Serious Is there any such thing as mentalmaxxing or personalitymaxxing?

[Treecel]

I'd be honest. As much as i love people here i think that this blackpill is getting on my brain even if it's true. It makes me feel depressed and stop wanting to try. I'm thinking of leaving this site and try to change but i'm not very sure yet. Even before i knew what the blackpill was i only got attention when i put on a fake personality of being confident and smart, and honestly it's just tiring and i hate myself everytime i do it. I hate lying. Any thoughts on this?

 

[newlyawakened]

If the fake personality works then use it. If you are actually getting attention that way you may be underestimating your own SMV.

But if it still doesn't work, then the blackpill is the only option. For a certain percentage of the population, there's just no hope.

 

[BrapZilian]

Only if you're good looking enough for it to matter

 

[Gymcelled]

If you're physically good looking enough to be attractive it starts to matter.

By that I mean that behaving like a complete socially anxious/inept sperg will hurt your SMV.

But having great social skills when you're ugly won't build attraction.

 

[Treecel]

If you're physically good looking enough to be attractive it starts to matter.

By that I mean that behaving like a complete socially anxious/inept sperg will hurt your SMV.

But having great social skills when you're ugly won't build attraction.

I'm a tallfag but asian, and i have shit social skills. I never got a message back from girls, but i guess at least the last time i tried they responded. That for me is not over yet, but idk how you guys think about my situation/

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Only if you're good looking enough for it to matter

 

[Treecel]

If the fake personality works then use it. If you are actually getting attention that way you may be underestimating your own SMV.

But if it still doesn't work, then the blackpill is the only option. For a certain percentage of the population, there's just no hope.

thanks. i will try to get my life back on track. 7 days into no coom november since i coomed 5 times in the first week.

Only if you're good looking enough for it to matter

Yeah, i see many instances when my conversation doesn't matter to foids as much as chads do.

 

[Gymcelled]

I'm a tallfag but asian, and i have shit social skills. I never got a message back from girls, but i guess at least the last time i tried they responded. That for me is not over yet, but idk how you guys think about my situation/

How tall?

Also if girls (or people in general) act really antisocial/evasive/cold/passive aggressive they either hate you and/or find you ugly.

It might not be over, depends on your face and how tall you are.

 

[JestER]

Personality only matters if you have the face for it, but only to a certain point i.e Chad face, then you can do whatever the fuck you want and fuck whatever you want. But If your below normie tier, its over. Personality means fuck all (not literally)

 

[Sexdoll Pioneer]

Only if you're good looking enough for it to matter

Exactly. As I wrote on another thread, women PRIMARILY judge a man on immutable physical characteristics like headshape, facial structure and height. Only if he meets her physical standards will she FURTHER judge a man based on his income, ability to make her laugh, sexual performance, and a million other things.

 

[Idotms]

It does matter, but looks matter more.

 

[Gymcelled]

Exactly. As I wrote on another thread, women PRIMARILY judge a man on immutable physical characteristics like headshape, facial structure and height. Only if he meets her physical standards will she FURTHER judge a man based on his income, ability to make her laugh, sexual performance, and a million other things.

Yeah. The confident, outgoing, dark triad chad mogs the regular chad.

But normies can dark triad or try to confidencemaxx as much as they want and they'll still be mogged all day by a shy, nervous, slightly awkward chad.

 

[Guest2]

You're a zoomer, tall and you get attention if you actually put in effort. You don't belong here; be happy. I don't understand people who try to take the blackpill when it doesn't even matter to them, and they start to think that they're incel too for some reason

 

[Vermilioncore]

Looks always come first.

 

[happiless]

Yes, see the vid below

 

[Gymcelled]

You're a zoomer, tall and you get attention if you actually put in effort. You don't belong here; be happy. I don't understand people who try to take the blackpill when it doesn't even matter to them, and they start to think that they're incel too for some reason

The blackpill has value even if you're normie and above. Because knowing the blackpill will let you know what's actually valuable or not when it comes to increasing your SMV.

 

[Sexdoll Pioneer]

Yeah. The confident, outgoing, dark triad chad mogs the regular chad.

But normies can dark triad or try to confidencemaxx as much as they want and they'll still be mogged all day by a shy, nervous, slightly awkward chad.

I've never seen a shy, nervous, awkward Chad because they've received enough validation and opportunities to socialize throughout life that it all comes naturally to them.

 

[Gymcelled]

I've never seen a shy, nervous, awkward Chad because they've received enough validation and opportunities to socialize throughout life that it all comes naturally to them.

I've met one but after a few years he became more outgoing.

 

[Neggr]

you can statusmaxx

 

[Treecel]

How tall?

Also if girls (or people in general) act really antisocial/evasive/cold/passive aggressive they either hate you and/or find you ugly.

It might not be over, depends on your face and how tall you are.

185 cm tall, but baby cheek. typical asian trait. long hair. i also gymcel so im a bit ripped

You're a zoomer, tall and you get attention if you actually put in effort. You don't belong here; be happy. I don't understand people who try to take the blackpill when it doesn't even matter to them, and they start to think that they're incel too for some reason

i truly hope it didnt matter in my life until a while ago i got cucked by some chads. Talked to a girl over 6 months only to find that she fell in love with some low iq chad who happens to be larger and taller than me.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

i truly hope it didnt matter in my life until a while ago i got cucked by some chads. Talked to a girl over 6 months only to find that she fell in love with some low iq chad who happens to be larger and taller than me.

Hopefully this taught you not to develop anymore oneitis or "crushes".

Leave this site while you can if you believe you're not that ugly.

 

[Flaccid_Dave]

PUA theory is valid (bear with me). It's the same as training on how to conduct yourself in a business meeting. There are things you can say and do that will make you come across in a better light.

The kicker is... the top 5-10% can say anything to a woman, and the bottom 80% might as well get the rope. Personalitymaxxing is only really worth it if you're Chadlite - the kind of man who can get Becky's attention, but can't afford to make a single mistake once engaged in conversation.