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Is been nice a wrong approach to life?

ethniccel1

ethniccel1

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Been a good honest guy will get you no where in life at all. Employers will just abuse you and flood you with unpaid over time and extra work. Rather be an ass hole and call in sick till the fucker learns not to give you etxra work.

Been nice to foids and helping them out wont get you pussy and when you need help they wont help you so be ruthless and let them suffer. If they want your help let them give up the pussy. Only way to avoid simping and orbiting.

Been nice to family members and soft will make siblings get you cut out of your inheritance so rather be ruthless

Just wondering and thinking in my head if been nice is actually a blue pilled cuck state of mind?
 
Being nice don't get you nowhere.
I've been called many names in the book while being a good man and for IT cucks no I didn't do it for attention and validation. I was raised that way but bw and ww still hated me. I've seem goons,drug dealers, niggas who smoke weed all day and gangbang be called good people by foids. We were conditioned this way. That's why I don't take what women say to heart value. They lie to much.
 
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Yes, being nice is the wrong approach in life. Most people are normies, and normies are selfish and emotional pack animals who let their fears and desires rule them. When you're nice and people don't know you or what you're capable of it triggers the predatory instinct in normies. They then try to establish their dominance over you (because they can't dominate the chads and other alphas) and try to exploit you for whatever they think they can get out of you. They will pretend to be your friend because you bring them some functional or material utility. They will see you as a pushover and perceive you as lower than them on the social ladder.

That doesn't mean, however, to be a complete asshole and douchebag. It means that you stand up for yourself, don't take shit, and don't let others take advantage of you. It means that you have principles and self-respect. It means that you set clear boundaries in your relationships - social and professional - and you follow through with consequences of others overstepping those boundaries.

Remember that you can be good without being nice; they're not inter-dependent. As a strategy, you can pretend to be nice to ferret out the people who are fake and are there only to exploit you. This is exactly what I did to remove the fake people in my social circle. Pretending to be stupid has a similar effect of spotting who is out to take advantage of you. This is a bit tricky, though, because first impressions are hard to shake off and once people see you as a dunce, it may close off some doors that you wanted to keep open.
 
Yes, being nice is the wrong approach in life. Most people are normies, and normies are selfish and emotional pack animals who let their fears and desires rule them. When you're nice and people don't know you or what you're capable of it triggers the predatory instinct in normies. They then try to establish their dominance over you (because they can't dominate the chads and other alphas) and try to exploit you for whatever they think they can get out of you. They will pretend to be your friend because you bring them some functional or material utility. They will see you as a pushover and perceive you as lower than them on the social ladder.

That doesn't mean, however, to be a complete asshole and douchebag. It means that you stand up for yourself, don't take shit, and don't let others take advantage of you. It means that you have principles and self-respect. It means that you set clear boundaries in your relationships - social and professional - and you follow through with consequences of others overstepping those boundaries.

Remember that you can be good without being nice; they're not inter-dependent. As a strategy, you can pretend to be nice to ferret out the people who are fake and are there only to exploit you. This is exactly what I did to remove the fake people in my social circle. Pretending to be stupid has a similar effect of spotting who is out to take advantage of you. This is a bit tricky, though, because first impressions are hard to shake off and once people see you as a dunce, it may close off some doors that you wanted to keep open.
More proof the world needs to Die.
imagine the Delight of casting Everything into a Bowl of FIRe and watch the flames Dance consuming every farce

i cannot Pretend. and i will not Pretend.
 
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Just do what benefits you. No need to be mean. But fuck shrinking down for the sake of others. It won't help you. Don't do things that make you feel weak. It's a horrible mistake
 
Yes, being nice is the wrong approach in life. Most people are normies, and normies are selfish and emotional pack animals who let their fears and desires rule them. When you're nice and people don't know you or what you're capable of it triggers the predatory instinct in normies. They then try to establish their dominance over you (because they can't dominate the chads and other alphas) and try to exploit you for whatever they think they can get out of you. They will pretend to be your friend because you bring them some functional or material utility. They will see you as a pushover and perceive you as lower than them on the social ladder.

That doesn't mean, however, to be a complete asshole and douchebag. It means that you stand up for yourself, don't take shit, and don't let others take advantage of you. It means that you have principles and self-respect. It means that you set clear boundaries in your relationships - social and professional - and you follow through with consequences of others overstepping those boundaries.

Remember that you can be good without being nice; they're not inter-dependent. As a strategy, you can pretend to be nice to ferret out the people who are fake and are there only to exploit you. This is exactly what I did to remove the fake people in my social circle. Pretending to be stupid has a similar effect of spotting who is out to take advantage of you. This is a bit tricky, though, because first impressions are hard to shake off and once people see you as a dunce, it may close off some doors that you wanted to keep open.
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