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Serious Is being an incel really that bad?

KingOfRome

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The recent stickied thread by @RageAgainstTDL got me thinking about this. We lament being excluded from the sexual marketplace, consigned to perpetual loneliness for our entire lives, but save for the few exceptions open exclusively to the top echelons of men, what are we really missing out on? The average foid is a narcissistic, entitled, hypocritical, deceitful, cold-hearted, unhygienic, unskilled, incompetent, insecure, fatass. The very little they have to offer--namely, the putrid-smelling holes between their legs--they withhold from whatever non-Chad men they decide to let court them until (maybe, no guarantee!) their hybrid jester and ATM has invested at least ten times its value in time, effort, and money.

I don't know about you, but when I compare the incel life of sitting alone in a corner as the world passes you by, to the normie's life of competing day in and day out with other normies, debasing yourself, working yourself to the bone, and letting your wallet be sucked dry, just for the privilege to call one of these gargoyles "girlfriend" and stick your face in her rancid muff once or twice a month, I can't help but think the incel life is better.

You guys can call cope all you want, lurking cucks can call sour grapes all they want, but with all the new information that's been coming to light recently, I'm finding it increasingly difficult to feel bad about being an incel.
 
yes, nxt thread
 
Yes, it`s really bad
 
The recent stickied thread by @RageAgainstTDL got me thinking about this. We lament being excluded from the sexual marketplace, consigned to perpetual loneliness for our entire lives, but save for the few exceptions open exclusively to the top echelons of men, what are we really missing out on? The average foid is a narcissistic, entitled, hypocritical, deceitful, cold-hearted, unhygienic, unskilled, incompetent, insecure, fatass. The very little they have to offer--namely, the putrid-smelling holes between their legs--they withhold from whatever non-Chad men they decide to let court them until (maybe, no guarantee!) their hybrid jester and ATM has invested at least ten times its value in time, effort, and money.

I don't know about you, but when I compare the incel life of sitting alone in a corner as the world passes you by, to the normie's life of competing day in and day out with other normies, debasing yourself, working yourself to the bone, and letting your wallet be sucked dry, just for the privilege to call one of these gargoyles "girlfriend" and stick your face in her rancid muff once or twice a month, I can't help but think the incel life is better.

You guys can call cope all you want, lurking cucks can call sour grapes all they want, but with all the new information that's been coming to light recently, I'm finding it increasingly difficult to feel bad about being an incel.
I prefer being an incel NEET over being an incel wagecuck.
 
logically no, but monkey brain tells me ooga booga stik dik in roastie, make baby, participate in tribe. Since I do none of it, monkey brain gets sad. Maybe it would be different if I could get autismbuxx and permanently detach myself from society, but I can't so I need to go outside and get suicidefueled frequently
 
It fucking sucks
 
The blackpill has shattered many pathetic illusions I've had around sex and women. It has not, however, cured me of my nymphomania.
 
Being an incel is bad but being a cuck is worse.
 
I have transcended from being mad about not having a girlfriend to being mad that society is fucked and being manipulated by the Elite but no one cares.

I’m also mad that I wasn’t born in a time period where women were attainable for most men. The social pressure to keep them virgin and feminine has all but disappeared.
 
The recent stickied thread by @RageAgainstTDL got me thinking about this. We lament being excluded from the sexual marketplace, consigned to perpetual loneliness for our entire lives, but save for the few exceptions open exclusively to the top echelons of men, what are we really missing out on? The average foid is a narcissistic, entitled, hypocritical, deceitful, cold-hearted, unhygienic, unskilled, incompetent, insecure, fatass. The very little they have to offer--namely, the putrid-smelling holes between their legs--they withhold from whatever non-Chad men they decide to let court them until (maybe, no guarantee!) their hybrid jester and ATM has invested at least ten times its value in time, effort, and money.

I don't know about you, but when I compare the incel life of sitting alone in a corner as the world passes you by, to the normie's life of competing day in and day out with other normies, debasing yourself, working yourself to the bone, and letting your wallet be sucked dry, just for the privilege to call one of these gargoyles "girlfriend" and stick your face in her rancid muff once or twice a month, I can't help but think the incel life is better.

You guys can call cope all you want, lurking cucks can call sour grapes all they want, but with all the new information that's been coming to light recently, I'm finding it increasingly difficult to feel bad about being an incel.

Ye bro but sex and foids are only a minor part of being an incel. There are many other aspects that are much worse.
 
The worst thing is we're being taxed and forced to contribute to this degeneracy. Which is why incels shouldn't pay taxes or contribute to the society that cucked them, they should actually be destructive to it.
 
I'm substantially more annoyed by looking like a monster than inceldom at this point, still hurts though. Might be harsher in some ways for happyfamilycels, since the immersive brainwashing as far as a bright future was painted so thick during early youth.
 
Tbh.

When I think about it logically, I can't think of one reason why I'd want to be with a foid
 
I think about this a lot and honestly, the answer is no. Even if we had a shot at getting a partner, we'd end up getting cucked, dumped for no good reason, falsely accused of rape/abuse and perhaps even worse things.

Of course, the desire for sex and intimacy is still in us but we will never be able to truly satisfy it in the modern world because any foid that were to give us a chance would probably hate us and have some hidden motive for being with us. Look at all those news articles and Reddit threads about husbands finding out their children aren't theirs, that'd be our future if we weren't incel. Any sub-Chad man will get fucked over if he is allowed entry into the dating market.
 
I think about this a lot and honestly, the answer is no. Even if we had a shot at getting a partner, we'd end up getting cucked, dumped for no good reason, falsely accused of rape/abuse and perhaps even worse things.

Of course, the desire for sex and intimacy is still in us but we will never be able to truly satisfy it in the modern world because any foid that were to give us a chance would probably hate us and have some hidden motive for being with us. Look at all those news articles and Reddit threads about husbands finding out their children aren't theirs, that'd be our future if we weren't incel. Any sub-Chad man will get fucked over if he is allowed entry into the dating market.
Exactly. It's Chad, incel, or cuck. Cuck is far worse than incel, worse than death in some cases. At least I have freedom as an incel.
 
There's nothing really stopping an incel from being a cuck himself though. The online blackpill can only reach so far.
 
What makes me feel sad is that I am not 6/10 PSL. Inceldom never was an issue. I'm ugly and I can't cope with that.
 
Inceldom = you have less options in your life. Therefore, you are less free
 
What makes me feel sad is that I am not 6/10 PSL. Inceldom never was an issue. I'm ugly and I can't cope with that.
I don't care about being ugly as long as I'm getting sex. Fuck trying to please whores.
 
I don't care about being ugly as long as I'm getting sex. Fuck trying to please whores.
Good for you. After the pussypill I'm not the same man.
 
There's nothing really stopping an incel from being a cuck himself though. The online blackpill can only reach so far.
As if real life blackpills aren't absolutely everywhere jfl.

Also, truecels are too ugly to be cucks
 
being incel is bad because it deprives you of a basic need, which is sexual success, sexual validation, that is, "love," although I think the term is inappropriate; denying it or not, this is a need that must be met, and escorts are artificial and repulsive, so it is a lie to say that they are sufficient; moreover, to be incel is to be a biological end and not only that, but a being whose brain has not expanded or developed to its limits in a total sense, but whatever
 
not having access to sex is the main symptom of being particularly ugly, which means that every single human being will think negatively of you within mere moments of meeting you. it isn't just about not being able to get your dick wet. it is a big deal, of course.
 
As if real life blackpills aren't absolutely everywhere jfl.
Most people are too dumb and/or distracted to connect the dots.

Also, truecels are too ugly to be cucks
If well off, they can betabuxx in niche situations. Maybe that's cherrypicking sure, but I'll say it anyway just to have an interesting response if for nothing else.
 
Better incel than cuck.
 
not having access to sex is the main symptom of being particularly ugly, which means that every single human being will think negatively of you within mere moments of meeting you. it isn't just about not being able to get your dick wet. it is a big deal, of course.
Yeah but most people suck and aren't worth the effort non-Chads put into them. Although it is true that our lives would be better if we weren't universally disliked, I don't see how it's the end of the world.
 
How bad inceldom is depends on how much you are controlled by your primal urges to fuck and dominate foids and to reproduce.

For the vast majority of incels the urges are too strong to overcome which isn't helped by repeated reminders that "Women are Qweens!!!" everywhere they go. It these types inceldom destroys inside and out.

However there is the rare incel that is not too controlled by their primal urges due to things like extremely low/high IQ / heavy autism causing them to be more obsessed with other things than they are with pussy. These are the ones that are mainly involved in the sciences and academics. Though there is nothing stopping them from becoming obsessed with women in their later years once their obsessions with other things die down and their primal urges start to come to the forefront.
 
That's the thing I've never understood aabout incels (I consider myself a "cel"). Why are you so deseperate for getting a gf. They are a butthead, they are bitching and complainning 24/7 for whatever unrelevante reason. Im living by myself since August and i would never change it to back to home with my mother, always complaaining always bitching, clling me out because i bought X and she thinks that it was a waste of money.
 
It's as BAD AS NORMIES THINK, what kind of blue pilled crack are you smoking?
 
Yes it's horrible, not just sex or relationships but how awful having a repulsive face is, even guys want to avoid me, no friends, I quite literally have nothing
 
Stop with this coping mentality. https://incels.is/threads/ive-never-been-so-hard-in-my-life.143118/

What happened to me yesterday was powerful enough to lighten up my mood. I swear that I woke up feeling like shit last Friday morning. It had been raining for hours, it was cold as fuck and I had tolerated bullshit from normies the whole week. But the moment that happened my depression was gone. The minor experience has fueled me with gas to continue for at least a few months. Imagine what a stable sex life could do to you. Stop coping. Being incel sucks, there's nothing positive about it.
 
It’s as bad as being literally starved. Sex is just as much a need as food.
 
Yes it is that bad and it’s not just the sex part. The black pill excludes us from friends, makes it harder to get a well paying job, we are treated poorly by all rungs of society even fast food workers who are at the bottom.
 
I wish I could accept it more but I hate it, at least normies are "living" despite all the bullshit with dealing with foids and their drama. They have the good things I crave also, but I'll never have or experience any of it. Being stuck on the sidelines is no life, its just existing and you may as well be in an open prison!

The average foid is a narcissistic, entitled, hypocritical, deceitful, cold-hearted, unhygienic, unskilled, incompetent, insecure, fatass

That's funny, foids think that about us too, although it's more of a projection.
 
Yes, its really that bad, not doubt.
 
The black pill excludes us from friends, makes it harder to get a well paying job, we are treated poorly by all rungs of society even fast food workers who are at the bottom.
There are no friends to be made. Normies are self-centered backstabbing schemers and throw each other under the bus all the time.

Not having a lot of money sucks, but on the other hand, having no friends or succubus girlfriend means the little spare cash you do make goes entirely to you.

Treated poorly, yeah that sucks, but if you're an incel and you only do the bare essential social interaction anyway, I don't see how it's completely horrible.

I'm not saying this is a great life or even a good one, just that there are far worse things out there, and we should have a bit of perspective.
 
Yeah, it’s shit.

However, being a sub-8 male in general is shit. Even the cucked 7/10 guys basically have no freedom and have to spend their life pleasing their bitchy whiny landwhale girlfriends.
 
I'm not saying this is a great life or even a good one, just that there are far worse things out there, and we should have a bit of perspective.
That's the thing I've never understood aabout incels (I consider myself a "cel"). Why are you so deseperate for getting a gf. They are a butthead, they are bitching and complainning 24/7 for whatever unrelevante reason. Im living by myself since August and i would never change it to back to home with my mother, always complaaining always bitching, clling me out because i bought X and she thinks that it was a waste of money.
Better incel than cuck.
 
Yes. In an overly sexualized society, being an incel is basically the same as starving without ever actually dying
 
I think about this a lot and honestly, the answer is no. Even if we had a shot at getting a partner, we'd end up getting cucked, dumped for no good reason, falsely accused of rape/abuse and perhaps even worse things.

Of course, the desire for sex and intimacy is still in us but we will never be able to truly satisfy it in the modern world because any foid that were to give us a chance would probably hate us and have some hidden motive for being with us. Look at all those news articles and Reddit threads about husbands finding out their children aren't theirs, that'd be our future if we weren't incel. Any sub-Chad man will get fucked over if he is allowed entry into the dating market.
Tbh.

When I think about it logically, I can't think of one reason why I'd want to be with a foid
 
It's not only that bad, it's even worse.
 
Yeah, it’s shit.

However, being a sub-8 male in general is shit. Even the cucked 7/10 guys basically have no freedom and have to spend their life pleasing their bitchy whiny landwhale girlfriends.
This is exactly what I'm saying. JFL at these drama queens saying it's like starving in Auschwitz or something. I can guarantee none of these people have ever been starved.
 
This is exactly what I'm saying. JFL at these drama queens saying it's like starving in Auschwitz or something. I can guarantee none of these people have ever been starved.

The only people on earth who have good lives are chads (8+ men) and foids (absolutely all women no matter how attractive or poor).
 
I kind of feel the same way now days. Most people I see are unhappy with their foids or are happy for a very short period of time until she "expectantly" leaves them for Chad. My uncle has been married 3 times. Every single one ended in horrible consequences for him. The last one took everything he owned and maxxed out his credit cards then left. We had to give him some furniture and a bit of money so he could get back on his feet. It seems like he has finally given up now days.
Yes it's horrible, not just sex or relationships but how awful having a repulsive face is, even guys want to avoid me, no friends, I quite literally have nothing
You got us dude! We are all brothers here!
 
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The blackpill has shattered many pathetic illusions I've had around sex and women. It has not, however, cured me of my nymphomania.
 

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