Is there any point in socializing if you don't get relationship or sex out of it?

[Deleted member 5089]

I mean, what's the point of being socialized, having friends, if you are so ugly you can't score or meet a girl to have relationship with? I just don't get it, why ruminate over weak or non-existent social life if it never even began for us. Socialize, crack jokes, smoke a blunt, get drunk, have fun... for what? So that others can meet someone and enrich their lives, while we keep on rotting, but can at least say that "we had fun with our friends on weekend"?

 

[AntiPain]

I'd like to discuss philosophy with a friend perhaps, sounds good. Problem is I don't wanna go outside, my socialization is very limited and thus hard to achieve. Not everything revolves around women.

 

[Mainländer]

With foids? Not at all.

With guys? Yes.

 

[ThisLifeKillsMe]

No. Thats why I stay inside

 

[Insomniac]

Having friends is great. I miss the feeling of spending time together with someone that I can laugh and share experiences with. It makes me sad when I look back on my memories with my school friends. I wish I had savored those moments more..

Bros before hoes tbh.

 

[InsanityIsThisWorld]

To keep your sanity I guess.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Having friends is great. I miss the feeling of spending time together with someone that I can laugh and share experiences with. It makes me sad when I look back on my memories with my school friends. I wish I had savored those moments more..

Bros before hoes tbh.

High IQ!

 

[ovrload]

To keep your sanity I guess.

this. otherwise youre gonna become a total sperg who doesnt know how to communicate. Once you start staying in social isolation for too long, your brain forgets how to socialise with other humans

 

[Deleted member 5089]

With foids? Not at all.

With guys? Yes.

I don't think so. What do you get out of it? Okay, you can get drunk, so what? I've had my share of socializing and I got nothing out of it. Whole point of socializing and having friends is so that you can meet someone and start relationship with them. Without that aspect hanging out, clubbing etc. doesn't make any sense.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

On one hand, you'll be seen as a beta orbiter. On the other hand, not socializing may effect your mental health long term.

 

[InsanityIsThisWorld]

this. otherwise youre gonna become a total sperg who doesnt know how to communicate. Once you start staying in social isolation for too long, your brain forgets how to socialise with other humans

Exactly. Its a bad feeling of loneliness. Any copes help even a simple convo online

 

[ovrload]

On one hand, you'll be seen as a beta orbiter. On the other hand, not socializing may effect your mental health long term.

The problem with beta orbiters is they try and buy their way into making the female attracted to them. It never works.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

The problem with beta orbiters is they try and buy their way into making the female attracted to them. It never works.

Never spend money on a woman who isn't giving you something in return (like sex)

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

Bros before hoes

 

[ovrload]

Never spend money on a woman who isn't giving you something in return (like sex)

Jfl if you think buying her gifts and free meals is gonna make her wanna fuck you more lol

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Jfl if you think buying her gifts and free meals is gonna make her wanna fuck you more lol

I am always surprised at how daft cucks and betas can be sometimes

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

That's actually what I was thinking. I'm really social, but why waste my energy on people who don't a relationship with me? I have become introverted as a result. To add insult to injury, I realize that women see me like an ogre from the start, so that's even more reason not to waste my energy on them.

 

[Kent]

Having friends is great. I miss the feeling of spending time together with someone that I can laugh and share experiences with. It makes me sad when I look back on my memories with my school friends. I wish I had savored those moments more..

Bros before hoes tbh.

the problem with socializing is if you are blackpilled is that being blackpilled in of itself creates tension. I can't tell you how many times a normtard friend has said something to me and I've laughed thinking it was a joke, when he was serious. Obvsly they take that shit as being laughed at or "muh negativity" LOL ...but I dunno how much its worth it past certain point.

I mean try not to be an unsociable asshole, but most people aren't anyway to begin with.

Cliffs: The Blackpill is your best friend and does look out for you

EDIT: also a lot of friendships are based on hierarchical needs, so if you are with someone who thinks they are the alpha you better act your role if you wanna keep your "friend". Blackpilled is actually an alpha-trait cuz you see the psychology behind people's behavior or words.

 

[Mainländer]

I don't think so. What do you get out of it? Okay, you can get drunk, so what? I've had my share of socializing and I got nothing out of it. Whole point of socializing and having friends is so that you can meet someone and start relationship with them. Without that aspect hanging out, clubbing etc. doesn't make any sense.

I have friends to talk about things I like and have people around my age to engage in activities my family members won't want to. You don't have to go out with them, I mostly interact with them virtually.

 

[Michael15651]

No point in anything anymore other than LDAR