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"Simple, they should recognize that subpar men are humans and not evil creeps.
I am not a subpar man and i have a LTR. However i have friends who are. They are treated so horribly. I had no idea about how they were treated until one of them and i got really drunk and he started crying and talking about it. He said i have something called the halo effect which apparently is where since you don't have the problem/people and girls in particular are nicer to you, you just don't understand that it even exists until you are told about it. He talked to me about how when he would go up to a girl to try to talk to them they would do everything they could to leave the situation. He told me about how rude everyone was to him all the time in hs, how he got bullied for being fat and short, and has a problem with bones and his face looks pretty unsymmetrical and squished together. He said basically that i made him really upset one time when before i was in this LTR, we went to a club together in our college town and he asked me how to pick up a girl so i showed him, go up to one, talk to them, start dancing on the dance floor, and there you go. He attempted that multiple times and girls scooted away from him when he tried to dance with them. It was very embarrassing for him. And i had no idea until after.
Basically - recognize that people like my buddy exist and that it's a rough existence for them, and that they have the shortest end of the stick of anyone, because they are both the disposable sex AND the ugly ignored members of that sex."
This is our reality inceltears, this is reality of an ugly male. You try and try and try but get shutdown because you are ugly.
"Simple, they should recognize that subpar men are humans and not evil creeps.
I am not a subpar man and i have a LTR. However i have friends who are. They are treated so horribly. I had no idea about how they were treated until one of them and i got really drunk and he started crying and talking about it. He said i have something called the halo effect which apparently is where since you don't have the problem/people and girls in particular are nicer to you, you just don't understand that it even exists until you are told about it. He talked to me about how when he would go up to a girl to try to talk to them they would do everything they could to leave the situation. He told me about how rude everyone was to him all the time in hs, how he got bullied for being fat and short, and has a problem with bones and his face looks pretty unsymmetrical and squished together. He said basically that i made him really upset one time when before i was in this LTR, we went to a club together in our college town and he asked me how to pick up a girl so i showed him, go up to one, talk to them, start dancing on the dance floor, and there you go. He attempted that multiple times and girls scooted away from him when he tried to dance with them. It was very embarrassing for him. And i had no idea until after.
Basically - recognize that people like my buddy exist and that it's a rough existence for them, and that they have the shortest end of the stick of anyone, because they are both the disposable sex AND the ugly ignored members of that sex."
This is our reality inceltears, this is reality of an ugly male. You try and try and try but get shutdown because you are ugly.
