SuicideFuel Is it possible to become comfortable with loneliness?

[Chingaquedito]

I feel really, really bad, the only days of the week I feel good is when I talk to someone on chat or real life, I never thought I would feel this bad.
I've spent months like this, I don't know how to make friends, I've lost all the friends I've had

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Nah, you will always desire a sense of community or union bruv

 

[Chingaquedito]

Nah, you will always desire a sense of community or union bruv

 

[NIKOCADO AVOCADO]

Not really, you learn to live with the pain, like a chronic health condition.

Some days will be horrendous, other bads, some neutral, some good, so on.

 

[Chingaquedito]

I just want to fall asleep, I don't want to be awake and feeling this way

 

[SilverBullet]

Not really, you learn to live with the pain, like a chronic health condition.

Some days will be horrendous, other bads, some neutral, some good, so on.

Perfect way to describe it.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I feel really, really bad, the only days of the week I feel good is when I talk to someone on chat or real life, I never thought I would feel this bad.
I've spent months like this, I don't know how to make friends, I've lost all the friends I've had

Get a pet

 

[zangano1]

Yes

 

[over_department]

I've gotten ok with it, will still have spurts of loneliness throughout the week though which make me miserable
You will never truly be able to live with it

 

[Chingaquedito]

Yes

how

 

[Thugs-4-Less]

I am the most comfortable when I am alone and I sometimes go weeks without talking to anyone, but I was born this way so idk if you can become comfortable with it.

 

[PrototypeCel]

Nah, you will always desire a sense of community or union bruv

 

[curryboy420]

Yes if you have money for copes and enough health to be able to go into the outside world, you can talk to strangers and get a good serotonin fix from that, I used to go to Amsterdam on my own and live in a hostel with strangers and then chat to people in coffe shops and it was a good time, sure it's not as good as having loads of friends or loving family but it's better than being alone forever

 

[RechargedSamsung]

WEED NIGGA WEED AND ALCHOHOL
Possibly even hardcore drugs then you’ll become comfortable with yourself
Bit if you want to feel a foids touch escorting is ur only way bruv

 

[Brainy]

No

 

[zangano1]

how

You can eventually enjoy it. The problem is we are nevrr trully alone. If I didnt have a family and didnt have to work I would be happy living in the woods and never seeing a human again.

 

[Apex.Koala]

Nah, you will always desire a sense of community or union bruv

This site kinda provides it to us

 

[readingcel]

No, this is genetically hardwired into your brain, or at least this is the case for most people (excluding psychopathic outliers). The higher social organism has always been our ticket towards dominating nature, instead of being dominated by its sheer brutality. Even if we do not need the social organism directly today to fend off against tigers, cold, illnesses, mammoths, etc., the genetic makeup behind the need is still there.

Like Aristotle says, either you have to be a beast, or a god to have the capacity to live absolutely alone.

 

[VintageCarCoper]

Not really, you learn to live with the pain, like a chronic health condition.

Some days will be horrendous, other bads, some neutral, some good, so on.

True. As someone that also has a chronic health condition, managing inceldom is akin to the health condition

 

[Grodd]

Nah, you will always desire a sense of community or union bruv

 

[Jud Pottah]

Not really, you learn to live with the pain, like a chronic health condition.

Some days will be horrendous, other bads, some neutral, some good, so on.

The latter part Always.

 

[IggyCope]

It's impossible to lead efficiently with loneliness, it's fighting against a primary instinct. As if you wanted to stop breathing.

to lead with it: coping and more coping.

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper corresponding to him." Genesis 2:18

It seems that God forgot about us.

 

[ThanostheGOAT]

I feel really, really bad, the only days of the week I feel good is when I talk to someone on chat or real life, I never thought I would feel this bad.
I've spent months like this, I don't know how to make friends, I've lost all the friends I've had

Im pretty content with it tbh