Is it a cope if I say I don't want a girlfriend?

[Deleted member 18193]

There are genuinely periods of time where I don't feel the desire for a girlfriend, either because I'm focused on a really good cope or because I simply have more important things to do. Of course, whenever I see a couple or a jb, I do get a tingling sense of longing, but it goes away after a few minutes when I return to whatever I am focused on.
The times when I felt most depressed are the times when I actually believed I had a chance at ascending, or when I had my oneitis's when I was younger. But now that I don't go out that often and don't have deal with seeing even the slightest glimpse of normie life, I think I actually feel okay.
I know that this won't last forever, but I have established some pretty good copes now because of my stemmaxxing efforts.

 

[thebuddhacel]

No, probably some people just want sex. To have a date nowadays its almost the same to be a cuck.

 

[Dionysus]

didnt read but seems like cope

 

[grondilu]

Having a girlfriend is not what you want.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Not exactly, because most girls can't pairbond anyway and they aren't interesting besides sex.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

Having a girlfriend is not what you want.

Of course not, but I'm hoping you get the idea

 

[Deleted member 21768]

I'm going to say yes because just getting sex can fuck you over if the bitch deliberately wants to get pregnant and then force you to pay child support making you a forever cuck unless you rope.

 

[j-awarecel]

I see it both ways:

• Deep inside, you'd really like to be with a foid. It's a biological imperative.
• Then you look at the reality, privileged foids glued to a smartphone, and maybe the most rational thing to do is staying away.

 

[Deleted member 818]

No, probably some people just want sex. To have a date nowadays its almost the same to be a cuck.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Depends on the context tbh

 

[radishman]

Nah. I think most here just want validation and sex so pump and dump would work just as well.

 

[sub8male]

No, probably some people just want sex. To have a date nowadays its almost the same to be a cuck.

Still I want non paid sex.

 

[Ticcel]

Wanting a relationship is more of a beta desire anyways—Clinging to a foid out of scarcity while chad feel secure in his access to an abundance of women.

 

[bait____]

I just want free consented sex tbh

 

[solblue]

didnt read but seems like cope

 

[It'sAConspiracy]

You still want them, but unconsciously.For us having a gf is as likely as winning the lottery for the average person( or even lower).So I think everyone here tries to focus on other things at times, to avoid going completely insane, but that doesn't mean you don't want a gf, your just driving full head into copes( which isn't bad btw).I honestly envy you, having an established cope is everything when you're an incel

 

[Ropemaxx]

yeah its a massive cope
i never understood why people who are above" inceldom" waste their time on an incel site. cringe

 

[Deleted member 6753]

sounds like cope to me

 

[Stalin]

Yeah, probably a cope, but admitting this just adds more emotional pain.

Trying to be realistic with myself my only option is society publicly fallen foids like hookers.

At least hookers basically stay the same age, so I can copemog normies when their foids will run out of their looks by turning into postwall meat balls(aka a typical IT foid user).

 

[Deleted member 22549]

Yes and no. Not wanting a girlfriend every now and then is not a cope, it's normal, but at some point your male imperative will trigger the desire to pairbond once again, so you gotta give us some concrete context for us to work with.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

No, probably some people just want sex. To have a date nowadays its almost the same to be a cuck.

only if youre cucked enough to pay for the bitches shit

 

[LitVirgin]

If you could get one you probably would have one

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

didnt read but seems like cope

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Not exactly, because most girls can't pairbond anyway and they aren't interesting besides sex.

Exactly

 

[mänline]

For me it's other way around: don't want a girlfriend 95% of time, but only 5% of time.

 

[Ropemaxx]

Not exactly, because most girls can't pairbond anyway and they aren't interesting besides sex.

They only pair bond with 7+/10 males tbh

 

[cucksaar]

I could see a decent share of men only wanting women for sex, and also wanting sex with different women consistently.

So no it's not necessarily cope to not want a GF.
Comes down to your own preference. Some men don't value what women bring them outside of sex.

 

[Deleted member 21980]

There are genuinely periods of time where I don't feel the desire for a girlfriend, either because I'm focused on a really good cope or because I simply have more important things to do. Of course, whenever I see a couple or a jb, I do get a tingling sense of longing, but it goes away after a few minutes when I return to whatever I am focused on.
The times when I felt most depressed are the times when I actually believed I had a chance at ascending, or when I had my oneitis's when I was younger. But now that I don't go out that often and don't have deal with seeing even the slightest glimpse of normie life, I think I actually feel okay.
I know that this won't last forever, but I have established some pretty good copes now because of my stemmaxxing efforts.

Yes because you want one. We all do.

 

[crestfallencel]

copus maximus

 

[Deleted member 4999]

Nah slaying is what chad would do anyway tbh. Males are programmed to fuck as many foids as possible

 

[Tyrny]

"I dont want a GF" = "I'm a coomer cheating myself out of my primal drive"

 

[Deleted member 17749]

I’d say yes it’s a cope, but I don’t want to get married anyways so it’s my way of coping.

 

[Polar]

90% of the time it's a cope but there are a few cases of incels who lived stoic and admirable lives. Like Issac Newton.

 

[Yerberito]

didnt read but seems like cope