When IT tells us to work on our personality, I think what they mean is that INTPs are horrible people, as in every single Myers-Briggs trait is as antithetical to romantic pair-bonding as possible. For the record, the Big 5 is a more scientically accurate personality model, and personality models in general have limits in describing an objective truth, I think it is interesting and pragmatic, so I will continue on.
Introversion- this trait dooms us. If you are introverted you are not inclined to socialize. You live in your head like a coward. You are prone to hibernate for fun, and go thru life passive-aggressively, because you are too socially uncomfortable to assert yourself. Introverts naturally hate giving value to others, more out of social awkwardness, rather than bad intent. Providing social value is the foundation of relationships, and introverts fail at this miserably.
Intuitive- Where a strong intuition might be handier in making long-term relationships work, when it comes to first impressions it's awful. You are ultra-sensitive, and picky. You understand naturally when things don't work, and are therefore less risk-taking. The number of opportunities dwindle. The ideal is to be sensing. When you have a sensing trait, you are more inclined to not overthink things, be present in the moment, aware of your surroundings. Sensors usually are less neurotic, and more capable of comfortably breaking the touch barrier.
Thinking- Most women are feeling, and NEED a tapestry of emotions in their life, and you, the thinker, are an autist robot. The world is black and white. True or false, Anything grey, or liberal, smells fluffy to you. While most women FEEL like Justice Kavanaugh is a RAPIST, thinkers need facts to back up such claims. This is a huge death knell, as being on the wrong side of #BelieveAllWomen = incel (unless Chad).
Perceiving- this trait is poorly labeled, because in practicality, the biggest difference between a judger and a perceiver is that judgers actually get shit done. Percievers just sit on their ass all day overthinking. Overthinking that leads nowhere. We concoct all these theories about people, and even make plans, but never follow thru. So while we might agonize over how we might muster the strength to walk into a bar someday, we would probably exhaust ourselves mentally to even go thru with it in real life.
tldr: INTPs are fucked. INTPs are frequently misconstrued for having actual autism. INTPs are often perceived as sociopathic, because we come across as aliens, that sometimes try to be something they are not just to seem normal, yet that never works IRL. To add to our extra fucked-ness, our most compatible romantic partner is the ENTJ . . . the RAREST female personality type.
Introversion- this trait dooms us. If you are introverted you are not inclined to socialize. You live in your head like a coward. You are prone to hibernate for fun, and go thru life passive-aggressively, because you are too socially uncomfortable to assert yourself. Introverts naturally hate giving value to others, more out of social awkwardness, rather than bad intent. Providing social value is the foundation of relationships, and introverts fail at this miserably.
Intuitive- Where a strong intuition might be handier in making long-term relationships work, when it comes to first impressions it's awful. You are ultra-sensitive, and picky. You understand naturally when things don't work, and are therefore less risk-taking. The number of opportunities dwindle. The ideal is to be sensing. When you have a sensing trait, you are more inclined to not overthink things, be present in the moment, aware of your surroundings. Sensors usually are less neurotic, and more capable of comfortably breaking the touch barrier.
Thinking- Most women are feeling, and NEED a tapestry of emotions in their life, and you, the thinker, are an autist robot. The world is black and white. True or false, Anything grey, or liberal, smells fluffy to you. While most women FEEL like Justice Kavanaugh is a RAPIST, thinkers need facts to back up such claims. This is a huge death knell, as being on the wrong side of #BelieveAllWomen = incel (unless Chad).
Perceiving- this trait is poorly labeled, because in practicality, the biggest difference between a judger and a perceiver is that judgers actually get shit done. Percievers just sit on their ass all day overthinking. Overthinking that leads nowhere. We concoct all these theories about people, and even make plans, but never follow thru. So while we might agonize over how we might muster the strength to walk into a bar someday, we would probably exhaust ourselves mentally to even go thru with it in real life.
tldr: INTPs are fucked. INTPs are frequently misconstrued for having actual autism. INTPs are often perceived as sociopathic, because we come across as aliens, that sometimes try to be something they are not just to seem normal, yet that never works IRL. To add to our extra fucked-ness, our most compatible romantic partner is the ENTJ . . . the RAREST female personality type.
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