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What most people have that we don't is that base level of respect
When you think about how since most people look similar to each other everyone sees each other somewhat as being equals, so that's how they treat each other. If one of them is to step out of line they risk ruining their reputation by being seen as a bad person and becoming an outcast
Throw ugly people in the mix and people get nothing from us. They can actually boost their social status by mocking and mistreating us
They don't want to sleep with us, they'd never want to be caught dead hanging out with us, and respecting us is painful because naturally they view us as beneath them. Like you said it's like people being expected to be happy treating roaches as if they're equals or butterflies..
They're not nice to look at, they're disgusting and carry disease and people actually get more benefit by squashing it's guts out, rather than allowing it to exist in the same space as them
Treating us with respect is hard for them because no one wants to be associated with ugliness in anyway because everyone knows at least subconsciously that it signals being unwanted, being depressed, being lonely, and being a people repellant
That's how us ugly people are viewed:
Disgusting, worthless, useless, inconvenient, eyesores
I think it's human nature to be so mean to ugly people as a means to psychologically torment us till we eventually take our own lives. And that way we can be erased from the species and no longer pass on our bad genes.. because lets be real living as an ugly person is a miserable and pointless existence
No one wants to be friends with us, no one wants to date us, no one wants to fuck us, no one wants to look at us, no one wants to be around us
it goes on and on and on and that's why I feel like being ugly is one of the worst things possible anyone could ever experience
because you can be physically healthy, but you're so isolated and undesired that you might as well be a paraplegic that can't do or achieve anything .. sad thing is you can't even rely on others because no one wants to help ugly people. They don't get a boost in their social status for that, they don't get a sense of feeling like they're making us fall for them like they do when it's with someone they find attractive, they don't get a sense of feeling like they have access to the finer things in life that better looking people do like money, success, and a big social circle
What most people have that we don't is that base level of respect
When you think about how since most people look similar to each other everyone sees each other somewhat as being equals, so that's how they treat each other. If one of them is to step out of line they risk ruining their reputation by being seen as a bad person and becoming an outcast
Throw ugly people in the mix and people get nothing from us. They can actually boost their social status by mocking and mistreating us
They don't want to sleep with us, they'd never want to be caught dead hanging out with us, and respecting us is painful because naturally they view us as beneath them. Like you said it's like people being expected to be happy treating roaches as if they're equals or butterflies..
They're not nice to look at, they're disgusting and carry disease and people actually get more benefit by squashing it's guts out, rather than allowing it to exist in the same space as them
Treating us with respect is hard for them because no one wants to be associated with ugliness in anyway because everyone knows at least subconsciously that it signals being unwanted, being depressed, being lonely, and being a people repellant
That's how us ugly people are viewed:
Disgusting, worthless, useless, inconvenient, eyesores
I think it's human nature to be so mean to ugly people as a means to psychologically torment us till we eventually take our own lives. And that way we can be erased from the species and no longer pass on our bad genes.. because lets be real living as an ugly person is a miserable and pointless existence
No one wants to be friends with us, no one wants to date us, no one wants to fuck us, no one wants to look at us, no one wants to be around us
it goes on and on and on and that's why I feel like being ugly is one of the worst things possible anyone could ever experience
because you can be physically healthy, but you're so isolated and undesired that you might as well be a paraplegic that can't do or achieve anything .. sad thing is you can't even rely on others because no one wants to help ugly people. They don't get a boost in their social status for that, they don't get a sense of feeling like they're making us fall for them like they do when it's with someone they find attractive, they don't get a sense of feeling like they have access to the finer things in life that better looking people do like money, success, and a big social circle
