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Its obviously impossible to get a girlfriend past a certain age

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Unless you are either very good looking. But a man who is 22 for example, average looks, average job. How can you expect a girl to bother giving you a chance when you are very unimpressive and she doesn't know your past, you are a new person for her. It's impossible, she will go with guys from her youth or risk it for Chad.

Once you are past a certain age, it's over. I say you have a better chance at anything else rather than getting a girlfriend
 
So yeah, I can see why people feel defeated. It's literally impossible for them to ever get a companion, there is no way.
 
I think there is still hope if you're in your early 20s, but your odds rapidly diminish after 25.
 
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it would probably get easier in your 30s as roasties start to settle down.
 
If you’re Chad it’s never over.

You might not get the hot girls you’re used to after a certain age as Chad but you’ll always be able to find someone halfway decent to fuck.

Cat Abc GIF by Bachelor in Paradise
 
I think there is still hope if you're in your early 20s, but your odds rapidly diminish after 25.
Sure it gets worse past 25 but I think really anything past 18 and you’re basically fucked. Gonna be hard af to find a gf when you’re a grown adult KHHV and she has a body count of 5+ and will be repulsed by your inexperience, not to mention even if you do get one, the power imbalance is gonna be insane since you’re so inexperienced and it’s not gonna be a good relationship.

Basically at 18 you’re already super behind and at 20 it gets a lot worse since people are gonna expect more out of you. But obviously thinks will still get progressively worse each year you are KHHV
 
Sure it gets worse past 25 but I think really anything past 18 and you’re basically fucked. Gonna be hard af to find a gf when you’re a grown adult KHHV and she has a body count of 5+ and will be repulsed by your inexperience, not to mention even if you do get one, the power imbalance is gonna be insane since you’re so inexperienced and it’s not gonna be a good relationship.

Basically at 18 you’re already super behind and at 20 it gets a lot worse since people are gonna expect more out of you. But obviously thinks will still get progressively worse each year you are KHHV
Being a khhv past 18 is brutal because you missed teenage love, but I think you can still properly ascend at college in your early 20s. It's basically over once you reach your late-20s and 30s as a khhv.
 
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Being a khhv past 18 is brutal because you missed teenage love, but I think you can still properly ascend at college in your early 20s. It's basically over once you reach your late-20s and 30s.
No college for guys like me with one parent already dead because I have to work to support the house and vehicles we have. I’ll never go to college because I simply can’t afford it, but I also wouldn’t have the willpower for it anyway.

No reason college would be any different than high school anyway sadly
 
Will be 24 years old this year, I told my story on the forum and I don't think it'll get any better:fuk:
 
Unless you betabuxx or some shit (have a house or provide some financial security)
 
When you get older you will either spiral mentally or just get over it. Hopefully the latter.
 
If you not very ugly you could maybe get a single mother landwhale in your 30s but thats hitting rock bottom
 
Statistics agree with you. Only 1.9% of men over 25 years old are virgins.


If you haven't lost it by then, it is pretty much over.
 
Statistics agree with you. Only 1.9% of men over 25 years old are virgins.


If you haven't lost it by then, it is pretty much over.
I lost my V card at 21 to an escort, many such cases!
 
Basically at 18 you’re already super behind and at 20 it gets a lot worse since people are gonna expect more out of you. But obviously thinks will still get progressively worse each year you are KHHV
I agree and don't understand why even here so many people claim there's hope until 25. For actual khhv-dom, it's over as early as 18 and every additional year nukes your chances of ever living a normal sex life even further. Reminder that the average age for first kiss is 13-14, for making out 15/16 and for sex and relationships 17-18.
 
dating after 40 is like trying to find the least piss stained bed sheet in a thrift shop.
 
I agree and don't understand why even here so many people claim there's hope until 25. For actual khhv-dom, it's over as early as 18 and every additional year nukes your chances of ever living a normal sex life even further. Reminder that the average age for first kiss is 13-14, for making out 15/16 and for sex and relationships 17-18.
Brutal, I'm in my mid 20s and feel like I've still never even had a chance to try, Never was around girls my age as a teen and being ignored on dating sites doesnt feel like a "real" rejection as I don't even know how many of the accounts are active
 
I agree and don't understand why even here so many people claim there's hope until 25. For actual khhv-dom, it's over as early as 18 and every additional year nukes your chances of ever living a normal sex life even further. Reminder that the average age for first kiss is 13-14, for making out 15/16 and for sex and relationships 17-18.
Yeah and the average for sex is really much lower, especially for women, but they won’t admit it.

Here’s the real ages if it imo
Age 12-14: first kiss, handholding, and childish love type of relationship
14-16, first actual teen love and likely sex too
16-17, first serious relationship that will last longer.

And similar age differences between each milestone for chads except everything is shifted younger since they have it so much easier.

I judge this from real life observations. No point in presenting its normal to be KHHV till 18 or even almost 25 just to cope. It isn’t.
 
Unless you are either very good looking. But a man who is 22 for example, average looks, average job. How can you expect a girl to bother giving you a chance when you are very unimpressive and she doesn't know your past, you are a new person for her. It's impossible, she will go with guys from her youth or risk it for Chad.

Once you are past a certain age, it's over. I say you have a better chance at anything else rather than getting a girlfriend
You can still find a female partner past 22 however, it will.be a betabuxx relationship.
 
A big problem is the inexperience we have. Foids are turned off by that a lot, and especially if they know no other women has ever wanted you. It shows her you have no value and she gets the 'ick' (your not chad)
 
Age 12-14: first kiss, handholding, and childish love type of relationship
The thought that 13yo's are french kissing each other right now while I cannot even conceptualize intimacy gives me a very special kind of existential dread.
 
The thought that 13yo's are french kissing each other right now while I cannot even conceptualize intimacy gives me a very special kind of existential dread.
How old are you? I’m 20 and yeah it’s ridiculously brutal that literal kids are experiencing the love you never had
 

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