Discussion Is anyone more bothered by the lack of friends than romantic success?

[Wilmoty_95]

There is a part of my life that hurts me a lot more than not having a girlfriend or wife. That is, not having any friends.

I've interacted a lot with welfare services and notice how I look over my back but see nobody there. My benefit will stop on my birthday if a permanent solution isnt found, which makes this feel like the world is crushing me with its hate. This hurts me, on an emotional level, more than my involuntary celibacy. There is a profound sense of grievance and resentment that nobody really gives a shit about me outside of my Mother, who is doing everything she possibly can just so we stay above water. People say I should work in a supermarket full of Indians and teenagers, people I would never relate with (not that I have anything against Indians). I just hate how insincere and fake people are, and I'm always the one that reaches out.

 

[pedrolopezwasright]

No. Male friends weren't a problem for me at all

 

[pedrolopezwasright]

No. Male friends weren't a problem for me at all

since they don't care about looks, height, or being non NT

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

that's very odd. copes and social media can make up for lack of friends but nothing can makeup for lack of physical intimacy.

 

[Acornvict]

The only friends I have are the ones I met back in my early school days

Never made any friends after that

 

[Friezacel]

Having sexual sucess mogs having friends hard and anyone who says otherwise is either gay or coping

 

[Wilmoty_95]

that's very odd. copes and social media can make up for lack of friends but nothing can makeup for lack of physical intimacy

I sort of addicted to porn in a sense, which has completely fried my understanding of intimacy if that makes sense. I just don't think about it as often as I once did.

Friends and the lack of them is a new obsession, really.

 

[lifesucksandyoudie]

Lookism outside of romantic relationships remains a constant pressing concern I have to deal with, I already accepted I won't ever have a sex life a long time ago

 

[lennox]

Here's a tip: find people who want to make friends. If you go on Meetup you'll see tons of people new to your city, so go there solo and be all friendly, joking, and bringing up hobby/activities you can do afterwards. And yes drinking at the bar counts as an activity

 

[faded.belgradestein]

There is a part of my life that hurts me a lot more than not having a girlfriend or wife. That is, not having any friends.

I've interacted a lot with welfare services and notice how I look over my back but see nobody there. My benefit will stop on my birthday if a permanent solution isnt found, which makes this feel like the world is crushing me with its hate. This hurts me, on an emotional level, more than my involuntary celibacy. There is a profound sense of grievance and resentment that nobody really gives a shit about me outside of my Mother, who is doing everything she possibly can just so we stay above water. People say I should work in a supermarket full of Indians and teenagers, people I would never relate with (not that I have anything against Indians). I just hate how insincere and fake people are, and I'm always the one that reaches out.

Get a job you lazy piece of shit

 

[Doesitmatter?]

Yeah. I hope I had friends to carry my low inhib ass

 

[Skelly.Belgrade]

copes and social media can make up for lack of friends

false, sleepoverless teen years made me who I am today.

 

[faded.belgradestein]

Having sexual sucess mogs having friends hard and anyone who says otherwise is either gay or coping

 

[Friezacel]

Here's a tip: find people who want to make friends. If you go on Meetup you'll see tons of people new to your city, so go there solo and be all friendly, joking, and bringing up hobby/activities you can do afterwards. And yes drinking at the bar counts as an activity

Okay normie

 

[lowz1r]

that's very odd. copes and social media can make up for lack of friends but nothing can makeup for lack of physical intimacy.

 

[TODD VAN DAMME]

If you want friends by any means, just do activities. Meetup is filled with lonely men that will talk your ear off.

 

[Arook]

I'm antisocial

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

sleepoverless teen years

 

[lennox]

Okay normie

It's insane how far my masking skills have taken me as of late. I feel like a spy and a fraud at the same time:

Reentering the social world. Where can I fit in?

I feel like an outsider when meeting people of my age. I have been NEETing since leaving high school a few years ago and I don't have much to show in terms of schooling, internships, let alone a career. I'm trying to make new friends, but people my age seem somewhat judgemental of my situation...

incels.is

 

[Quarantined]

no

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

you can't fuck friends

they're mostly just a timesink in the end

 

[IncelGolem]

jew....dirty fucking jew....

fuck you @faded jew.

 

[FLAME KAISER]

Me

 

[lennox]

If you want friends by any means, just do activities. Meetup is filled with lonely men that will talk your ear off.

Are there any other friend-making strategies?

 

[coping_manlet]

If you want friends by any means, just do activities. Meetup is filled with lonely men that will talk your ear off.

Problem is that 90% of them are your average soyjacks. Bluepilled foid worshipping cucks that are SUPER neurotypical

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

Problem is that 90% of them are your average soyjacks. Bluepilled foid worshipping cucks that are SUPER neurotypical

people going to meetup shit aren't generally 'SUPER neurotypical,' they are often lonely and isolated

 

[Freixel]

I have 2 very good friends, but I see them very little, before I had 2 groups of fake friends, they are shitty people but the amount made me feel less alone

 

[DarthBurritoBastard]

I don’t have any friends in my life

 

[Sloth.Belgrade]

Having sexual sucess mogs having friends hard and anyone who says otherwise is either gay or coping

 

[T. Normanno]

Nope. When I was like 17 I thought I'd focus all my attention on 1 single loved person and that would have been enough human interaction for me.

 

[faded.belgradestein]

Problem is that 90% of them are your average soyjacks. Bluepilled foid worshipping cucks that are SUPER neurotypical

 

[faded.belgradestein]

jew....dirty fucking jew....

fuck you @faded jew.

Fuck you! Die you fucking racist garbag

 

[faded.belgradestein]

Okay normie

 

[Friezacel]

If you want friends by any means, just do activities. Meetup is filled with lonely men that will talk your ear off.

Doesnt work for Aspies

 

[SubhumanGamer]

I don't really care anymore, friends suck just as much as women do.

Most of the time friendship to normies is "how can I use this chud as much as possible with barely putting effort it"

Friendship with fellow incels is just gay

 

[underballer]

since they don't care about looks, height, or being non NT

They do

 

[underballer]

Problem is that 90% of them are your average soyjacks. Bluepilled foid worshipping cucks that are SUPER neurotypical

non nt incels have more in common with non nt normies

 

[nothingnowhere]

im literally too low T to have friends. i have an intersex condition that gives me high estrogen and low T, i act fucking whiny and pathetic and emotional at times, i get along better with women socially but they dont want my subhumanity near them obviously, im fucked in every single way, i dont want to be this cunts lowest tier orbiter but i cant even make male friends IM FUCKED. im practically not even a man its a fucking joke im going to ER

 

[copemaxx9002]

I don't want to be around anyone they are too judgy

 

[ethniccel1]

There is a part of my life that hurts me a lot more than not having a girlfriend or wife. That is, not having any friends.

I've interacted a lot with welfare services and notice how I look over my back but see nobody there. My benefit will stop on my birthday if a permanent solution isnt found, which makes this feel like the world is crushing me with its hate. This hurts me, on an emotional level, more than my involuntary celibacy. There is a profound sense of grievance and resentment that nobody really gives a shit about me outside of my Mother, who is doing everything she possibly can just so we stay above water. People say I should work in a supermarket full of Indians and teenagers, people I would never relate with (not that I have anything against Indians). I just hate how insincere and fake people are, and I'm always the one that reaches out.

with romantis success you dont need friends. A wife is also known as a "companion" meaning she is the main person you spend alot of time with, shieeet you even sleep in the same bed smelling each others farts and body odours.

She will become your friend