Serious Is my 34 year old brother an incel?

[AnxiousAtypical]

My 34 year brother hasn’t had sex in almost 7 years. He lost his virginity at his early 20s but he’s never sexually active.

I’m just wondering is my 34 year brother is an incel or MGTOW. He’s never heard of these terms because he never used social media other than YouTube.

 

[Pengwin]

Depends on his intentions

 

[Quarantined]

No but he can support our cause

 

[FACEandLMS]

You know him better than us. Is he ugly? Does he have a social circle? Is he evasive when people ask him about his love-life?

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

Depends on his intentions

He arranged dates with girls but they always cancelling on him

 

[Bakura806]

If you have had unpaid sex or a gf before then you are not an incel in my eyes

 

[dirtykombatcel]

He got sex once so he can somehow do it again.

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

You know him better than us. Is he ugly? Does he have a social circle? Is he evasive when people ask him about his love-life?

I’m not closer to him as a brother should be. He’s ordinary looking, he’s in good shape but he’s hairy all over (including his arms, back) and he’s out ouch of touch with fashion.

He’s friends but there are all men. Unlike me in my teen years I remembering being around girls and more socially confident than I was.

 

[AnonAutist]

My 34 year brother hasn’t had sex in almost 7 years. He lost his virginity at his early 20s but he’s never sexually active.

I’m just wondering is my 34 year brother is an incel or MGTOW. He’s never heard of these terms because he never used social media other than YouTube.

Is he ugly? Mentalcel?

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

If you have had unpaid sex or a gf before then you are not an incel in my eyes

I know there incels on here that sex in past but not in many years.

He got sex once so he can somehow do it again.

I could sex now first time at 25, knowing my luck it won’t happen to me again until another 25 years.

Is he ugly? Mentalcel?

Not at all. I think he’s a lot nicer and less bitter than myself. He had some learning difficulties at school and he’s socially anxiety never kicked in until he’s in 20s. I’m 9 years younger and been diagnosed with autism at aged 3.

According to people like @Personalityinkwell he is incel, for me no.

I have to agree with @Personalityinkwell

 

[your personality]

Tough to tell. From the description almost sounds like what users here would call a "failed normie".

 

[The Abyss]

Sounds like an Incel-l involuntary celibate later stage.

 

[RedIce]

This is a classic case of a "fallen normie", I guess their later life stages can be described as semi-incel, especially when they lose their looks, social life, and attention from women.

 

[BlackPilledKira]

Any man under 40 who isn't getting sex atleast once a month is an incel

 

[TheBasedCel]

Had sex? Incel?

 

[FACEandLMS]

You know him better than us. Is he ugly? Does he have a social circle? Is he evasive when people ask him about his love-life?

 

[muharremabi]

You know him better than us. Is he ugly? Does he have a social circle? Is he evasive when people ask him about his love-life?

 

[Deleted member 23634]

only the ugly can be incel. if he is not, he is probably volcel.

 

[Jerek]

If he's ugly and he struggles having sex, he's an incel.

Having sex for the first time in your late twenties makes you just some sort of low tier normie, but if you spent all those years as a virgin, get sex once and then go on a long dry spell again i'd say incel tier.

 

[NEETard]

Nah hes fakecel

 

[SupremeG]

He's a Volcel/MGTOW. He cannot be Incel if the Foid was willing to have Sex with hin for free.

 

[FinnCel]

Incel, just luckier than most incels

 

[Deleted member 25707]

No he's not an incel.

 

[Deleted member 301]

Incel, just luckier than most incels

 

[Deleted member 23450]

He's a Volcel/MGTOW. He cannot be Incel if the Foid was willing to have Sex with hin for free.

what if he wants sex but can't get it?

 

[SupremeG]

what if he wants sex but can't get it?

He was able to get Sex. If he doesn't get it now through an accident with consequential damage or something similar, then he's Incel. If not, I'd say larp.

 

[ChinaCurry]

Unless he's hardcore monkmode, he's incel.
Having sex means nothing, remember like 35% of .co have had sex

 

[Personalityinkwell]

According to people like @Personalityinkwell he is incel, for me no.

the definition isn't clear, perhaps he's nearcel, maybe even incel

but not truecel

truecel=sub4 khhv

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

what if he wants sex but can't get it?

I think he hates the idea of not being sexually active because all he YouTube is about how to pull girls and has dating apps on his phone.

 

[radishman]

You can only be MGTOW if it's voluntary. If holes are ghosting him, he got sent.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

He got sex once so he can somehow do it again.

Basically what I say tbh. Obviously age declines your ability to do it but that happens to most everyone as they age so its not a unique handicap

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

You can only be MGTOW if it's voluntary. If holes are ghosting him, he got sent.

He gets ghosted