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It becomes worse in your 30s.

NorthernWind

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Coping becomes harder, illusions die finally, sense of loneliness increases.
In your 20s you still have hope that one day you will integrate into soyciety, in your 30s these illusions die.
Revelation that 14-15 y.o. teens socialmaxxing mog you strikes hard.
People are impatient with your shortcomings. Being a 18 y.o. socially anxious guy is still tolerated by people, being 24 y.o. socially anxious guy is tolerated less, but still somehow bearable.
But if you in your 30s and act like social loser, people around you treat you like low of the low, they see you as a buffoon beyond salvation.
Life becomes much harder then.
 
i dont know what to do anymore
 
Don´t care.
Never asked to be born anyway.
 
true but you gotta remember that in your 30s you're less likely to need a relationship with a toilet than when you're in you 20s.
you have less libido and you can stay lonely more since you're more mature than before.
i bet when i will hit my thirties i won't even have anymore trouble with ascending and being alone. it will just be the norm and i will get used to it
 
Imagine this forum if/when it hits the 10 year mark. :lul:
 
suifuel knowing i will be alone once my parents die, jfl my dad already "disowned" me
 
I'm 25 and have had no hopes of integration to society since I was about 15 jfl
 
true but you gotta remember that in your 30s you're less likely to need a relationship with a toilet than when you're in you 20s.
you have less libido and you can stay lonely more since you're more mature than before.
Don't count on it, 30s isn't really old enough for most guys libido to start decreasing. Also everyone around you that's your age is married or in a long term relationship of some kind. Sure you're more mature, but being alone still sucks just as much, it just takes on a slightly different quality.

That being said I hope you're right (if you're still alone then) for most of these guys sake.
 
true but you gotta remember that in your 30s you're less likely to need a relationship with a toilet than when you're in you 20s.
you have less libido and you can stay lonely more since you're more mature than before.
i bet when i will hit my thirties i won't even have anymore trouble with ascending and being alone. it will just be the norm and i will get used to it
Actually libido only declines if the natural testosterone decline due to age becomes unnaturally significant. As long as you produce the medically considered normal testosterone levels, you will always have a considerable sex drive even if you're 80 years old. Coupled with ED, not even masturbation will be able to satisfy one's libido.
 
I'm 25 and have had no hopes of integration to society since I was about 15 jfl
We are not cut out to play a stupid game. ( hyper-awareness is both a blessing and a curse )
The morons will be playing BINGO! with the other old farts, when they reach old age with alzheimers and dementia. ( unless the shot kills them first, which is highly realistic )
If there is anything to be proud about, Be Glad that you are not one of them.
- A true Renegade.
 
All true and very relatable. There are benefits, but these benefits are related with being over 30 and the bad outweighs the good by large.

Don't count on it, 30s isn't really old enough for most guys libido to start decreasing.
It is if you've had a life of rejection, loneliness and depression. Libido is never going to be the as when we were teenagers.
 
Coping becomes harder, illusions die finally, sense of loneliness increases.
In your 20s you still have hope that one day you will integrate into soyciety, in your 30s these illusions die.
Revelation that 14-15 y.o. teens socialmaxxing mog you strikes hard.
People are impatient with your shortcomings. Being a 18 y.o. socially anxious guy is still tolerated by people, being 24 y.o. socially anxious guy is tolerated less, but still somehow bearable.
But if you in your 30s and act like social loser, people around you treat you like low of the low, they see you as a buffoon beyond salvation.
Life becomes much harder then.
Life becomes real in the 30s. Im proud to be a wizard and not a fakecel, underaged kid like 98% of this shitty forum. Those kids here all fakecels including this one bald mod loser that fake-ascended with some 19 year old hoe. Thats the sad state of this crappy forum. How could a +80IQ person ever take this forum serious???
 
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i bet when i will hit my thirties i won't even have anymore trouble with ascending and being alone. it will just be the norm and i will get used to it
You don't, I am 29 and shit is getting harder everyday.
 
I hope I die before that
 
Coping becomes harder, illusions die finally, sense of loneliness increases.
In your 20s you still have hope that one day you will integrate into soyciety, in your 30s these illusions die.
Revelation that 14-15 y.o. teens socialmaxxing mog you strikes hard.
People are impatient with your shortcomings. Being a 18 y.o. socially anxious guy is still tolerated by people, being 24 y.o. socially anxious guy is tolerated less, but still somehow bearable.
But if you in your 30s and act like social loser, people around you treat you like low of the low, they see you as a buffoon beyond salvation.
Life becomes much harder then.
I think myself and others still believe that we can be financially successful in thirtys even without women and somehow can cope that way. My fear is exactly as you say, that without the social skills and ability to interact with women and normies, I will start to see opportunities drying up before my eyes and realize that I am the bottom of the barrel in every aspect of my life, not just romantically.
 
Oh great. I was kinda hoping the few extra years would be enough to beat me into submission or acceptance. And I'm already tired and achy so I bet my 30s are gonna be rough.
 
But if you in your 30s and act like social loser, people around you treat you like low of the low, they see you as a buffoon beyond salvation.
Everyone at that age moved on years ago and made it, the leftovers are viewed as defectives and invalids who's only use is to work or use their skills to do stuff for people.
 
Coping becomes harder, illusions die finally, sense of loneliness increases.
In your 20s you still have hope that one day you will integrate into soyciety, in your 30s these illusions die.
Revelation that 14-15 y.o. teens socialmaxxing mog you strikes hard.
People are impatient with your shortcomings. Being a 18 y.o. socially anxious guy is still tolerated by people, being 24 y.o. socially anxious guy is tolerated less, but still somehow bearable.
But if you in your 30s and act like social loser, people around you treat you like low of the low, they see you as a buffoon beyond salvation.
Life becomes much harder then.
really bro ? :/ What about money? Arent you happier that youre financially independent? I'm looking forward to being old and having money for whores, that's my only life fuel.
 
All true and very relatable. There are benefits, but these benefits are related with being over 30 and the bad outweighs the good by large.


It is if you've had a life of rejection, loneliness and depression. Libido is never going to be the as when we were teenagers.
Well, that's been my experience actually but it isn't what I hear from over 30 people here so far (admittedly not many). Maybe it's more common than I think.
 
Well, that's been my experience actually but it isn't what I hear from over 30 people here so far (admittedly not many). Maybe it's more common than I think.
If you've had a healthy sexual life with relationships I agree that you won't normally have low libido by 30. ED at 30 isn't normal also, unless you've a life like ours, but then it would be anxiety/depression induced.
 
I see, makes sense what's happening to me then unfortunately. It also fits into the idea of rotting.
 
:feelsmage::feelsmage::feelsmage:
This is scary, I better find a girl before 30

I have hope I am gen z
 
I'm 38 and life got easier because my libido has declined, now I get a break from the overwhelming pain of sexual frustration and can find some enjoyment doing simple things like biking around, hikes, cooking, travel...
 
I'll be dead before i hit 25
 
Age (((33))) and can confirm...


over.
 
really bro ? :/ What about money? Arent you happier that youre financially independent? I'm looking forward to being old and having money for whores, that's my only life fuel.
I'm poor. I could still fuck escorts from time to time but I believe that it makes you degenerate + I don't want to feel humiliated with my small dick.
 
I'm 38 and life got easier because my libido has declined, now I get a break from the overwhelming pain of sexual frustration and can find some enjoyment doing simple things like biking around, hikes, cooking, travel...
Do you masturbate?
 
Mine died I’m scared to die and I almost died last week
dont commit suicide, jfl no joke i had a cop point an assault rifle at me and i realize i dont want to die. maybe commit a felony and prisonmaxx for free food.
 
Don´t care.
Never asked to be born anyway.
Me too bro, me too.

I remember when I used to cope by telling myself there was nothing wrong with going to the movies alone or eating out alone not knowing it was the beginning of the end. Not knowing all roads eventually led to rope.
 
Do you masturbate?
Once a week or so.

During puberty it was more than 7x a week, but it fell gradually through my teens and twenties, and then dropped a lot in my mid-to-late 30's
 
I remember the '90s.
 
I'm going to turn my life around in my 30s
 
I'm 30. How do I say this. Until 2 years ago I had TV on as background noise at all Times. That stopped 2 years ago, Theres just absolutely nothing worth watching. I sometimes watch The occasional Simpsons golden seasons or Two and a half men. Nowadays I watch Twitch or a speedrun playlist I made that consists of around 400 games done quick videos. But Even 400 videos goes by quite fast when you Have it on For 6 hours a Day.

Video games Are still fun but rotting is so easy and comfy. I still play most new games like re4 remake and upcoming Zelda. Beating re4 Took me 4 days though
 
Life becomes real in the 30s. Im proud to be a wizard and not a fakecel, underaged kid like 98% of this shitty forum. Those kids here all fakecels including this one bald mod loser that fake-ascended with some 19 year old hoe. Thats the sad state of this crappy forum. How could a +80IQ person ever take this forum serious???
It's impossible to take this forum seriously as an oldcel, i have an ignore list that's pages long and it's still not enough to filter the low IQ and the fakecels.
I've come to the sound conclusion that 99% of what you read here is just pure LARP. This forum is just a digital dumpster, the garbage of the internet.

It wasn't like this before.
 
I'm 30. How do I say this. Until 2 years ago I had TV on as background noise at all Times. That stopped 2 years ago, Theres just absolutely nothing worth watching. I sometimes watch The occasional Simpsons golden seasons or Two and a half men.
Damn are you me? Kinda relatable.

Will try to escortmaxx as cope, but my small pp is a burden :feelsrope:
 
The agepill has always been the scariest of them all. It never stops. There is no cope for it. No method to maxx out of it. If I am above 30 and still incel I will be considered a wizard and then it will be SUPER HYPER ULTRA MEGA GIGA TERA OVER.
 
The agepill has always been the scariest of them all. It never stops. There is no cope for it. No method to maxx out of it. If I am above 30 and still incel I will be considered a wizard and then it will be SUPER HYPER ULTRA MEGA GIGA TERA OVER.
no, you get used to it.
 
It's impossible to take this forum seriously as an oldcel, i have an ignore list that's pages long and it's still not enough to filter the low IQ and the fakecels.
I've come to the sound conclusion that 99% of what you read here is just pure LARP. This forum is just a digital dumpster, the garbage of the internet.

It wasn't like this before.
True, true my fellow wizardcel
 

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