Is it even possible for average men NOT IN SCHOOL to have friends these days?

[mylifeistrash]

Seems most guys are too busy working, too broke, lacking on free time to just hang around and do shit.

Best you'll get in this smart phone era is a bunch of fake "e-friends" on discord or maybe some randoms you play minecraft with.

Friends at work? Forget it. No one at work is your friend. They're all in competition with you. If there's any women in your group or around, your male friends will constantly try to undermine you so they look cool in front of the foids.

 

[LastGerman]

Friends at work? Forget it. No one at work is your friend. They're all in competition with you.

On top of that, no man has time for it. So, it is truly over at this point. There is no room to create a social circle in the first place.

 

[FidelCashflow]

I honestly dont know how normies socialize. If It wasnt for school, i wouldn't know anybody

 

[wizardcel]

I haven't had friends since the early 00s. I used to have a pretty normal social life back then. When high school ended, I drifted apart from the friends I made there. They're all married now. I didn't make any friends in college when I went there for the first time in 2007. I dropped out in 09. I haven't made any friends either since my return to college in 2016. You're right about work. It's impossible to be friends with people there.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I honestly think friends and social circles are now for above average looking guys only. I have seen this for 20+ years.

We are just falling into the natural social order of hareems. Less than handsome = excluded.

Just look at foids social circles. There's usually one cool, tall, decent looking Chad/Chadlite called Matt that social events revolve around and who foids talk about. I remember my younger sister was always talking about this Chadlite in her class who she was friends with but not dating (my sister had a BF) his name was "Swiss Andy". A tall, dark half swiss guy with a BMW given to him by his fater. I met him at my sis wedding and he was boring, yet I myself was led to believe he was some uber great guy. He wasn't.

Nobody takes up the offer if a 4/10 manlet with glasses asks his classmates if they wanna go on a roadtrip to a music festival. Its only decent looking dudes with girlfriends that people wanna socialize with. Its all about access to the "in" group. Ugly single men are brushed aside, and yet society still can't accept or understand why we have spree shooters.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Good question.
I lost all my """friends""" after school and never made new social contacts (besides my faggot normie coworkers).
Social circles obviously exist (what I hear from my coworkers), but I have no fucking idea how they were formed.

It's probably a chad/chadlite and NT thing only.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Its all or nothing in the 2020's.

 

[Orkcel]

I honestly dont know how normies socialize. If It wasnt for school, i wouldn't know anybody

I had a decent amount of friends albeit mostly autistic ones, but friends nonetheless. Friends are fickle though, once you're not doing good no one is there for you, same people who you helped are the first to cut you off.

 

[mcfroggy]

Good question.
I lost all my """friends""" after school and never made new social contacts (besides my faggot normie coworkers).
Social circles obviously exist (what I hear from my coworkers), but I have no fucking idea how they were formed.

It's probably a chad/chadlite and NT thing only.

Friend groups are just childhood friends, or the group they drank with during college. No Normie has to put any effort into them.

 

[Marquis de Sade]

The youngsters today are more likely to sit an chat to each other online rather than go see each other in person. I can't understand it. Tbf I'm an old cunt so it might be a generational thing.

 

[CaptainCuck]

Social circles are for NT and good looking males only. In this high tech modern everyone can find people they want to hang with instantly, whether online or otherwise. If you cant provide instant value, then you are nothing.

 

[letthegoodtimesroll]

I think you're spot on - I've gone thru the same thing for years. I like this meetup.com - I think it has potential cuz people go there specifically for the purpose of meeting people. Maybe joining clubs would work. But usually people are so busy that going to a club meeting is all they can find time for, not doing other stuff outside the club meetings . I tried volunteering but that hasn't worked out at all for making friends

The odd thing is I hear so many people say the same thing about making friends after school but somehow there is a missing link or something

 

[LastGerman]

guy with a BMW

Moggs me once again.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Vladislav (Slavic version of Chad) gets friends easily. He drinks a glass of vodka in a club and starts telling jokes with his lowinhib NT personality and he suddenly has 10 new friends and fucks some slut later on.

An ugly non-NT Slav however has zero chances to have any friends ever.

 

[Emba]

Just make a fren from a wrong number call bro!

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Vladislav (Slavic version of Chad) gets friends easily. He drinks a glass of vodka in a club and starts telling jokes with his lowinhib NT personality and he suddenly has 10 new friends and fucks some slut later on.

An ugly non-NT Slav however has zero chances to have any friends ever.

Slav loses one point by default. Vladislav is 4/10 in the west but top 20% in slavland.

 

[RopeMaXXer]

I am pretty close with some of my coworkers. I actually think I am the most liked person there, and yes I am aware of how delusional I might sound.
Still, it doesn't matter I need a group where sexes intermingle. It's all fucking tiresome I work at a fucking sausage factory

 

[iblamemyself]

Jfl at thinking that NPC office snakes could be friends. Everybody has no time, is fucked from wage cucking, or does not have enough money to do anything.

Best bet imo is a sports club, like a martial arts dojo. Or a shooting range could also be a good CHOice to meet othER like minded people. But once you get out of the hobby, it's all over.

 

[Gymcelled]

You can only be friends with someone at work if they don't work in the same department as you and have no way to compete with you.

Then you go out for lunch together and hang out after work. Though it's still unlikely.

 

[HappilySingle]

You can always meetupcel. Eventually you are bound to find another incel. Try going to the nerdy ones like dungeons and dragons or shit like that. Your friend will be your looksmatch at best.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Negative

 

[Neverbeentouchedcel]

I had friends on 8chan but then they were taken away. 1 rl friend left since high school.

 

[TheGambler2]

It's a chad/chadlite and NT thing only.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

It's possible, both my grandparents, who are in their 60's and 70's have friends

 

[HappilySingle]

I think you're spot on - I've gone thru the same thing for years. I like this meetup.com - I think it has potential cuz people go there specifically for the purpose of meeting people. Maybe joining clubs would work. But usually people are so busy that going to a club meeting is all they can find time for, not doing other stuff outside the club meetings . I tried volunteering but that hasn't worked out at all for making friends

The odd thing is I hear so many people say the same thing about making friends after school but somehow there is a missing link or something

Bumble has a friend thing now. If you cannot even match with friends then you know it's truly fucking over. I haven't tried yet, don't think I could handle it...

 

[Deleted member 16624]

Yes I'd say so.