Is it hivemind thinking for everyone to say that the earth revolves around the sun? No, it isn't. Being black pilled on many things, like looks and the reality of dating, means that you learn certain truths about the world and the way things in it work. It's also a major reason why the forum appears to be stagnant. We all know the basics. There's no point in regurgitating them.
It isn't controversial to say something like, "personality is more important than looks." It's just plain wrong, akin to a flat earther waltzing into a physics conference and claiming that the earth is flat. The physicists aren't part of a hivemind, they simply all see a truth that is elementary in their field and have no time for nonsense. This is why
crap isn't tolerated and those users are just straight up banned.