So, for him, our problem is a low self-esteem, which pollutes our new relationships and leads us to find a community of other people with low self-esteem, and this community validates that you're a sub-human and that foids decide everything in the seduction process.
The point of view of this guy is that we radicalize because Youtube algorythms propose us other incel videos again and again.
All this is very interesting and here's my commentary about that :
What's radicalizing us is not Youtube but our indivivual personal experiences of rejection.
Someone constantly rejected by the vast majority of his own society will NEVER be able to develop any kind of self-esteem.
When I talk about rejection I'm not here talking about one single experience of rejection, but an impressive number of times such rejection has been experienced by an individual.
We deploy a colossal amount of our energy to try to find a gf and it never works. You experience rejection again and again and again until you become mad, or depressed, or go ER, or anything else that make you understand that all those rejection had, in fact, a unique common trait : YOU.
But if you investigate further, you meet Chads and speak with them and you understand something else : as they have never experienced rejection, their self-esteem is very high and makes them even more confident to find a partner. Once you add this high self-esteeem to their face traits, you get the perfect seducer.
All the problem here is linked to self-esteem and one just can't become self-confident when he has a lifetime of rejection behind him. So even knowing all this, we stay incels forever because we can't just change the past.
But now, where does this rejection comes from exactly ? It comes from people bullying you, mocking you, insulting or attacking you for no reason other than your height, your face, your race, and so on. And unfortunately, EVERY society in the world develops the act of bullying others, and even more, sometimes glorifies bullying others. Which is why on this forum, we're not from one specific country or part of the world, but we're from all the countries because very society is similar.
So, does the problem originally comes from us, incels ? No. It is a problem that affects us but this problem is external to us. So we have no means at all to solve this because even if we could magically develop a very high self-esteem (how ?), we would be rejected and mocked and bullied AGAIN.
Bullying is how every society in the world works and every society accepts this fact as an initiation ritual. There is no known place in the world where this initiation doesn't happen. Such an initiation is based on going from childhood to adulthood. You can find such rituals in the most lost tribe in the Amazon forest, but how could we think it doesn't still happens in western societies ? It happens.
We didn't passed the ritual, bros. We failed and now we're incels forever. But not only are we doomed to be incels 'til our last breath, but this ritual will follow us regularly all our lifetime in the shape of a Youtube caster blaming us for existing. We are the Sacrificed, for societies' sake. We exist because Chads exist. And nobody in the world has ever found a means to change this, anywhere, on a large scale.
You want incels to disappear ? Make teen initiation rituals to disappear, and social sacrifices to stop. When someone says : "This guy is different and it's not normal so I'm superior and I should say him", this is exactly when we're radicalizing.
They make us like this.
