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Serious Is therapy with a women the emotional equivalent to seeing a prostitute?

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Not troll post, seriously curious on thoughts about this and not sure. The therapy is assuming that you go see some women even though you know she can't really help you or fix many of your incel struggles.

With prostitution you go see a women (i haven't), give her money for her time and she helps fulfills or at least helps with your physical needs. She does not really care about you, she's only doing it for the money. You are merely a customer to her - nothing more.

Now, if you go see a women therapist with the sole intent of getting some emotional stimulation and connection knowing that you're not going to get better cause she doesn't really care about you after that hour, isn't that the same thing? Just one is emotional needs and the other is physical?

I mean both are getting some need met or at least stimulated, so is therapy with a women a decent cope if you're alone and have no one of any kind? Many of you here escortmaxxx, but never seen or read of anyone going to therapy to get emotional needs met to some extent knowing they won't actually get better. Could therapymaxxx be thing?
 
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The two therapists I visited in college were both men:feelsrope:
could have "escortmaxxed" spiritually if I was lucky enough to get assigned a stacy as my therapist
 
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nah they'd just be indifferent to you, zero genuine engagement.
 
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OwlGod said:
nah they'd just be indifferent to you, zero genuine engagement.
but isn't that the same thing for hookers? You could be trash when you fuck her but if you're into in then does genuine engagement really matter? As long as you finish and feel satisfied, isn't that the only thing that really matters since it's just a service they're providing for you? I think it's all about you, not them since you're paying.
 
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Theberryodd said:
but isn't that the same thing for hookers? You could be trash when you fuck her but if you're into in then does genuine engagement really matter? As long as you finish and feel satisfied, isn't that the only thing that really matters since it's just a service they're providing for you? I think it's all about you, not them since you're paying.

hookers you're using of her body for pleasure, isn't comparable to a conversation at all, even worse one immersed in bland dull dishonest triviality.
 
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No. You don´t get pleasure from it.
 
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No because having sex with a prostitute isn't torture.

If you open up with a female therapist, especially if she's young and pretty, you are in extreme risk of falling for her as an incel and this will hurt you terribly.
 
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fast_curry said:
The two therapists I visited in college were both men:feelsrope:
could have "escortmaxxed" spiritually if I was lucky enough to get assigned a stacy as my therapist
I had a Stacy therapist years back. It was awkward as fuck. I would also hold back and not offer too much info. Having a male therapist is far better. Well for the past decade almost maybe I have had no therapists.
 
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I dont know about therapists but female psychiatrists cant do anything
 
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Mainländer said:
No because having sex with a prostitute isn't torture.

If you open up with a female therapist, especially if she's young and pretty, you are in extreme risk of falling for her as an incel and this will hurt you terribly.
Female therapists also can disrespect you and be very judgmental because they cannot understand male struggles.
 
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NorthernWind said:
they cannot understand male struggles.
There's also that.

It's at best useless and at worst detrimental. Don't go. Go read the bible instead.
 
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Mainländer said:
No because having sex with a prostitute isn't torture.

If you open up with a female therapist, especially if she's young and pretty, you are in extreme risk of falling for her as an incel and this will hurt you terribly.
dam, I guess i didn't think too much about falling for them, but makes sense since we don't get much positive attention from women so would be easy to simp for them, fuck.
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Female therapists also can disrespect you and be very judgmental because they cannot understand male struggles.
true, I browsed their profiles a few times and for the most part saw them specialize in "women's issues" but never men's.
 
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I had a good female therapist, who treated me with respect and was kind to me, and was humble. We were going through similar issues considering our similar backgrounds, minus the incel aspect I probably kept to myself. I was even able to express my dark insight on bullying and what that could lead to (violence) and the fact that having a beacon would be enough to make a difference. I had to quit early as I felt I was about ready to rope (didn’t as I had no good plan or method at hand). Since then I was trying to get her back, which I did eventually after a year.

As I was waiting for her to open up again, I had tried another therapist, a white middle-aged woman. As much as I tried giving the benefit of doubt, my sessions with her have been extremely irritating. Arrogant, constantly misunderstanding me, and essentially trivializing my problems. I almost snapped at her. Bitch one day even decided to disappear on me.
 
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GoyBargainer said:
What is it?
That when I looked back on my highschool experience, I could’ve easily been like one of those school shooters. Not that I would’ve been able to, but… at the time, I became a much darker version of myself. I wanted to hurt just about anyone, for bullying me, making racial jokes at my expense, treating me like I didn’t exist, and all that. And it’s the same with work. But there was always a few people who treated me like a human being, and that’s just about enough to quell some of that anger and hatred I had in me. I refer to those as “beacons”.

Maybe I’m wrong, and I’ll acknowledge it’s not for everyone, but I believe that having someone like that, would make a difference and prevent all this.
 
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Deta97 said:
That when I looked back on my highschool experience, I could’ve easily been like one of those school shooters. Not that I would’ve been able to, but… at the time, I became a much darker version of myself. I wanted to hurt just about anyone, for bullying me at my expense, treating me like I didn’t exist, and all that. And it’s the same with work. But there was always a few people who treated me like a human being, and that’s just about enough to quell some of that anger and hatred I had in me. I refer to those as “beacons”.

Maybe I’m wrong, and I’ll acknowledge it’s not for everyone, but I believe that having someone like that, would make a difference and prevent all this.
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Theberryodd said:
Not troll post, seriously curious on thoughts about this and not sure. The therapy is assuming that you go see some women even though you know she can't really help you or fix many of your incel struggles.

With prostitution you go see a women (i haven't), give her money for her time and she helps fulfills or at least helps with your physical needs. She does not really care about you, she's only doing it for the money. You are merely a customer to her - nothing more.

Now, if you go see a women therapist with the sole intent of getting some emotional stimulation and connection knowing that you're not going to get better cause she doesn't really care about you after that hour, isn't that the same thing? Just one is emotional needs and the other is physical?

I mean both are getting some need met or at least stimulated, so is therapy with a women a decent cope if you're alone and have no one of any kind? Many of you here escortmaxxx, but never seen or read of anyone going to therapy to get emotional needs met to some extent knowing they won't actually get better. Could therapymaxxx be thing?
Yes. And no.

Escortcelling is not harmful.

Therapy is
 
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Deta97 said:
I had a good female therapist, who treated me with respect and was kind to me, and was humble.
lol at you, you are her customer.
Deta97 said:
We were going through similar issues considering our similar backgrounds, minus the incel aspect I probably kept to myself. I was even able to express my dark insight on bullying and what that could lead to (violence) and the fact that having a beacon would be enough to make a difference. I had to quit early as I felt I was about ready to rope (didn’t as I had no good plan or method at hand). Since then I was trying to get her back, which I did eventually after a year.
no point paying a foid to talk to you.
 
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Linesnap99 said:
lol at you, you are her customer.

no point paying a foid to talk to you.
I fortunately don't. I'm covered by medicaid.

Also, it's probably better I have her than no one since I don’t really have much of an outlet otherwise; not my selfish mother who secretly resents me because of my issues with grandpa, my grandparents, not my brothers, not my dad, not anyone.
 
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They don’t like you or want to talk to you, it’s just their job to be nice.
 
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(((therapy)))
 
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Mainländer said:
No because having sex with a prostitute isn't torture.

If you open up with a female therapist, especially if she's young and pretty, you are in extreme risk of falling for her as an incel and this will hurt you terribly.

OwlGod said:
hookers you're using of her body for pleasure, isn't comparable to a conversation at all, even worse one immersed in bland dull dishonest triviality.
 
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cvury said:
They don’t like you or want to talk to you, it’s just their job to be nice.
I don’t care whether she enjoys it or not, what’s relevant is the quality of the service.
 
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when i was in college i had a cumskin short foid maybe in her 30s as therapist. i didnt want to go to see any therapist but was kinda forced.

she had short hair, brunette, not bad looking especially considering her age. short which is good considering im turbo manlet. but of course therapists are all selfish and only talk to you for the money.
 
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I suppose it could be for some. I don't get that out of therapy. For me, it mostly just fulfils my need for social interaction and it's a bonus I have a female therapist since that's pretty much the most interaction I have with a woman that doesn't treat me like shit. Someone already mentioned it but therapy can definitely do more harm than good. I got way too attached with my first therapist and had to cut it off. Thankfully I'm more detached these days
 
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no since she won't even hug you jfljfl
 
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