Serious Is there anyone here who actually managed to quit masturbation and especially pornography?

[Mainländer]

Hard mode: not because of low T or drugs that made you low T
Lunatic mode: you were a hardcore addict and quit, not someone who never had much problem with it to begin with (or never started, if people like that still even exist)
Nightmare mode: you have been clean from it for a significant amount of time, like more than a year

I want to hear your stories if you exist, please tell me.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Quit, as in, forever?

 

[Mainländer]

@Transcended Trucel did more than a year

Then relapsed? Please tell me your story or link me to where it's posted, @Transcended Trucel

 

[Mewcel]

No reason to quit (fighting biological urges which is never going to work), better to channel the sexual energy to kundalini awakening

 

[Ellsworth]

I’m too weak

 

[Deleted member 6329]

No and I'll probably never will tbh.

 

[Mainländer]

No reason to quit (fighting biological urges which is never going to work), better to channel the sexual energy to kundalini awakening

Vade retro Satana!

Just kidding, how do you do it? Have you tried?

I’m too weak

I know that feel.

 

[Mainländer]

don't know if he relapsed but he went over a year without fapping

Damn, I hate cold showers.

 

[Lame Dude]

Quitting is silly imo. Reducing it to a managable level, especially if you are an addict, now thats something.

 

[Mewcel]

Vade retro Satana!

Just kidding, how do you do it? Have you tried?

There's masturbation techniques where prana is preserved (injaculation). Interesting take is that females don't lose prana during orgasm (this only happens once a month when prana is lost), males however can deplete prana due to frequent ejaculation (sperm contains prana). Doing yoga/mindfullness/meditation/drugs also helps.

Prior to knowing this, I've experienced a sudden energy spike from the base of the spine to the brain a few months ago (also lower chakras activation). Which is supposedly a classic sign in kundalini.

 

[Deleted member 26884]

My longest streak on nofap was like more than 100 days.

 

[Smitty]

I am addicted to the internet, not pornography
I just fap as I feel like it, sometimes not for days, sometimes multiple times a day, nofap is a massive cope and feminist psy op. Just dont masturbate and cure your toxic masculinity, pls study coding so you can generate tax revenue thanks goyim!

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

no, and this is because my psychology is such that masturbating gives me energy and motivation, gets me out of bed and doing things. cooming is a part of that but not really required.

i didn't coom the entire summer of 2019, all three months, combined with some weightlifting and eating more meat. i think this made my face and body composition a little more masculine, sure. but it didn't do anything to reduce my anxiety or improve my mood. and "strategically" i was in the same pits when it came to dating and friends, talking to two other lifting guys that did nothing to go looking for girls and basically refused to set me up with their female friends even though they had a few opportunities.

 

[watcher]

I used to fap every day, now I fap once a week and I am not going back

Nofap is too extreme and doesn't work

 

[squirrelsonfire2]

I can’t get past day 1 I’m a weak coomer

 

[PresidentCel]

Sex is a strong physical need for men. I don't see how anyone would be able to stick to something like nofap long term. It's like giving up eating, drinking, or breathing air. I mean we're all here on this forum because we can't get one of our most basic needs met in a satisfying way.

Prostatitis is also something you risk if you don't masturbate or have sex at least occasionally.

Maslow was one of the founders of modern psychology. According to Maslow, sex is one of the most basic human needs. Next time one of the morons on IT tells you that you aren't entitled to sex, link them to Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs. You wouldn't tell someone that they aren't entitled to food or air. But this is literally the argument IT tries to make.

 

[crestfallencel]

Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Then relapsed? Please tell me your story or link me to where it's posted, @Transcended Trucel

You have to take lots of cold shower.s busy yourself entire day, read anti porn posts and Books daily for at least 30 minutes. PMOhackbook is a good one and it's free and on Google. cut cellphone out as much as you can

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

No. I was on NoFap for 47 days

I don’t want to stop masturbating tbh and I like hentai

 

[your personality]

I've done it before (abstaining from fapping for about one year) but after fapping daily for a long time your digestive system can come to rely on you cooming, otherwise you can get gas and constipation like issues.

 

[Unhappy-Man]

I blocked most porn but Microsoft edge (ironic) is jewing me over as I forget some security questions so i have to wait a month until I can fully block it by wiping my history

 

[RedIce]

I managed to last for about 5 weeks, the first few days will be difficult, but as you go along it will get easier to the point where you don't even feel the need to masturbate.

 

[Pengwin]

I did it for around 4 months but I relapsed and realised porn isn't as detrimental as people claim within Nofap circles

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Whenever I get to around 1 week of nofap, my body starts feeling very weird. My legs start feeling weak and jelly-like, and I have a weird, pain-like sensation in my balls. When I googled my symptoms I found that others have had the same issue. The longest I've ever gone is 7 days.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

No and I'll probably never will tbh.

I don’t want to stop masturbating tbh and I like hentai

 

[Deleted member 26922]

Hard mode: not because of low T or drugs that made you low T
Lunatic mode: you were a hardcore addict and quit, not someone who never had much problem with it to begin with (or never started, if people like that still even exist)
Nightmare mode: you have been clean from it for a significant amount of time, like more than a year

I want to hear your stories if you exist, please tell me.

Ive gone nightmare for atleast 1.3 years

 

[Mainländer]

Ive gone nightmare for atleast 1.3 years

Tell me how you did it please.

 

[Tenshi]

3 or 4 months without any drug or something to help me. But I think no fap is kinda retarded tbh. No porn is valid tho.

 

[MentalistKebab]

I been doing nofap since February 8.
Its getting easier after 2 weeks since your libido drop a little bit (as long as you dont watch pronography or be around cute girls).

But now its getting harder because I am finally convinced that this whole Nofap thing was BS and wont get me laid. I also watched a porn today without cooming, so I think I have a great control now.

 

[Mainländer]

I been doing nofap since February 8.
Its getting easier after 2 weeks since your libido drop a little bit (as long as you dont watch pronography or be around cute girls).

But now its getting harder because I am finally convinced that this whole Nofap thing was BS and wont get me laid. I also watched a porn today without cooming, so I think I have a great control now.

I once did an almost 4 months nofap. I also noticed it becoming easier after week two (I never got to that mark again though), and then it progressively gets harder again. Towards the end it was gbecoming pretty much impossible, I felt like a meth, heroin and ecstasy put together junkie, I just needed sex or porn.

 

[Deleted member 17419]

It's easy not to fap if you take copiates.

 

[Mainländer]

It's easy not to fap if you take copiates.

You mean opiates? But then I'd just start a new and much more serious and expensive addiction.

 

[FinnCel]

It doesn't feel as good as it used to do I don't feel like doing it

 

[Deleted member 17419]

You mean opiates? But then I'd just start a new and much more serious and expensive addiction.

Yeah, and I guess so, there's no escape from pleasure seeking behavior tbh. Your brain will trick you into it one way or another, abstinence is just sad coping. There's no reward in the after life. Sometimes it feels good to disassociate from ones sexual nature though, drugs or not. I hate being manipulated by my own brain into tugging on my dick, it's pretty cringe. Does not mean I won't do it but still.

 

[Deleted member 26922]

Tell me how you did it please.

I was a good muslim back then,

elab: even had some muslim dads joking about me marrying their daughter, (But with my dad they were seriously planning it) one of them had a stacy arab daugter , he genuinely thought i have a chance with her, the reason is they want children who are religious, in this day and age with society corrupt

 

[mänline]

8 Years, but relapsed the last 6 months 3 times and last year two times.
First 4 years without Jesus, but discipline and filter. The urge to watch and the dopamine rush was less and less and it becomes more disgusting and/or boring most of the time when I relapsed. I experienced often instant cleansing of mind and desires, when I pray, especially when I recognize it as a demonic attack.

P.S.: I am relative low T, which may helped, but was also quite addicted.

 

[riceronicel]

My longest streak was 6...hours.

 

[Deleted member 818]

It doesn't feel as good as it used to do I don't feel like doing it

 

[FlamingCel]

It is a sin. Demons want me to sin. I will not let them win.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I once did an almost 4 months nofap. I also noticed it becoming easier after week two (I never got to that mark again though), and then it progressively gets harder again. Towards the end it was gbecoming pretty much impossible, I felt like a meth, heroin and ecstasy put together junkie, I just needed sex or porn.

it's really something when you cut out all copes. for some reason i ended up trying it a few years ago when feeling low. no sugar. no fapping. no wasting time chatting on the internet pretending i have friends. nothing.

i can't even describe what i felt, but the feeling of lack and deprivation was so intense. i wouldn't exactly call it pleasurable but the intensity of it was very high, it was an absolute peak of feeling to just go cold turkey on all these coping behaviors.

makes you think this might be why ascetics and hermits exist, this intense high coming from extreme pleasure deprivation, especially if you have tasted all those pleasures in the past.

 

[WannabeGerman]

I could never quit, my urges are too strong, and it's a good cope

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Why on earth should I quit masturbation? I have never tried and see no benefit.

I've been long times without masturbation in the military and mental hospital and occasionally when I still did not live alone and it was hell. My problem actually is too little masturbation. More masturbation means more thoughts given to non-women affairs, non-sex affairs, non-incel affairs. But I don't masturbate enough. Because it makes me so sad due to no change ever to experience the real thing.

 

[metabuxx]

I don't want to. Its my only cope.

 

[Mainländer]

it's really something when you cut out all copes. for some reason i ended up trying it a few years ago when feeling low. no sugar. no fapping. no wasting time chatting on the internet pretending i have friends. nothing.

i can't even describe what i felt, but the feeling of lack and deprivation was so intense. i wouldn't exactly call it pleasurable but the intensity of it was very high, it was an absolute peak of feeling to just go cold turkey on all these coping behaviors.

makes you think this might be why ascetics and hermits exist, this intense high coming from extreme pleasure deprivation, especially if you have tasted all those pleasures in the past.

I just try it sometime just to have the experience. I think it would be more doable if I were outside doing some kinda of camping or something, at home normally it would be just way too difficult.

 

[Neggr]

I’m too weak

 

[Deleted member 140]

Why would you want to? Unless you're like coming 10 times a day. 2 or even 3 times a day is natural

 

[Hate_my_life]

Yah. Managed to do over 290 days then I got surrounded by a stupid trigger.

I've lost count on what day I am, but if you're quitting for good I'd recommend forgetting about "how many days" have gone by.

Just live. It helps than my ISP bans pornography and accessing it would require me installing a VPN (too lazy).

Staying busy is recommended. When I have an idle mind, I'm more likely to get tempted.
Avoid looking at pictures of women as well.

 

[Gobbocel]

Incels shouldn't consume any real pornography, you're just promoting a industry of chad and stacy fucking and Increasing the status and gains of being a whore.
Consume doujin made by and for your fellow men.

 

[Billowel]

8 Years, but relapsed the last 6 months 3 times and last year two times.
First 4 years without Jesus, but discipline and filter. The urge to watch and the dopamine rush was less and less and it becomes more disgusting and/or boring most of the time when I relapsed. I experienced often instant cleansing of mind and desires, when I pray, especially when I recognize it as a demonic attack.

P.S.: I am relative low T, which may helped, but was also quite addicted.

i struggle a huge deal with masturbation.It seems that when i focus on doing something and i find the goal worthwhile i can go without masturbation but that barely happens(i ldar for most of the time).say a few prayers for me if you can.i don't want to anger the lord but i also want to forget i exist for a few hours.i just feel like sighing.

 

[Deleted member 26506]

I never was addicted to pornography, sometimes I masturbate with porn sometimes without, it depends on how I feel