Is your life like this too? You're stressed about one thing, then it passes and doesn't matter anymore and you have the next thing to stress about.

[Deleted member 7448]

It's like life is one series of stresses from birth till death. Smaller daily stresses and big stresses too. And you don't even celebrate or are happy about a stress being over, there's no reward for it, you just have the next thing to worry about.

There's a lot of things that stress you out during one day. Smaller things like having to do your homework or going to the dentist.

And there's big stresses, that kinda define your current months. Like the stress of the period you're studying for midterms, the period when you're writing your thesis or doing your internship, of finding a place to rent, of searching for a job etc...

And there's the huge stresses that really define your life, the things that are the framework, background stresses that define who you are right now and are your main source of stress. Your current job, your degree etc...

Also the miscellaneous surprise stresses: sickness/death of loved one or pet, your own sickness etc...

And there's also things that multiply your stress like mental illnesses, poverty. Or like imagine you have a girlfriend and they're really toxic and abusive.

 

[micropenis29]

I stopped doing all the things that used to stress me out.

I can imagine that having a girlfriend would be stressful though, because she'd always be getting texts from Chad.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I stopped doing all the things that used to stress me out.

I can imagine that having a girlfriend would be stressful though, because she'd always be getting texts from Chad.

Doesn't work stress you out?

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Pretty similar, even though I'd almost categorize things like "going to the dentist" into big stresses. It's a heavy burden for me even weeks before the actual appointment is.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Pretty similar, even though I'd almost categorize things like "going to the dentist" into big stresses. It's a heavy burden for me even weeks before the actual appointment is.

Then take good care of your teeth. I fucked up my teeth majorly so now I have fillings falling very often, gotta have more major things put in etc...

 

[Deleted member 27495]

the repetitive linearity of life until death is painfully mediocre when you're incel.

 

[Deleted member 22572]

Ye I get this

 

[Deleted member 7448]

the repetitive linearity of life until death is painfully mediocre when you're incel.

It's only linear until it bites you in the ass reminding you that if you think you have it bad it will get worse.

 

[Deleted member 27495]

It's only linear until it bites you in the ass reminding you that if you think you have it bad it will get worse.

things stop getting worse when ur dead at least, although maybe they dont lmao

 

[Incline]

It's like life is one series of stresses from birth till death. Smaller daily stresses and big stresses too. And you don't even celebrate or are happy about a stress being over, there's no reward for it, you just have the next thing to worry about.

There's a lot of things that stress you out during one day. Smaller things like having to do your homework or going to the dentist.

And there's big stresses, that kinda define your current months. Like the stress of the period you're studying for midterms, the period when you're writing your thesis or doing your internship, of finding a place to rent, of searching for a job etc...

And there's the huge stresses that really define your life, the things that are the framework, background stresses that define who you are right now and are your main source of stress. Your current job, your degree etc...

Also the miscellaneous surprise stresses: sickness/death of loved one or pet, your own sickness etc...

And there's also things that multiply your stress like mental illnesses, poverty. Or like imagine you have a girlfriend and they're really toxic and abusive.

My life is constant stress I wanna thugmaxx.

 

[micropenis29]

Doesn't work stress you out?

No. But I remember a time when it did, back when I was a youngcel.

I worked a lot of stressful jobs before realizing that lifestyle wasn't for me.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

No. But I remember a time when it did, back when I was a youngcel.

I worked a lot of stressful jobs before realizing that lifestyle wasn't for me.

There are chill jobs? I can't even imagine one. Things that deal with customers are obviously a nightmare. The average office job is pretty shit and stressful too. Physical labor is shit not because of the labor but because there'll always be an asshole boss telling you to do all kinds of shit, plus the coworkers would suck too.

Idk, maybe my imagination sucks.

 

[micropenis29]

There are chill jobs? I can't even imagine one. Things that deal with customers are obviously a nightmare. The average office job is pretty shit and stressful too. Physical labor is shit not because of the labor but because there'll always be an asshole boss telling you to do all kinds of shit, plus the coworkers would suck too.

Idk, maybe my imagination sucks.

I agree on all points. The chill jobs are few and far between. But through trial and error, you'll eventually stumble across one.

You have to be willing to quit bad jobs though. That's the key.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I agree on all points. The chill jobs are few and far between. But through trial and error, you'll eventually stumble across one.

You have to be willing to quit bad jobs though. That's the key.

Yeah maybe some job where the management is so incompetent that you can just type up a few python scripts and automate it entirely. But that's such a dream, unlikely to happen.

 

[Indari]

holy shit yes. In elementary school I was always worrying about the next big project. summer break was the best and summer homework was brutal cancer aids that ruined everything. It continued in college and I dropped out and now try to keep everything simple as possible. uni is the opposite of that

 

[micropenis29]

Yeah maybe some job where the management is so incompetent that you can just type up a few python scripts and automate it entirely. But that's such a dream, unlikely to happen.

You have to identify the worst parts of whatever your current job is, and find a new job that eliminates those.

Then you just repeat that process over and over until you've eliminated everything bad.

It might take some time, but it works. Most people are too afraid to quit their current job though for various reasons; often they don't want to take a pay cut, or sometimes they don't want to deal with the social ramifications, or they feel like they've invested so much already in their job (Sunk Cost Fallacy).

 

[Deleted member 7448]

holy shit yes. In elementary school I was always worrying about the next big project. summer break was the best and summer homework was brutal cancer aids that ruined everything. It continued in college and I dropped out and now try to keep everything simple as possible. uni is the opposite of that

Yeah I dropped out once too. Uni is aids and cancer, I can't stand it. Every day a new stress. And working is even worse, it's hard to even imagine.

You have to identify the worst parts of whatever your current job is, and find a new job that eliminates those.

Then you just repeat that process over and over until you've eliminated everything bad.

It might take some time, but it works. Most people are too afraid to quit their current job though for various reasons; often they don't want to take a pay cut, or sometimes they don't want to deal with the social ramifications, or they feel like they've invested so much already in their job (Sunk Cost Fallacy).

Yeah but that only works if you live in a 1st world country in a big city where jobs are aplenty. In shitty countries you take what you can get.

 

[micropenis29]

Yeah but that only works if you live in a 1st world country in a big city where jobs are aplenty. In shitty countries you take what you can get.

Are you able to move?

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Are you able to move?

Technically yes I could move anywhere in Europe if I renewed one of my passports. However, and I don't want to sound like more of a whiny, mopey bitch than I already do, but it would be too hard for me. I've been depressed for a long time, I have many sources of anxiety, I may even be agoraphobic. And I've been a pseudo neet for years. I'm a mess in so many ways, I don't think I have it in me to leave the country again. Hell, even leaving the house is a huge stress for me nowadays.

Although when I start wageslaving and hate life a lot more I will probably feel different eventually. Though my parents and my cat are the only beings in this world that care for me and I care for so it will be hard even then to leave them, very very hard, don't know if I can do it.