INCELS over 30 who have been incels all their lives: how do you deal with it?

[Bangkok or bust]

• How do you deal with the fact you never had sex in your youth and prime (or only occasionally with escorts)
• That you were never desired by a passable-looking female.
• That you never got to do sexual stuff with jailbaits when you were both 15.
• all those years of your prime being spent alone wanking
• the build up of resent, anger and even psychopathy
• that your pushed to settle for a post-prime old nasty landwhale (at the very best)
• That your a loser in life. And its genetically determined.
• You cannot get revenge on bullies without going to jails
• If you start to act like Chad, you'll find yourself having a sexual conviction and #metoo'd

 

[Blacktarpill]

I cannot imagine tbh
@FrustratedWhiteMale hes 57.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Missing out on fucking a jailbait is literally a debilitating disease that will torture you for the rest of your life.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I cannot imagine tbh
@FrustratedWhiteMale hes 57.

Fuuuk. Why is he still not sui? Things go downhill for a man at 35. The females the same age only look worse and carry baggage and kids. They look disgusting to be honest at 40-44. Its just our biology telling us "no" because she's a post-prime woman and so no longer reproductive material. . Your competing with 28yo Chads for desirable females in their 20's and ones that look o.k in their 30's.


Look at the message volume being sent by men who are in the 50-54 age group on ok cupid. Its being directed towards females who average 36. So men are chasing younger women ~15 years younger on average all their lives.

I can't even imagine being a 57yo guy, never had a GF and then having to settle for a 50yo woman!

Missing out on fucking a jailbait is literally a debilitating disease that will torture you for the rest of your life.

Yes. And the police will destroy your life just for looking at them on the internet.

 

[Joelossus]

Missing out on fucking a jailbait is literally a debilitating disease that will torture you for the rest of your life.

I'm only 21 and can already confirm that.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I'm 41. I've never had a girlfriend and I've always wanted one. Reason: I'm simply not a good looking enough guy and I have reasonable mid-level standards (she must be a 5/10, slim, non-feminist, decent IQ, non-druggy or alcoholic, pleasant).

All of the women I've slept with were escorts. I had a Thai pen pal for several years, and went on a date but that ended in no sex. it was the closest thing I've had to a girlfriend. I've slept with bout 15 escorts since age 26, that's all. . I've never been in love or felt desired/loved back or treated with any worth. All I have is huge obese disgusting butch women after with online dating, no other type ever likes me. Its been a waste of thousands of man hours.

 

[AnimalofPrey]

> r/askmenover30

 

[Mainländer]

How do you deal with the fact you never had sex in your youth and prime (or only occasionally with escorts)

I don't. I feel like utter shit about it.

That you were never desired by a passable-looking female.

Shit sucks, I don't either.

That you never got to do sexual stuff with jailbaits when you were both 15.

Ditto.

all those years of your prime being spent alone wanking

Yup.

the build up of resent, anger and even psychopathy

Bullying also ruins your psychology, it's revolting.

that your pushed to settle for a post-prime old nasty landwhale (at the very best)

I find it revolting and won't.

That your a loser in life. And its genetically determined.
You cannot get revenge on bullies without going to jails
If you start to act like Chad, you'll find yourself having a sexual conviction and #metoo'd

It's all true and revolting, what can we do? Better to cope not to rope.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Missing out on fucking a jailbait is literally a debilitating disease that will torture you for the rest of your life.

How many men really get that though? Where I come from, it wasn't common when I was growing up. Only the most popular men had sex before they were 18, and it was often with some sluts who weren't good looking at all.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

How many men really get that though? Where I come from, it wasn't common when I was growing up. Only the most popular men had sex before they were 18, and it was often with some sluts who weren't good looking at all.

In my area it happens a lot. You only get to live once and you never got to experience the body of a teen, thats just terrible and every time I look at young women on the street it makes me sad that she views me as utter dog shit.

 

[Michael15651]

They are rare on here.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

You see it in more masculine countries like Russia and Poland. Lots of men 21+ dating teens.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I wonder too. Not making it past 30

 

[Deleted member 14382]

I deal with it well because I'm on the autism spectrum, and have an aversion to touching people. I'm attracted to women visually, but don't like how they feel physically.
So, I found the perfect solution to this conundrum: I fap to imagery of hot foids. Problem solved.

 

[Cuyen]

I cannot imagine tbh
@FrustratedWhiteMale hes 57.

same it is beyond my imagination

 

[Angry_runt]

I'm 36, this kind of stuff bothers me a lot less than it did when I was 26. There's a lot of things out there you can distract yourself with or use as copes... at least if you've got your life together in terms of finances and work.

 

[The Abyss]

By hiding from reality as much as possible & knowing there's always suicide when it becomes too much, cope with distractions as much as I can & accept that as a recessed chin Autist coming from an ethnic area as an impoverished cracker it never even began.

I find my own "culture's" norms to be odd as fuck TBF & see everyone living in plastic bubbles. I'm practically an alien compared to others in this "society", I only feel at peace when I'm not thinking or am concentrating on something like vidya or anime, 32 neet loser btw.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

I'm 35 and my main cope is to try not to think about it except when I'm here, in a place among comrades. I have no social media. I don't torture myself looking at all the pictures of Chad and Stacy's awesome lives.

Still, with sex being shoved in everyone's face 24/7, it's hard to avoid it. I've been basically permanently depressed ever since I realized for sure it was over, which was my freshman year of college.

 

[HueHueBr]

I do not care I'm following life without expectations.

 

[mylifeistrash]

at this point, anyone alive past 30 is mentally tough or on a lot of drugs

 

[GoonCel]

Missing out on fucking a jailbait is literally a debilitating disease that will torture you for the rest of your life.

 

[Ghost]

The belief that I'm just paying for the sins of a past life. This is my karma. Perhaps I was a really evil person in a past life.

Bare minimum maybe I was a stuck up snobby elitist who looked down on those below me in status and I'm paying for my sins in this life.

That's my comfort. If I be good in this life my next life will be better.

 

[Firefly]

They all usually ascend in Asia / Eastern Europe before reaching 30.

or

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I am 30 this year.

The years in my mid teens to late 20s spent in my room on my computer all through the most perfect of summers really get to me.

I know I can't get them back so I must go out to approach. It's a cope, but a cope is better than a rope.

You need to manufacturer a delusion sometimes.

I wish I could be 18-25 and approaching, but that is gone forever.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I am 30 this year.

The years in my mid teens to late 20s spent in my room on my computer all through the most perfect of summers really get to me.

I know I can't get them back so I must go out to approach. It's a cope, but a cope is better than a rope.

You need to manufacturer a delusion sometimes.

I wish I could be 18-25 and approaching, but that is gone forever.

You're right. I turn 30 next year, and I need to make the most of my time I still have in my 20s. My motivation to approach has just about vanished, but I need to get back into it.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

You're right. I turn 30 next year, and I need to make the most of my time I still have in my 20s. My motivation to approach has just about vanished, but I need to get back into it.

I forgot about escortcelling. I escortcelled from the age of 25, before I knew about approaching. It's probably a good thing, because approaching without having actually had sex would have been an exercise in frustration.

I wish I escortcelled at 18, but I stupidly listened to people who told me there was still hope.

 

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• How do you deal with the fact you never had sex in your youth and prime (or only occasionally with escorts)
• That you were never desired by a passable-looking female.
• That you never got to do sexual stuff with jailbaits when you were both 15.
• all those years of your prime being spent alone wanking
• the build up of resent, anger and even psychopathy
• that your pushed to settle for a post-prime old nasty landwhale (at the very best)
• That your a loser in life. And its genetically determined.
• You cannot get revenge on bullies without going to jails
• If you start to act like Chad, you'll find yourself having a sexual conviction and #metoo'd

1) that doesn't bother me half as much as the fact that a decent-looking loyal wife-material to have kids with is non-existent in this culture of broken spoiled empowered sluts.

2) Still doesn't bother me as much. I genuinely don't value this modern western slut that fucks for the most trivial luck reasons. They are literally bio-fuckdoll at this point, which is why so many guys just watch porn, because women are now only worth fucking.

3) fucking really isn't my priority. Go look at male porn stars who fuck endless 18 year old whores. Are they your God? The mechanical act of sex is a waste of time: its the winning of a sacred right to something no other man will have in YOUR woman.

4) better than HPV or child support.

5) lol I actually don't give a shit at this point. All women are whores now with at least a dozen dicks.

6) Or broke young women with student loans that will let me blow my load in them for an extra 20

7) Do you really think the history of the world isn't women spreading their legs for men with resources? At the end of the day, women are materialistic whores with childlike mentalities. Most of the porn whores on cams and porn will take a third of their porn shoot money and buy an iPhone XS Max so their credit card and student loan collections can "call them in style" because they're fucking retarded.

You care too much about the approval of women. They were historically means to making children, and in a romantic sense a supportive comforting mate who was just for you and nobody else, which is now gone in the era of "go to college and try a bunch of diverse dick."

8) what bullies? Stop giving a fuck what other people think of you.

9) go to a nursing home and check out the former Chads. They're getting written up for asking for a shower. Eveeyone gets old and ugly. The tragedy is that the youth today are sold a lie to give up everything sacred and become spoiled and broke beyond repair, so that they have no hope of ever truly respecting and loving a mate.

It's a tragedy. Pussy gets boring, you don't have to have it to realize that.