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Misogynist Vegeta

Misogynist Vegeta

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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1hmn49u/do_incels_have_lack_of_dating_common_sense_skills/


"That is to say a common sense skill of understanding social cues, behavioural cues, verbal cues, preferences, and etc specifics details that tend to be either they lack self awareness that they actually do tend to use logical fallacies, biases, false assumptions and etc to conclude that women are shit?"
It's almost like most incels are surprise! not NT, There is no lack of self awareness as many of us are quite aware that not being NT plays a role in why we are so alone. I've come to the conclusion that most modern women are shit based on my real life experiences and how i see women act online. This isn't based on some kind lie that i was sold by other incels, It was based on what i've seen with my own eyes.


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"Many of them lack social common sense because they are on the autistic spectrum, which is something nobody should make fun of."
Ok but why are ITs biggest hits these days always making fun of behaviours that are caused by autism, literally you make fun of @TheTroonAnnihilator because he has sex doll.

"However what they should be ashamed for is when they use the fact of being rejected to fantasize or condone violence towards women."

Why is it wrong to fantasize about violence against women, Normies fantasize about violently assaulting their bosses all time. Normies condone violence against people in higher places all the time, the CEO who was just assassinated proves this. Incels condone violence against women who have treated them as subhuman garbage it's no different then a CEO who treats his customers his personal retirement fund.
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"They lack general social skills as they start as your classic painfully shy insecure guys that only become more so from technology and then toxically insular from listening to other incels and manosphere guys to the point they can't really function in regular social situations, which only makes them even more insular in a vicious cycle."
So close but so far from actually understanding anything about inceldom, Yes most Incels don't start out blackpilled. They get blackpilled from the actions of women a combination of real life experiences confirmed with how women act online. Not a single Incel would be able to blackpill anyone if it wasn't for the horrible behaviour of some women, behaviour they often get away with.
"I call bullshit on most incels being on the spectrum though as they claim to be as yet another excuse just like height or bone structure for said behavior."
Nvm there is no understanding, you're just a retard if you think the people who don't naturally learn to socialize aren't more likely to be on the spectrum. Another normalfag gaslight pretending as if things like height or the face of your shape doesn't matter. Newflash retard if you are not attractive people will not be attracted to you
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"Yes and that is also due to a lack of self awareness, emotional intelligence and not have a concrete grasp of the social contract."
Again has nothing to do with self awareness, AGAIN we are quite aware of how non-NT we are, outside of that i agree so far

"I digress though, these things should be taught in school but the way things are going, I don't see that happening anytime soon."
You are actually retarded if you think this shit can be taught, you either have it or you don't, you can't teach this kind of stuff.

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"I'm not sure they conclude that women are shit. Their starting premise IS that women are shit."
This nigga actually believes we came out of the womb blackpilled, :lul:

"Then they invent endless "facts" proving this".
May a remind you that there is full page document of thousands of women saying horrible shit about short men, does this nigga really think we fucking created those twitter accounts to make women look bad?

"They do not want any kind of relationship with the opposite sex because it means efforts and, sometimes, failure. To them it's way more comfortable to wallow in victimhood and self-pity."
What the fuck are you talking about, we have thousands of posts here of sad bro-cels fantasizing about being in relationship with a woman that actually loves them, You are the most retarded person on IT, congrats.
 
it fags are the biggest subhumans couldnt give 2 shits about what they have to say about us
 
when they start getting on to something and start almost humanizing us, they always for some reason goes full retard within the next sentence. Weird:feelshehe:
 

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1hmn49u/do_incels_have_lack_of_dating_common_sense_skills/


"That is to say a common sense skill of understanding social cues, behavioural cues, verbal cues, preferences, and etc specifics details that tend to be either they lack self awareness that they actually do tend to use logical fallacies, biases, false assumptions and etc to conclude that women are shit?"
It's almost like most incels are surprise! not NT, There is no lack of self awareness as many of us are quite aware that not being NT plays a role in why we are so alone. I've come to the conclusion that most modern women are shit based on my real life experiences and how i see women act online. This isn't based on some kind lie that i was sold by other incels, It was based on what i've seen with my own eyes.


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"Many of them lack social common sense because they are on the autistic spectrum, which is something nobody should make fun of."
Ok but why are ITs biggest hits these days always making fun of behaviours that are caused by autism, literally you make fun of @TheTroonAnnihilator because he has sex doll.

"However what they should be ashamed for is when they use the fact of being rejected to fantasize or condone violence towards women."
Why is it wrong to fantasize about violence against women, Normies fantasize about violently assaulting their bosses all time. Normies condone violence against people in higher places all the time, the CEO who was just assassinated proves this. Incels condone violence against women who have treated them as subhuman garbage it's no different then a CEO who treats his customers his personal retirement fund.
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"They lack general social skills as they start as your classic painfully shy insecure guys that only become more so from technology and then toxically insular from listening to other incels and manosphere guys to the point they can't really function in regular social situations, which only makes them even more insular in a vicious cycle."
So close but so far from actually understanding anything about inceldom, Yes most Incels don't start out blackpilled. They get blackpilled from the actions of women a combination of real life experiences confirmed with how women act online. Not a single Incel would be able to blackpill anyone if it wasn't for the horrible behaviour of some women, behaviour they often get away with.
"I call bullshit on most incels being on the spectrum though as they claim to be as yet another excuse just like height or bone structure for said behavior."
Nvm there is no understanding, you're just a retard if you think the people who don't naturally learn to socialize aren't more likely to be on the spectrum. Another normalfag gaslight pretending as if things like height or the face of your shape doesn't matter. Newflash retard if you are not attractive people will not be attracted to you
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"Yes and that is also due to a lack of self awareness, emotional intelligence and not have a concrete grasp of the social contract."
Again has nothing to do with self awareness, AGAIN we are quite aware of how non-NT we are, outside of that i agree so far

"I digress though, these things should be taught in school but the way things are going, I don't see that happening anytime soon."
You are actually retarded if you think this shit can be taught, you either have it or you don't, you can't teach this kind of stuff.

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"I'm not sure they conclude that women are shit. Their starting premise IS that women are shit."
This nigga actually believes we came out of the womb blackpilled, :lul:

"Then they invent endless "facts" proving this".
May a remind you that there is full page document of thousands of women saying horrible shit about short men, does this nigga really think we fucking created those twitter accounts to make women look bad?

"They do not want any kind of relationship with the opposite sex because it means efforts and, sometimes, failure. To them it's way more comfortable to wallow in victimhood and self-pity."
What the fuck are you talking about, we have thousands of posts here of sad bro-cels fantasizing about being in relationship with a woman that actually loves them, You are the most retarded person on IT, congrats.

if dating requires "skills" wouldnt it make sense that some people just dont "get better" at said "skills"?
just like the same way someone who plays basketball but will never be an NBA pro?
its just fucking looks height dicksize and the rest is fucking history
 
if dating requires "skills" wouldnt it make sense that some people just dont "get better" at said "skills"?
just like the same way someone who plays basketball but will never be an NBA pro?
its just fucking looks height dicksize and the rest is fucking history
Think about a sport like hockey, very expensive to play so there is so many kids that literally never get a chance to play so they can never develop their skills, That's us when it comes to dating.
 
Think about a sport like hockey, very expensive to play so there is so many kids that literally never get a chance to play so they can never develop their skills, That's us when it comes to dating.
true but for dating all you need to do is be attractive enough some foid will put up with whatever personality you have
 
true but for dating all you need to do is be attractive enough some foid will put up with whatever personality you have
That's kind of the metaphor though, The rich kids get to play hockey, the poor kids don't. The attractive men get to play the dating game, ugly guys like us don't.
 
They are low ranked people desperate to have someone of lower rank to attack.
 
it fags are the biggest subhumans couldnt give 2 shits about what they have to say about us
It’s weird because most of them are ugly and were probably treated like shit their whole lives because of it, but they don’t acknowledge the relationship. Or they feel it’s deserved somehow. They’re literally Battered Wife Syndrome incarnate.

Like we’re telling them

>It’s not your fault you’re treated like shit because you’re ugly.

And they get mad at us.
 
>No one should make fun of autists

>Is active on IT

:feelsseriously:

In any case, one of the biggest signs of midwit IQ is being able to discuss a simple topic for hours and not reach anything even resembling a conclusion.

Low IQ - Incels are incels because they hate women

High IQ - Incels are incels because they are unattractive and/or short and/or autistic. Rejection and isolation in early childhood and during major developmental periods results in further loss of social skills and feeds into the vicious cycle of lack of experience and social knowledge.

Midwit IQ - (endless yapping about nothing in particular)

Low IQ individuals and high IQ individuals can both give brief explanations on a subject, midwits cannot.
 
I don't understand how someone can fail to grasp how much easier dating is for women than men. The whole thing starts there and it's so easy to demonstrate that it's true.
 
>No one should make fun of autists

>Is active on IT

:feelsseriously:

In any case, one of the biggest signs of midwit IQ is being able to discuss a simple topic for hours and not reach anything even resembling a conclusion.

Low IQ - Incels are incels because they hate women

High IQ - Incels are incels because they are unattractive and/or short and/or autistic. Rejection and isolation in early childhood and during major developmental periods results in further loss of social skills and feeds into the vicious cycle of lack of experience and social knowledge.

Midwit IQ - (endless yapping about nothing in particular)

Low IQ individuals and high IQ individuals can both give brief explanations on a subject, midwits cannot.
 
If you act socially confident as an ugly or short man you will get humiliated. There's literal scientific studies that show people are instantly disgusted upon seeing unattractive men.

People aren't this wonderful monolith of goodness that socially accept le wholesome and reject le negative. in reality people are a monolith that act upon simple primal instinct which will happily discriminate against those whose genes are subconsciously perceived as inferior.


Anyways good post. I love reading your IT takedowns.
 
I like how this female implies men are inherently unlikable without seeing the irony of what they're bitching about
Screenshot 2024 12 27 at 21 40 07 Do incels have lack of dating common sense skills IncelTears
 
IT is the only place that fully believes looks don't matter because they have to be contrarian to whatever we believe so it loops back to them holding retarded delusional beliefs even by the standards of normalfags who aren't overweight mouthbreathers whining on reddit 24/7.
 
Because they're ugly.

I'm not going to read their paragraphs of poppycock.
 
If you act socially confident as an ugly or short man you will get humiliated. There's literal scientific studies that show people are instantly disgusted upon seeing unattractive men.

People aren't this wonderful monolith of goodness that socially accept le wholesome and reject le negative. in reality people are a monolith that act upon simple primal instinct which will happily discriminate against those whose genes are subconsciously perceived as inferior.


Anyways good post. I love reading your IT takedowns.
Truth. It has been studied. Of course, they’re not going to touch this study. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5558203/

The advantages of being perceived as physically attractive based on the provided research excerpt:

  • Enhanced Social Integration:
    • Increased Popularity:Attractive individuals tend to be more socially accepted and popular among their peers. This can lead to a larger social circle, more friends, and greater social inclusion.

    • Stronger Peer Relationships: Positive social perceptions can foster stronger and more supportive peer relationships, providing a sense of belonging and social support.
  • Favorable Teacher Treatment:
    • Higher Expectations:Teachers may subconsciously hold higher expectations for attractive students, leading to increased attention, encouragement, and more challenging assignments.

    • More Positive Interactions:Attractive students may receive more positive attention and feedback from teachers, creating a more supportive and engaging learning environment.
  • Improved Self-Esteem:
    • Positive Self-Perception:Positive social feedback and experiences can contribute to a more positive self-image and increased self-confidence.
    • Reduced Social Anxiety: High social acceptance can reduce social anxiety and increase overall well-being.
  • Increased Opportunities:
    • Social Opportunities:Attractive individuals may have increased opportunities for social activities, dating, and romantic relationships.

    • Leadership Roles: Attractive individuals may be more likely to be perceived as leaders and given opportunities to assume leadership positions in social and academic settings.
  • The study highlights several potential negative consequences for individuals perceived as less physically attractive:
    • Stigma and Discrimination:
      • Social Stigma:Individuals may face social stigma and be subject to negative stereotypes or prejudice based on their perceived appearance.

      • Discrimination:This stigma can translate into discriminatory behavior in various social settings, including the workplace, education, and social interactions.
    • Lowered Self-Esteem:Experiencing consistent negative feedback or social exclusion due to perceived unattractiveness can significantly impact self-esteem and self-confidence.

    • Mental Health Challenges:Individuals who experience persistent social rejection or discrimination due to their appearance may be at increased risk for mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and social anxiety disorder.

    • Limited Social Opportunities: Perceived unattractiveness can limit social opportunities, making it more difficult to form and maintain healthy relationships, both romantic and platonic.
    • Reduced Confidence in Social Situations: Individuals may experience anxiety or self-consciousness in social situations, leading to withdrawal and avoidance of social interactions.
 
Truth. It has been studied. Of course, they’re not going to touch this study. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5558203/

The advantages of being perceived as physically attractive based on the provided research excerpt:

  • Enhanced Social Integration:
    • Increased Popularity:Attractive individuals tend to be more socially accepted and popular among their peers. This can lead to a larger social circle, more friends, and greater social inclusion.

    • Stronger Peer Relationships: Positive social perceptions can foster stronger and more supportive peer relationships, providing a sense of belonging and social support.
  • Favorable Teacher Treatment:
    • Higher Expectations:Teachers may subconsciously hold higher expectations for attractive students, leading to increased attention, encouragement, and more challenging assignments.

    • More Positive Interactions:Attractive students may receive more positive attention and feedback from teachers, creating a more supportive and engaging learning environment.
  • Improved Self-Esteem:
    • Positive Self-Perception:Positive social feedback and experiences can contribute to a more positive self-image and increased self-confidence.
    • Reduced Social Anxiety: High social acceptance can reduce social anxiety and increase overall well-being.
  • Increased Opportunities:
    • Social Opportunities:Attractive individuals may have increased opportunities for social activities, dating, and romantic relationships.

    • Leadership Roles: Attractive individuals may be more likely to be perceived as leaders and given opportunities to assume leadership positions in social and academic settings.
  • The study highlights several potential negative consequences for individuals perceived as less physically attractive:
    • Stigma and Discrimination:
      • Social Stigma:Individuals may face social stigma and be subject to negative stereotypes or prejudice based on their perceived appearance.

      • Discrimination:This stigma can translate into discriminatory behavior in various social settings, including the workplace, education, and social interactions.
    • Lowered Self-Esteem:Experiencing consistent negative feedback or social exclusion due to perceived unattractiveness can significantly impact self-esteem and self-confidence.

    • Mental Health Challenges:Individuals who experience persistent social rejection or discrimination due to their appearance may be at increased risk for mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and social anxiety disorder.

    • Limited Social Opportunities: Perceived unattractiveness can limit social opportunities, making it more difficult to form and maintain healthy relationships, both romantic and platonic.
    • Reduced Confidence in Social Situations: Individuals may experience anxiety or self-consciousness in social situations, leading to withdrawal and avoidance of social interactions.
Saved. They'll never care about this unless the media tells them to. Even then their inherit subconscious bias towards us will prevent them from admitting it's a real issue
 
so they just call us autistic and call it a day.
 

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