Cope.
You are a biological entity, and just because some animals don't know what they're doing, doesn't mean more complex animals don't.
If this were the case, why would lions slaughter all the cubs of another male when he becomes the alpha male?
Why do male birds try to remove the sperm of their competitors if they don't know what they're doing?
Just having sex isn't meaningful on it's own, it's just temporary pleasure.
More complex animals know the reason for mating, and they have behaviours which make them not want to raise another male's offspring.
If you learn what the reasoning behind why your biological instincts are evolved to be a certain way, that doesn't change the fact that having your own kids and raising them is deeply meaningful.
It's weird when these copers keep thinking evolution stopped at early animals.
Also, people who run after pleasure while not achieving anything meaningful are fools.
By that logic someone who injects drugs like heroin all day is doing nothing more important or meaningful than raising kids.
But no one actually thinks this because our psychology isn't just based on maximizing pleasure, it's fully integrated with our evolutionary design of passing on kids.
There's different reward circuitry like dopaminergic vs serotonin ones when it comes to short term and long term pleasure.
Frying your brain on dopamine isn't going to make you happy long term.
Only having a family can save incels.
But that won't happen, and this it's over.