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Serious Is it hard for you to say "I love you"?

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When I say love, I don't necessarily mean romantic love.

Just telling your friends (if you have any) you love them, your parents, your pets, yourself, anyone.

If you don't have anyone to tell this, just think of a hypothetical situation.
I personally say it easily.
 
yes i don't think i've ever told anyone in my life i love them
 
Yeah it's hard and makes me cringe a bit. Only done it as a kid. Never done it after
 
I don't have friends
 
yeah, can't imagine anyone would want my affection
 
I don't really love anybody
 
Why would I say something I never heard?
 
It's almost impossibile for me to show affection, probably because whenever I tried as a kid I was misunderstood and humiliated.
 
i dont feel like im loved by anyone so it would be hard to reciprocate
 
Nowadays certainly. I got no one that I love.
 
yes, I prefer to write huge paragraphs to express my feelings
 
Yes because it feels phony and I feel like a scoundrel for being dishonest.
 
I say it to my mother and grandmother, nobody else, tho
 
Yes, very. It's not that I'm averse to expressing affection, it's just that I'm highly guarded emotionally and don't often express strong feelings. Only person I really say it to is my mother.
 
Not sure I told anyone ever that I loved them
 
Only to my grandmother as she died; I'm not sure she could hear me though.
 
I follow a lot of pro violence and explosion channels on yt and many of them dudes end there videos saying, "I love you."

Example:
That's nice. I like that. I didn't hear him say it but I believe you.
Maybe on a different one? But he almost always says it at the end. Wranglerstar usually says it at the beginning.

"Beloved.... Blah blah etc..."
 
Saying that would result in an instant blocking or no longer getting any messages from a w*man
 
I am always honest, so I say it.
Bring me trouble sometimes, but overall it's good to let them know
 
I've never said "I love you" to anyone, parents included. I find it cringey and out of character for me. It feels like something only actors in movies do if that makes sense, but I'm an autistic weirdo.
I care about my family, I just don't say that type of stuff and even if I wanted to I can't just suddenly change my whole demeanor and tell my parents I love them and kiss my mom on the cheek every day. It's too late now.
 
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I've never said "I love you" to anyone, parents included. I find it cringey and out of character for me. It feels like something only actors in movies do if that makes sense, but I'm an autistic weirdo.
I care about my family, I just don't say that type of stuff and even if I wanted to I can't just suddenly change my whole demeanor and tell my parents I love them and kiss my mom on the cheek every day. It's too late now.
It's never too late to spread love.
 
I have never told someone that I love them
 
When I say love, I don't necessarily mean romantic love.

Just telling your friends (if you have any) you love them, your parents, your pets, yourself, anyone.

If you don't have anyone to tell this, just think of a hypothetical situation.
I personally say it easily.
Yes feels awkward
 
Nah not really

I say it to my parents whenever they leave for work
 
It feels weird saying it to my family knowing I'll never be loved in the romantic sense.
 
Might say love ya our love you, but I can never lead with "I" love ya/you. Simply cannot do it. I don't love anything. I'm still trying to love myself and I fucking hate everything about myself. I want to smash my own face in on most given days. Some days I have.
 
I have never uttered these words to anyone
 
I've never told anyone that I loved them before.
 
I say it to my dog
 
Saying i love you to someone is like bleeding in front of a shark
 
Never said it once in my life. Its also kind of a faggot trait if you say it to your male friends. Regardless, whenever my parents said "love you" to me, I would just nod or say "mm-hm". Its just an empty phrase to me at this point since I hear people constantly say it over and over again.
 
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I've never said it to anyone except AI chat whores
 

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