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It is torture how we literally can't satisfy our need for affection and intimacy.

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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It's not even sex that I want the most from a woman. But I feel this strong need to cuddle, kiss, hug a woman and generally give "love" and be "loved". Even if love is inevitably a lie and an illusion, the manifestations of it are entirely real and not only pleasant, but necessary for a man to feel adequate.

It's a very strong need and when I can't suppress it every now and then, it can literally ruin a few days for me.

The saddest part is that the older I get the less possible it is for this need to be satisfied. Even if I magically turned into a Chad, after a certain age women lose their "innocence", their ability to give and receive love, to pair bond, to be genuinely affectionate. Now even if I did become a different person and was able to attract a woman, she'd just be a used-up hag who can't really love anything and is just looking for a meal ticket, a transactional "relationship" that is not anything close to "love", just a contract with the facade of love.
 
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Existence is torture.

Take it from a previously non sentient creature

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And yet people wonder why we are "hateful" and without empathy.
 
It's not even sex that I want the most from a woman. But I feel this strong need to cuddle, kiss, hug a woman and generally give "love" and be "loved". Even if love is inevitably a lie and an illusion, the manifestations of it are entirely real and not only pleasant, but necessary for a man to feel adequate.

It's a very strong need and when I can't suppress it every now and then, it can literally ruin a few days for me.

The saddest part is that the older I get the less possible it is for this need to be satisfied. Even if I magically turned into a Chad, after a certain age women lose their "innocence", their ability to give and receive love, to pair bond, to be genuinely affectionate. Now even if I did become a different person and was able to attract a woman, she'd just be a used-up hag who can't really love anything and is just looking for a meal ticket, a transactional "relationship" that is not anything close to "love", just a contract with the facade of love.
they're basically engaged by the age of 18 if they have that capability for love, most young men are betas and want to secure a woman early.

normie power moves in the 2010s: spending all your money to put a ring on a young woman after you've been with her for less than a year

just go ahead and try to find a nice innocent woman that's older than 18, meaning she has a job somewhere and isn't just a fucking high schooler or something. what you'll see next: the ring.
 
GRSGhggaaGRGAGAGgghhhhhhh it is so unfairrrrrr ahhag
 
We are the true prole. We are not loved, we only exist to serve and be discarded.
 
It's not even sex that I want the most from a woman. But I feel this strong need to cuddle, kiss, hug a woman and generally give "love" and be "loved". Even if love is inevitably a lie and an illusion, the manifestations of it are entirely real and not only pleasant, but necessary for a man to feel adequate.

It's a very strong need and when I can't suppress it every now and then, it can literally ruin a few days for me.

The saddest part is that the older I get the less possible it is for this need to be satisfied. Even if I magically turned into a Chad, after a certain age women lose their "innocence", their ability to give and receive love, to pair bond, to be genuinely affectionate. Now even if I did become a different person and was able to attract a woman, she'd just be a used-up hag who can't really love anything and is just looking for a meal ticket, a transactional "relationship" that is not anything close to "love", just a contract with the facade of love.

you are just a slave to your biological needs, they are fake, they are a necessity to ensure survial of the species, but have no intrinsic value,

sex and cuddling do not advance human development, they are just a source of feeling good for people who havent found their ideal drug of choice.

its bullshit, its what animals who cant think do, even one cell organisms feel the need to reproduce,

its the same instincts, we just rationalize this feeling we have and make it something big that it isnt, like love can overcome anything, all you need is love,

all the love and soullmate bullshit rhetoric thats completely made up, your own brain made it up so it can explain why you have this strong desire to be with the opposite sex.

and its always some nebulous concept like "love" or "soulmates" thats being displayed at the be all end all of happiness for all humans, its a substitute,

a distraction, we could already have colonies in the next solar system, creating artifical women that are indistinguishable from real ones.

but no, most people chase that fucking relationship and sex bullshit, and completely waste their time on this planet,

like foids, all they do is endlessly socialise and touch each other for fun. completely useless, not once in human history has fucking advanced the human species.

we will grow beyond it as a species and will control our urges with drugs or genetical engineering,

how do we condem violence and hunting and killing and realize it as an animalistic concept that can be controlled and overcome.
but sex and shit is all good, its the same thing as violent instincts, it can easily be controlled
 
they're basically engaged by the age of 18 if they have that capability for love, most young men are betas and want to secure a woman early.

normie power moves in the 2010s: spending all your money to put a ring on a young woman after you've been with her for less than a year

just go ahead and try to find a nice innocent woman that's older than 18, meaning she has a job somewhere and isn't just a fucking high schooler or something. what you'll see next: the ring.
Yes, exactly. And the older they get, the worse the quality of single women. The really good women (I mean, by women's standards, they all are severely flawed beings) are already off the market by 18 (cause men know when they found a good one and they won't let her go).

By 23 any remotely good woman is settling down already. By 25 all that's left are women with various personality flaws that made it hard for any man to tolerate her enough to propose to her (cause by now she's already dated several Chads and normies and none wanted to marry her apparently). I

f they're not married by 28 there's something seriously wrong with her, cause by this age she'll settle for any submissive normie with a good paycheck. By 30 it's game over, she's crazy or has some other awful personality traits to still not be married (and by 30 all women have been passed around and had sex with many, many guys).
 
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I feel ya bruh
We will never have this.
 
It's not even sex that I want the most from a woman. But I feel this strong need to cuddle, kiss, hug a woman and generally give "love" and be "loved". Even if love is inevitably a lie and an illusion, the manifestations of it are entirely real and not only pleasant, but necessary for a man to feel adequate.
@Personalityinkwell look at this
@BlkPillPres on suicidewatch
 
Just get a doll. It won't be 1 for 1 but a lot of what you seek they provide.
 
They will never be satisfied by even a little bit
 
This is the reason Men go Kamikazi Banzai mode, either on themselves or others. If society would listen to Men this would never be a problem. But no got to keep spinning their narrative absolutely everywhere silencing all Men.
 
Yes, exactly. And the older they get, the worse the quality of single women. The really good women (I mean, by women's standards, they all are severely flawed beings) are already off the market by 18 (cause men know when they found a good one and they won't let her go).

By 23 any remotely good woman is settling down already. By 25 all that's left are women with various personality flaws that made it hard for any man to tolerate her enough to propose to her (cause by now she's already dated several Chads and normies and none wanted to marry her apparently). I

f they're not married by 28 there's something seriously wrong with her, cause by this age she'll settle for any submissive normie with a good paycheck. By 30 it's game over, she's crazy or has some other awful personality traits to still not be married (and by 30 all women have been passed around and had sex with many, many guys).
of course. it's actually insanely over if you were hoping for a real relationship. you can't just pull nice and well-raised women out of your ass. they are a very short supply that's getting smaller all the time.

the funny thing is my folks told me a couple years ago that "everyone knows that they either find someone in college or they'll have a hard time", and I said that I didn't know that, and that they didn't tell me back then or do anything about it either. then it was all about how I didn't try hard enough in college anyway. which is hilarious because I had nearly full attendance. it was just the typical garbage state institution where most people hate to be there and want to go home to their real friends.
 
It is when you consider that we're bombarded with sexual imagery everywhere we go.
 
"Love"? I would be happy if a woman over 2/10 wanted me sexually even if she didn't love me. Maybe have sex once? Maybe know how it feels? She wouldn't even have to cuddle or kiss or anything like that, just show me how it feels to have a woman interested in me at least once before I die.
The only 2 or 3 women who showed interest in me are so ugly they are deformed, these girls had boyfriends, sex, etc. while their looksmatch already roped.
 
The only 2 or 3 women who showed interest in me are so ugly they are deformed, these girls had boyfriends, sex, etc. while their looksmatch already roped.

You should have "brown paper bagged" them
 
I want to cuddle with a girl so bad
 
Yes, exactly. And the older they get, the worse the quality of single women. The really good women (I mean, by women's standards, they all are severely flawed beings) are already off the market by 18 (cause men know when they found a good one and they won't let her go).

By 23 any remotely good woman is settling down already. By 25 all that's left are women with various personality flaws that made it hard for any man to tolerate her enough to propose to her.
Suicidefuel because I'm experiencing that with my own eyes. I'm at the end of my early 20s and I've noticed that the women that I genuinely would like to be with already have boyfriends / settled down, and all that's left are severely flawed women or whores.

The only hope I have tbh now are women who have delayed that by medicine / law / grad school studies, but hard to do that.
 
You should have "brown paper bagged" them
Their bodies were shit as well.

Literally all of them had manbodies, with broad shoulders, no hips, etc.

I would gladly fuck a butterface
 
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Their bodies were shit as well.

Literally all of them had manbodies, with broad shoulders, no hips, etc.

I would gladly fuck a butterface

I don't want you to answer, but now I'm wondering where the hell do you live to encounter 2 to 3 ugly as fuck bitches that are willing to approach you
 
I don't want you to answer, but now I'm wondering where the hell do you live to encounter 2 to 3 ugly as fuck bitches that are willing to approach you
It's not that they "approached" me, I was friends with them and it starts to get really obvious, with the touching, etc. I live in South America.
 
It's not that they "approached" me, I was friends with them and it starts to get really obvious, with the touching, etc. I live in South America.

You don't really sound like your typical incel, and I'd advise that you not mention this part of your life again, it sounds really weird for an "incel" to say he not only had female friends, but they were touching him and trying to fuck him and he refused because they were "too ugly"
 
You don't really sound like your typical incel, and I'd advise that you not mention this part of your life again, it sounds really weird for an "incel" to say he not only had female friends, but they were touching him and trying to fuck him and he refused because they were "too ugly"
I had a friend saying one of them looked like a "caricature". The other looked like an ogre. I don't have female friends anymore, they are a waste of time, any girl who looks even average will ignore me completely.

And yes I know about the dictatorship around here, even a 28 year old virgin like me (29 in one month) will be considered a "Chad" and banned because I have a few friends and talked to people and had 3 goblins into me.
 

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