Yes but no. It is true that a woman is most likely to suffer physical attack from her steady guy. However, there's not anything wrong with that. Domestic violence as a crime was made up in the 1920s, not enforced until the 1960s, and then legislated harder in the 1970s. For basically all of history, it was normal and expected that a man would use force to correct his woman when she's acting retarded, which is often.