Hypocrisy Its pretty funny how normies keep telling us to just go outside and make friends. Yet Normies themselves lose most of their friends by 25

[Deleted member 23656]

I'm really tired of how normies think making friends is an easy thing. Its actually very difficult

The truth is most people don't have real friends. They have really good acquaintances from school, uni etc that they happen to know because they're forced into the same classes together.
Notice as soon as school, uni ends etc they stop talking with each other? Thats because the only common chain linking them together which is class etc is no longer there. Therefore they don't have any further need in keeping each other in contact.

The same can be said about friends who you make doing similar hobbies such as sports, games etc. You think they're your really good friends, but once you lose interest in that hobby due to lack of time or energy, there is nothing to chain you and your "friends" together.

By the time you are over 25+, your destiny is set. Chances are you will have 40 years of wagecucking. You have no more time for hobbies etc. Thats why after 25+ you see even normies losing most of their friends coz their chains of connection are gone. Notice how they find it very difficult to make new ones too?

Thats why I cringe at people who give bluepilled advice about making friends. If you are chad or have some special skill then of course you will have friends because people see a use in being connected to you. But if not, people aren't going out of their way to befriend you without a purpose

I really cringe at the times I tried so hard to be social. I actually have nightmares from time to time remembering how cringe I acted. I was so desperate to be accepted etc. But everyone was just laughing at my try hard attempts. You see if I actually had something to offer, I wouldn't need to try at all. But like most normies, I do not and trying to make friends without something to offer is just fucking stupid.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

@Ropemaxx is giga bluepilled on making friends being easy. He thinks ER had a chance to penetrate normie social circles at UCSB, one of the biggest party schools in America.

 

[Ropemaxx]

@Ropemaxx is giga bluepilled on making friends being easy. He thinks ER had a chance to penetrate normie social circles at UCSB, one of the biggest party schools in America.

No he didnt, because he had horrible social skills.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

No he didnt, because he had horrible social skills.

you are a fucking idiot.

Does every ugly person have horrible social skills? There has been tons of studies supporting the facts that uglier people have a harder time making friends. It's because when you're ugly, people see less value in you.

And I'm sure you can find outliers, but the point still stands, uglier people have weak social circles, and good looking people ALWAYS have strong social circles.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Gigabased post
Most "friends" normies have aren't real ones, they just use them to gain social status and dopamine

 

[Deleted member 1252]

This is true. You make friends when you’re young because you don’t have a job to go to and because the world is newer and you’re still enthusiastic about shit. The older you get, the more jaded and tired you become. Everything loses its appeal, especially other people. The world loses all sense of mystery and adventure. Eventually you just don’t care anymore.

 

[Yerberito]

hypocrites

 

[Ropemaxx]

you are a fucking idiot.

Does every ugly person have horrible social skills? There has been tons of studies supporting the facts that uglier people have a harder time making friends. It's because when you're ugly, people see less value in you.

And I'm sure you can find outliers, but the point still stands, uglier people have weak social circles, and good looking people ALWAYS have strong social circles.

Cope, emotional argument

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Cope, emotional argument

 

[Deleted member 21514]

@Ropemaxx is giga bluepilled on making friends being easy. He thinks ER had a chance to penetrate normie social circles at UCSB, one of the biggest party schools in America.

Ropemaxx is a fakecel confirmed tbh

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Ropemaxx is a fakecel confirmed tbh

The problem is that ER did make friends, just low status friends.

Anyone can make friends, the point is the quality of your friends correlates strongly with your looks

 

[Ropemaxx]

Ropemaxx is a fakecel confirmed tbh

ur a mentalcel tbh

The problem is that ER did make friends, just low status friends.

Anyone can make friends, the point is the quality of your friends correlates strongly with your looks

use this excuse all your life. looks make it easier with everything, doesnt make it hard or impossible without good looks.
maybe all the ugly incels in top 100 wealth should have made the excuse that ugly people make less money, see where that would have gotten them

 

[Deleted member 21514]

ur a mentalcel tbh

I know, but i'm also ugly as fuck. I been told that and been treated like shit because of that all my life, that's why i don't give a shit about improving, the best i could get is to work 12 hours per day (since i'm a retard that needs to work minimal wage) to betabuxx a 2/10 landwhale whore

 

[Ropemaxx]

I know, but i'm also ugly as fuck. I been told that and been treated like shit because of that all my life, that's why i don't give a shit about improving, the best i could get is to work 12 hours per day (since i'm a retard that needs to work minimal wage) to betabuxx a 2/10 landwhale whore

everyone is a 2/10 truecel until they show their pics tbh
imagine if someone like @Weed never showed their pic

 

[Deleted member 21514]

everyone is a 2/10 truecel until they show their pics tbh
imagine if someone like @Weed never showed their pic

U can think whatever u want boyo, i won't doxx myself

 

[Weed]

everyone is a 2/10 truecel until they show their pics tbh
imagine if someone like @Weed never showed their pic

I'm 3/10

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Making friends isn’t easy

 

[Ropemaxx]

I'm 3/10

 

[Personalityinkwell]

use this excuse all your life. looks make it easier with everything, doesnt make it hard or impossible without good looks.
maybe all the ugly incels in top 100 wealth should have made the excuse that ugly people make less money, see where that would have gotten them

You sound like someone who says to a 4/10 dude:

"I know dudes who are 4/10 who get laid, you're only slightly below average, if they can do it, you can too."

So in this case, you are saying Elliot's looks are no excuse, yet you would argue the 4/10 dude who struggles to get laid, that looks are an excuse.

Plus there's the fact that ER went to college at UCSB in his sophomore year, after friend groups are formed, and in fact DID still manage to make friends, its just they weren't the types of friends that he could leverage into meeeting girls.

But sure, it's all social skills, looks and logistics can NEVER BE BLAMED EVER NO MATTER WHAT

 

[Ropemaxx]

You sound like someone who says to a 4/10 dude:

"I know dudes who are 4/10 who get laid, you're only slightly below average, if they can do it, you can too."

So in this case, you are saying Elliot's looks are no excuse, yet you would argue the 4/10 dude who struggles to get laid, that looks are an excuse.

Plus there's the fact that ER went to college at UCSB in his sophomore year, after friend groups are formed, and in fact DID still manage to make friends, its just they weren't the types of friends that he could leverage into meeeting girls.

But sure, it's all social skills, looks and logistics can NEVER BE BLAMED EVER NO MATTER WHAT

This is an extremely fallacious argument to begin with since you compare making friends to fucking the opposite sex.
I have never seen ugly men(unless extreme rare exceptions) get laid.
I have however seen again and again and again, ugly people be insanely popular and have loads of friends.

Also i have i been able to make friends, but im unable to attract women. Stop comparing these two.

Life is not an american high school movie.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

This is an extremely fallacious argument to begin with since you compare making friends to fucking the opposite sex.
I have never seen ugly men(unless extreme rare exceptions) get laid.
I have however seen again and again and again, ugly people be insanely popular and have loads of friends.

Also i have i been able to make friends, but im unable to attract women. Stop comparing these two.

Life is not an american high school movie.

4/10 isn't that ugly, it's only slightly below average.

i've seen 4/10 dudes get laid bro.

2/10? No

But 4/10? yes

 

[PPEcel]

I have acquaintances, not friends.

Normies say "I made a friend today at work" when all they did was waste 2 minutes chit-chatting with someone next to the water cooler during their lunch break.

 

[universallyabhorred]

4/10 isn't that ugly, it's only slightly below average.

i've seen 4/10 dudes get laid bro.

2/10? No

But 4/10? yes

ER wasn't 4/10, he was around a 6 face-wise.

 

[Deleted member 25274]

Gigabased post
Most "friends" normies have aren't real ones, they just use them to gain social status and dopamine

 

[TheReaper]

it's all about being useful.
but can you really call friends the people who are around you just because you're providing a service?
all social interactions are fake and filled with hypocrisy.

 

[Deleted member 24272]

My father has only one friend left from his high school years and he is a incel.
İncels are royale they care about people they love unlike normie scum,who will betray their friends like they are throwing a bottle of cola after the first sip.

 

[modern_grendel]

I'm really tired of how normies think making friends is an easy thing. Its actually very difficult

being friendly is easy. making true friends is nigh impossible