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A flow chart for the dating life of normalfags:
- get a Tinder match (actually where most of us fail, because it didn't begin for us, but even for normies this could take months)
- keep her interested until the first date via online conversation (this is a few weeks, in these weeks she will be bombarded with more and more options, some of them better, some of them worse, even if you got a match she might just stop talking to you for whatever reason possible and with no explanation); the questions: Do you have a high-paying job?; Do you have a flat/house?; etc. (things that aren't guaranteed)
- go with her on the first date (this would be to a very fancy restaurant; so for two people -and you are implicitely expected to pay for both of you- it means roughly >>50€/>>60$, you also cannot hold back or set limits because this would be a death blow, keep in mind: there are many women who just use dating apps for free dinner and even if you do everything perfectly it might not work out which means no further dates and then you have lost the money - and then there are also the fuel costs associated with driving and the car pill itself)
- repeat that because many women won't give you a kiss (not talking about sex) after the first date (yes, women suddenly become modest around everyone sub-chad), expect about four of five dates - depending on where you live this can mean enormous costs (both for food and for driving), far over 300€/365$ would be lost for food alone to go this point (likely far more considering the costs of most expensive restaurants) - without even taking stuff like fancy clothes, car fuel, hygiene products (like expensive aftershaves/deodorants/perfumes/etc.) into account (and this only for one girl and the unlikely scenario that you get so far; this will be -when you take taxes/rent away- nearly half of the money you have available for a month with a good-paying job)
- then or later the first sex, after high school/university there are almost no female virgins anymore, this means that she has demands that must be immediately fulfilled (no room for any failures - and failures like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation are common because a human body isn't a machine), she won't have the patience to teach you anything (certain knowledge is expected), you either win or you fail (to meet the standards at least partially you also need to have some experience and gathering experience is almost impossible even for normalfags because they have such an opportunity maybe once/twice a year)
- then (or prior depending on the girl) you gradually get to meet her family - expect enormous amounts of questions and depending on the respective father everything you say can be wrong (if you work as a STEMcel/doctor/etc. and the father is a physical labourer he will deem you as workshy/a weak, emasculated pussy, if you work as a phyiscal labourer and the father is educated you are seen as a primitive animal incapable of providing for his daughter) - and yes, the family still has some level of power over women (simply by talking so much to them that they believe it in the end, even though she was genuinely speaking attracted to you)
- then you gradually also meet more and more of her friend circle - and guess what women say in private ("You can do better!"/etc.), so even if you got to this point which is highly unlikely if you aren't >5 and NT) this would prove to be detrimental
- and then there are also things like fights in a relationship (and guess who has the power there) and what happens if you lose your job/become sick/etc.?
