Many men in history have died for States and countries that don't even exist anymore, each time believing their self-sacrifice to be of tremendous importance, and their nation to be immortal.
JFL @ "muh country", "muh fatherland", "muh motherland".
The same guy who beats me up right now for saying Germany deserves to disappear will beat me up in two hundred years for saying the Intergalactic Federation deserves to disappear.
Patriotism is a cope only useful to political rulers, to cull excess men (as well as for losers to give a higher meaning to their suicide)
I suspect the vast majority of incels are actually incels because they lack the 'unprovoked domination' instinct that normies are obsessed with (all their conversations and actions are pure power dynamics, cutting into each other, back handed compliments, jabs, talking over each other, genius of abuse type stuff - always a perpetrator and a cuck/submissive foid who likes to be dom'd). I have no desire to dominate people (or be dominated, which will also gain you pussy (betabuxx and even some genuine no-strings attached sex partners) as you will be allowed into the tribe) who intend me no harm and foids can smell this from 50 miles away (it can turn a 10/10 god into subhuman scum in their eyes imo).
The next and more appropriate to the thread thing that I suspect about all incels is an extreme lack of tribalism or group loyalty. If there is group loyalty, it is merit and healthy-selfishness based, which is death to tribalism because that means they are willing to change the group and push issues that would improve it (god, nobody wants to hear THAT!). I always viewed myself as further evolved than the species, but unrecognizable to their sexual desires as so few people like me had ever existed or been allowed to reproduce. A Friedrich Nietzsche, if you will (evolution is based on past success, so the shiny new model that blows the old one away in every way is actually less desirable (one could even be too athletic or handsome!), and if it's too much of an upgrade, it will not be allowed to reproduce as evolution only wants to replicate the old. This touches on Punctuated Equilibrium, talked about below, because the species can ONLY evolve during times of extreme duress when shiny new models have a chance to thrive out of the chaos (and more importantly, when all of the old models die off leaving the shiny new model as the ONLY breeding option for many generations - better kill off all the dogs too)).
The reason that this is social death is because a group leader has to fully invest himself into the direction the 'ship is sailing,' regarding a culture (from emo to jock), a government, a training regimen, etc. To change this means that the original blueprint is wrong. If I were to be a leader, and I would be a great one (ran many successful raids in World of Warcraft, dealing with big egos and settling disputes), I would be humble and change things, admitting my lack of former perfection for the sake of finding a better path.
But people cannot have this in a leader as things currently are. You must be right ('correct') now, the first time, and pursue this course forever (if you ever change, it is proof you were wrong and are an unfit leader). This is why vicissitudes exist throughout history. It's like Stephen Gould's evolutionary premise of 'Punctuated Equilibrium,' which (imo accurately if evolution were true) states that species (governments) ONLY change during times of extreme environmental change, and outside of extreme environmental change (ice ages, comets landing, migration, etc), there is no reason for species to evolve so comfort becomes king (frankly, devolution or genetic drift, which is where exaggerated expressions of formerly useful genes (peacock feathers) come into play because life has become too easy (attraction to competitiveness and drive becomes attraction to murderous aggression and abuse, because it always seeks the biggest dose it can get away with, like peacock feathers). In this same way, the only way for cultures, nations, tribes, companies, etc, to change (if normies have any say/vote), is for cultural upheaval, violence, necessity, etc.
So you can see that without some level of self-awareness and desire to change and push against the grains of one's own evolutionary desires, which I have had MY ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE, then humanity is completely and totally fucked. Because this time we have technology, and when the 4th reich (America, Russia, China) falls, welcome to biological warfare and nuke central. JFL at these 'China is going to become a super-power' idiots. Reports confirm that foids are soon to destroy that land as well. It'll probably just take 5 or so years longer. This self-awareness though, is the BIGGEST TURNOFF to foids, because they do not recognize it evolutionarily, and simply seek auto-pilot violence-bots. An exaggerated version of the cavemen who would kill the saber tooth if it came near her children.
My point being, nationalism could be a cope, but if you luv ur cuntry with all yer heart, it will probably get you laid. But you have to be retard level IQ for it to work, because you cannot fake it.
we have rules we have a leadER
Homie, ER is no leader of mine.