhile you will get a notification and utilizing it this way seriously cuts down on depression. But tbh Tinder is a broken system... Most of the women on there just want instagram followers or use it to boost their own ego believing that "all these guys" are interested in them when in reality most are simply doing what you just did. All you're doing is giving them more fuel..
 
i have tinder gold. out of 883 swipes i only got 6 LIKES. 4 fake and 2 real
 
Swiping right on every woman serves no purpose since Tinder provides an indicator that someone has right-swiped you. All you do is max out your limit (unless you're paying for it, which you shouldn't). The better way to utilize Tinder is to simply install it, and forget about it, let it do it's thing. If someone does right swipe you and you haven't opened it in awhile you will get a notification and utilizing it this way seriously cuts down on depression. But tbh Tinder is a broken system... Most of the women on there just want instagram followers or use it to boost their own ego believing that "all these guys" are interested in them when in reality most are simply doing what you just did. All you're doing is giving them more fuel..
Damn, didn't even think about that. I guess im gonna forget about tinder for a while then. Thanks man :D
 
I have had tinder for 5 months, only ever got 5 matches, talked to one and she ghosted me in 1 hour. Tinder is fucking brutal.
 
yah i used once tinder too, until i matched with a transsexual , the only match in 2 weeks , uninstalled right after
 
Swiping right on every woman serves no purpose since Tinder provides an indicator that someone has right-swiped you. All you do is max out your limit (unless you're paying for it, which you shouldn't). The better way to utilize Tinder is to simply install it, and forget about it, let it do it's thing. If someone does right swipe you and you haven't opened it in awhile you will get a notification and utilizing it this way seriously cuts down on depression. But tbh Tinder is a broken system... Most of the women on there just want instagram followers or use it to boost their own ego believing that "all these guys" are interested in them when in reality most are simply doing what you just did. All you're doing is giving them more fuel..

I never heard of this notification. You only get notified if you have Gold. And if you don't swipe you'll hardly appear for girls to swipe back after the first week.
 
I never heard of this notification. You only get notified if you have Gold. And if you don't swipe you'll hardly appear for girls to swipe back after the first week.

It exists. You have to not have opened it for awhile. It's a marketing ploy to keep people invested. It reads like "Someone likes you and you haven't opened Tinder for awhile, you should go check them out!". You're correct in that if you open it regularly you will get no notification, however the indicator for pending likes does still exist (Tinder gold shows you who they are, but with Tinder free it still prioritizes those who have right-swiped you to the top of your swiping list, you will hit them within the first 10 swipes.)
 
It exists. You have to not have opened it for awhile. It's a marketing ploy to keep people invested. It reads like "Someone likes you and you haven't opened Tinder for awhile, you should go check them out!". You're correct in that if you open it regularly you will get no notification, however the indicator for pending likes does still exist (Tinder gold shows you who they are, but with Tinder free it still prioritizes those who have right-swiped you to the top of your swiping list, you will hit them within the first 10 swipes.)

But how do you know that isn't just randomised marketing?
 
yes it is my friend, last time i tried it was back in late 2016 when i was 20 and unemployed.

thinking about trying online dating ( tinder/pof) again now that im in work again and see if i have any luck.
 
yes it is my friend, last time i tried it was back in late 2016 when i was 20 and unemployed.

thinking about trying online dating ( tinder/pof) again now that im in work again and see if i have any luck.
Why not man, maybe you do get lucky this time who knows. Good luck !
 
Why not man, maybe you do get lucky this time who knows. Good luck !

Yeh i kinda want to wait until in get my 1st paycheck from this new job before trying again.

Also Pof takes fucking forever to setup
 
I would personally suggest Bumble. It's sold as a feminist Tinder because women have to initiate conversation HOWEVER in practice it does level the playing field somewhat as one of the largest issues with Tinder is the flood of messages women receive. Overall you will have less matches on it, but higher odds of a match leading to an actual conversation or even a meet.
 
If you're not Chad, better dont use tinder
 
Stop going on that ridiculous app
 

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