Read OPs post , In the End OP was overreacting .
All his dad did was make a harmless blackpilled joke about his apparent flaw ( his looks )
and i said that i prefer this subtle way of blackpilling your children instead of cucked parenting .
I dont mean go as far as spitting in someones face or physical harm .
But jokes like this are a great way to send the message instead of instilling false hope .
Also OP didnt state in his post if his dads intention were malicious or if it was just harmless bantering among guys .
i assumed that it was bantering and thats what i had in mind when writing my response .