“you don’t suffer from it, it just makes you miserable with low self esteem” are these people retarded? And yes having sex would fix my low self esteem. My low self esteem stems from the fact that no one finds me attractive enough to want to enter a relationship with me or have sex with me. Confidence directly stems from validation you get throughout your life, if people say you look like shit then you will naturally think that you look like shit because that’s what people have been telling you.