Having no friends and daily mistreatment.
Even the most weird and awkward low tier normies go to IRL social conventions with friends and are treated decently by their own group of people with similar interests.
Their minds live in paradise , even if hated just like us , they will never discover the Blackpill fully due to refusing realty.
The incel isn’t a man who’s weird or lacks social skills or is just ugly.The incel is a man where you put him anywhere and he still fails to fit in. You put the incel in a school for years and he graduates with zero friends male or female.
The term incel has been diluted where it’s used for every man. It’s a specific condition. To be hated by men and women and not have any friends alongside being mistreated everyday is the incel experience.
Hence why many here are not to be taken seriously. Going to parties , having large group of IRL friends , being friends with foids , never being targeted/bullied , fitted in well with others , going on dates and kissing foids.
If most men are incels , the world would shut down and men would throw in the towel. That’s not the case because most men aren’t incels. Most men at least meet one criteria that allows them to function unlike us unlucky ones.
Weird anime lover? They meet up with anime lovers at Comic-Con.
Severely autistic? They get lucky with pity and their minds are incapable of understanding the Blackpill.
Manlet? They have a NT brain at least.
Look at the amount of ugly men out there with girlfriends. They at least have one trait that allowed them to still have friends and maybe even a wife. Could be multiple factors. You can tell yourself he’s being cucked and it’s not real. Well hes fucking her tonight and we’re not and hes meeting up with his friends at the bar on the weekends.