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Basically the reason for this is sexual capitalism which came with feminism and the sexual revolution along with advancements in technology. Phones, social medias, cars, and dating apps have essentially drastically diminished the amount of men in the middle of the hierarchy, and pushed them to either side. Small percentage of them got lots of gains, while a large percent got pushed to the bottom getting little to nothing.
There is no longer a middle ground where most men get a decent amount of women. You are either in the top 20% whom get most attention, or the bottom 80% whom get little to nothing.
but I think it goes even further than sex. I think this also goes as far as social circles and connections. More and more people (men specifically) are finding it increasingly difficult to stay within the upper 50% of the hierarchy and social circles which contain most of the women.
Social media is making it especially hard for most men to do this, because on social media, it’s literally 100% about your looks, where as IRL, you have a bit more to work with (social dominance, social proof, dark triad theory etc).
wet
There is no longer a middle ground where most men get a decent amount of women. You are either in the top 20% whom get most attention, or the bottom 80% whom get little to nothing.
but I think it goes even further than sex. I think this also goes as far as social circles and connections. More and more people (men specifically) are finding it increasingly difficult to stay within the upper 50% of the hierarchy and social circles which contain most of the women.
Social media is making it especially hard for most men to do this, because on social media, it’s literally 100% about your looks, where as IRL, you have a bit more to work with (social dominance, social proof, dark triad theory etc).
wet
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