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"Rejection is a normal part of life" = "when I'm rejected I justify it by thinking it's inevitable and it happens to everyone, and having a positive attitude about it is actually a good thing which is what really matters in the end. So it's actually good to be rejected in a way!"

"It's your personality that scares away girls"
= "It's wrong for you to be angry about not getting what you want. A human being should be ascetic, humble and self-sacrificing. It's morally good to be repressed."

"Incels are typically average looking dudes" = We are absolutely unable to deal with the injustice of being ugly.
 
"It's just a preference" = We project a just and fair world by thinking that there must be girls who prefer short or Indian men somewhere in other part of the world just like there are girls who prefer white tall men
 
IT posted this and they're fucking stupid as usual:

"Imagine being so entitled that you convince yourself rejection isn't a normal part of life and being angry at everyone who doesn't bow to your every whim is somehow reasonable."

Rejection isn't normal for Chad, so it's not a normal part of life, it's a normal part of being ugly. You say it's a normal part of life to soothe your bruised ego. Nobody said anything about bowing to every whim, the point was that anger is a legitimate response to frustration. You faggots repress your drives so you can pretend they're not going unfulfilled. You turn your failures into virtues. "Oh, I'm so mature and good for being able to handle such a failure!"

Sadly I think that was him trying to straw man us and failing so hard he stumbled onto genuine wisdom by sheer dumb luck.

Yes, learning to take rejection well is good, yes it does happen to everyone!
Since you affirmed that's what you actually believe and called it "wisdom" it's obviously not a strawman. Learning to take rejection well is only good if you're content to live as a cuckold. What's good is to not be rejected, and Chad is not rejected. Affirmation of the self and your own drives is what's good. Doing mental gymnastics to pretend that you're good because you can handle being a loser is sick. You have a sick mind.

It's okay to not be happy about getting rejected, but NOT okay to wish harm upon the one doing the rejecting, or to blame them for your lack of success.
It's perfectly natural to wish harm upon the source of your frustration, but it's not that common among incels to blame women for our lack of success. We blame our genetics.
 
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Of course Chad doesn't give a shit about getting rejected that one time, because he's had about a dozen other times where he wasn't so he knows there's success to be had later. This isn't the same for incels who're rejected near constantly, that's when it starts to become depressing and soul crushing.
Joker clapping
 
Like @mental_out said, there's a massive difference between taking a chance a few times but you know that you'll be ok in the long run, and pulling a broken slot machine. It's not the rejection; it's the implicit suggestion that you're going to be alone for the rest of your life because you are accepted ZERO PERCENT of the time. Why bother working for a broken system that doesn't reward us with even the false promise of hope and success?
 
It's less that rejection isn't a part of life, what makes it stand out for incels is the sheer frequency of it. Incels are rejected at almost every turn, 100% of the time for romantic interests and probably also quite often for simple social situations as well. Of course Chad doesn't give a shit about getting rejected that one time, because he's had about a dozen other times where he wasn't so he knows there's success to be had later. This isn't the same for incels who're rejected near constantly, that's when it starts to become depressing and soul crushing.

IT just don't understand nuances like that and you see it in other issues they talk about, like bullying. They say everyone has to deal with bullying, another people deal with it fine, not realising that it can come in very different intensities. They're most likely thinking of it in the sense of having that one nobhead who gives you shit occasionally, whereas some people here have been in situations where almost everyone around them would be hostile to them not just one dude. Their analytical thinking is extremely impaired in this sense.
I agree, but I wrote "normal" part of life, as in it's commonplace. It isn't commonplace for Chad, it's an outlier.
 
It's less that rejection isn't a part of life, what makes it stand out for incels is the sheer frequency of it. Incels are rejected at almost every turn, 100% of the time for romantic interests and probably also quite often for simple social situations as well. Of course Chad doesn't give a shit about getting rejected that one time, because he's had about a dozen other times where he wasn't so he knows there's success to be had later. This isn't the same for incels who're rejected near constantly, that's when it starts to become depressing and soul crushing.

IT just don't understand nuances like that and you see it in other issues they talk about, like bullying. They say everyone has to deal with bullying, another people deal with it fine, not realising that it can come in very different intensities. They're most likely thinking of it in the sense of having that one nobhead who gives you shit occasionally, whereas some people here have been in situations where almost everyone around them would be hostile to them not just one dude. Their analytical thinking is extremely impaired in this sense.
Cause = Effect. Cause being the Face and Effect being the outcome. The specific Outcome of your Face is so. It is personal to you and cannot be talked about by someone else in a truthful manner. Chad will have whatever he wants because he is Chad. Incel can't even get one relationship, so a pattern must be occurring and it is thought about, sooner or later he will come to his own conclusions.
 
High IQ observations.
 
This is a good idea bro.
 

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