Incels can only be in society as JESTERS

[Sitchnatio]

I always had problems because of low iq + ocd + narcissism.
In school I failed and I was one of the stupidest; people told me I was like Ralph from the Simpson...classic god hearted guy with absent mind and that does weird things.
I tried to cope by gymcelling; I used to walk like a 300 lbs gymcel with arms flexed and pushed on body and it looked very cringe I've always been the butt of jokes; people made jokes on me or disrespectful bullying like slaps on the back of my head or they tied me with a lot of adesive.
My reaction is just laughing/smile thinking it's just a joke because I really don't know what to to.

I never went out because I was too afraid of my appereance, I'm obsessed with hair; I tried so many styles and I was cutting everyday for years or I was cutting my eyebrows ( it looked ridicoulus).
I had social anxiety when out so I didn't even had a good time when I wasn't at school. I was always at home.

Now at work I struggle with basic things and people tell me I can't follow basic instructions and I learn things very slow.
Also I'm friendless and the only role I can have around people is being the jester who does SELF irony or imitation.

 

[Loner94]

Yep the circus clown for everybody else amusement , no thank you.

 

[Deleted member 32725]

Time to courtjestermaxx

 

[Sitchnatio]

@TheUltimateMarkcel @Hyperwristcel

 

[Hyperwristcel]

I understand. When non-incels make jokes about me I can not really "counter" them because I am too nice / high-inhib for that, so I usually just end up laughing at myself with them. For example one guy said my glasses looked cute (obviously to ridicule me for being umanly) and I just laughed with him acting like it was a compliment. Or another time a random guy told me to cut my hair in a mean voice cause I have long hair and I just didn't respond anything because I didn't know how to react.

But it's always better to laugh at it than to take it too serious ... if you laugh at it and they keep insulting you they will just look weird at some point.

Jestermaxx is legit and makes you appear lower inhib than you actually are.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

I understand. When non-incels make jokes about me I can not really "counter" them because I am too nice / high-inhib for that, so I usually just end up laughing at myself with them. For example one guy said my glasses looked cute (obviously to ridicule me for being umanly) and I just laughed with him acting like it was a compliment. Or another time a random guy told me to cut my hair in a mean voice cause I have long hair and I just didn't respond anything because I didn't know how to react.

But it's always better to laugh at it than to take it too serious ... if you laugh at it and they keep insulting you they will just look weird at some point.

Jestermaxx is legit and makes you appear lower inhib than you actually are.

Shit man i feel you bc i did the same in school...

Have you considered taking a more radical approach though? it depends a lot on how long you'll be there for, your expectations and priorities in life, but idk, i thought you may want to consider one of these options:

• Stop laughing at their jokes, and instead just don't react or subtly react in a way that gets the point across that you think they're idiots. you'll need to be socially skillful here, because it could come across as you being autistic or as intentionally ignoring them bc they're idiots. Which essentially boils down to pretending to be confident. It's impossible for you to be confident due to the bullying, but every successful anti bullying strategy will involve pretending to not be used to being bullied (it doesn't make sense logically, but its something you want to subconsciously convey). This may be doable since you're high inhib
• Another approach: This may not be doable for you due to being high inhib, but its worth considering imo. Just try to be high inhib and gradually stand up to them more and more, and don't be afraid to insult them back, disrespect them back... And gain the respect of the class back. There's the obvious problem with that, and its that they could beat you up. For foids its easy to be bold, they just have to talk. But we have to consider the fact that most men are apes who will react violently even if you didn't do anything to them, and be careful. However, that problem can be removed by carrying a knife. A bit radical but worth considering imo.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

However, that problem can be removed by carrying a knife. A bit radical but worth considering imo.

You're going to prison for years or life if you use a knife on someone that fought you without a weapon

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

I always had problems because of low iq + ocd + narcissism.
In school I failed and I was one of the stupidest; people told me I was like Ralph from the Simpson...classic god hearted guy with absent mind and that does weird things.
I tried to cope by gymcelling; I used to walk like a 300 lbs gymcel with arms flexed and pushed on body and it looked very cringe I've always been the butt of jokes; people made jokes on me or disrespectful bullying like slaps on the back of my head or they tied me with a lot of adesive.
My reaction is just laughing/smile thinking it's just a joke because I really don't know what to to.

I never went out because I was too afraid of my appereance, I'm obsessed with hair; I tried so many styles and I was cutting everyday for years or I was cutting my eyebrows ( it looked ridicoulus).
I had social anxiety when out so I didn't even had a good time when I wasn't at school. I was always at home.

Now at work I struggle with basic things and people tell me I can't follow basic instructions and I learn things very slow.
Also I'm friendless and the only role I can have around people is being the jester who does SELF irony or imitation.

never lower yourself to be the jester
no

I always had problems because of low iq + ocd + narcissism.
In school I failed and I was one of the stupidest; people told me I was like Ralph from the Simpson...classic god hearted guy with absent mind and that does weird things.
I tried to cope by gymcelling; I used to walk like a 300 lbs gymcel with arms flexed and pushed on body and it looked very cringe I've always been the butt of jokes; people made jokes on me or disrespectful bullying like slaps on the back of my head or they tied me with a lot of adesive.
My reaction is just laughing/smile thinking it's just a joke because I really don't know what to to.

I never went out because I was too afraid of my appereance, I'm obsessed with hair; I tried so many styles and I was cutting everyday for years or I was cutting my eyebrows ( it looked ridicoulus).
I had social anxiety when out so I didn't even had a good time when I wasn't at school. I was always at home.

Now at work I struggle with basic things and people tell me I can't follow basic instructions and I learn things very slow.
Also I'm friendless and the only role I can have around people is being the jester who does SELF irony or imitation.

never lower yourself to be the jester
nobody values the jester, they dont value the person , just the meme in the moment, then the value to them vanishes it doesnt last
you have to build a values that LASTS, eg financial power or physical or psychological FEAR they cant devalue this, it STAYS exerting over them LOOMING OVER THEM

 

[Hyperwristcel]

Shit man i feel you bc i did the same in school...

Have you considered taking a more radical approach though? it depends a lot on how long you'll be there for, your expectations and priorities in life, but idk, i thought you may want to consider one of these options:

• Stop laughing at their jokes, and instead just don't react or subtly react in a way that gets the point across that you think they're idiots. you'll need to be socially skillful here, because it could come across as you being autistic or as intentionally ignoring them bc they're idiots. Which essentially boils down to pretending to be confident. It's impossible for you to be confident due to the bullying, but every successful anti bullying strategy will involve pretending to not be used to being bullied (it doesn't make sense logically, but its something you want to subconsciously convey). This may be doable since you're high inhib
• Another approach: This may not be doable for you due to being high inhib, but its worth considering imo. Just try to be high inhib and gradually stand up to them more and more, and don't be afraid to insult them back, disrespect them back... And gain the respect of the class back. There's the obvious problem with that, and its that they could beat you up. For foids its easy to be bold, they just have to talk. But we have to consider the fact that most men are apes who will react violently even if you didn't do anything to them, and be careful. However, that problem can be removed by carrying a knife. A bit radical but worth considering imo.

It all happened in food stores or on the street. I'm not forced to be any place right now and have been a NEET for over five years.

In school I got bullied by a girl and insulted her back once but it didn't feel right. It's just not who I am.

 

[Emba]

"I'm helping!"

 

[Deleted member 28148]

We have always been the laughing stock of society, nothing new

 

[Deleted member 31869]

You're going to prison for years or life if you use a knife on someone that fought you without a weapon

even if they started it and were gonna beat you up? shit man

well anyway, just having the knife should deflect the situation by itself without using it, Elliot Rodger did that

 

[Sitchnatio]

never lower yourself to be the jester
no

never lower yourself to be the jester
nobody values the jester, they dont value the person , just the meme in the moment, then the value to them vanishes it doesnt last
you have to build a values that LASTS, eg financial power or physical or psychological FEAR they cant devalue this, it STAYS exerting over them LOOMING OVER THEM

Yes, that's my problem...I tried to be gentle/polite to others thinking they will be friends with me; I tried to laugh at their bullying deluding myself by thibking it was just a joke.
Ofc they still treated me like a laughing jokes

 

[Deleted member 28903]

even if they started it and were gonna beat you up? shit man

When you defend yourself you have to use reasonable force for it to be considered self-defense. If someone unarmed tries to fist fight you and you attack them with a deadly weapon, that will likely not be considered reasonable force.

well anyway, just having the knife should deflect the situation by itself without using it, Elliot Rodger did that

Brandishing a weapon is also a crime in most places, and a serious one in many.

The best way to defend yourself in those types of situations is to be physically fit or to carry a nonlethal weapon like pepper spray if you really just can't fight.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

When you defend yourself you have to use reasonable force for it to be considered self-defense. If someone unarmed tries to fist fight you and you attack them with a deadly weapon, that will likely not be considered reasonable force.

Brandishing a weapon is also a crime in most places, and a serious one in many.

The best way to defend yourself in those types of situations is to be physically fit or to carry a nonlethal weapon like pepper spray if you really just can't fight.

Yeah well. You know, I'm a giga wristcel which can't be fixed by working out bc it's about bone width, and also I've been trying to work out but can't really get much bigger arms.

A chad who's much stronger than me and is threatening to beat me up when I don't want a fight is also not reasonable force. But well, the law is giga cucked.

Even if I did manage to become physically fit, a fight (which again I don't want and should have a right not to be dragged into) is still very dangerous. And pepper sprays are a meme.

I didn't know that was the law regarding knives. I thought that if someone else starts a fight unprovoked, you would be free to choose how to defend yourself, and that brandishing a weapon to avoid trouble would be legal. That is what I think would be fair. But well I guess even the law is made so chad always wins and we have no way to stand up for ourselves.

 

[radishman]

Yep, that's basically all "virgins but not inkwell" is a damn societal jester.

 

[Mainländer]

Legit. I remember normies appreciating me when I jestermaxxed for them in the far past. This didn't get me any results with women, obviously, nor true respect, so I quickly stopped.

 

[your personality]

Legit. I remember normies appreciating me when I jestermaxxed for them in the far past. This didn't get me any results with women, obviously, nor true respect, so I quickly stopped.

They didn't appreciate you. They appreciate what they got from you.