Blackpill Inceldom will gradually destroy your libido at 25 regardless of your physical health

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

I was 18 year old virgin loser, but as my college years are still ahead of me, opportunities to get laid still seemed endless. I remember being in Venice during a hot steamy summer trying to cool under a shade by the Palazzo Ducale, sucking on a strawberry ice cream while peaking at women's legs and furiusly masturbating to it in the evening -- never watched hardcore porn back then as I though it was low class. This was a year before I would be heading into college, an optimist with high hopes and a libido to match. I still almost had a whole decade ahead of me before I'd hit wizard territory, and I had my hair back then. Gadni lost his virginity at 21, chances were I could just be a late bloomer, which was a comforting thought to cope with. Seeing a group of girls in those years was a pleasantly thrilling experience, the ones with their ears sticking out and buck teeth seemed attainable and therefore even more fuckable, I lusted after all of them young and mature, my apetite was insatiable, it was also the thing I miss the most about that time --

--This turned around in the senior year in college, making it a virgin was a killer blow to my morale as it would be to any man. I went into panick mode at first, waking up at night with my heart pounding, I would be hyperventilating, with my inner voices tormented me "did I just make it though 4 years of college without any meaningful romantic interaction?" No girls or wild parties like the movies showed. How could this happen? Looking back, retroactively, those years seem like months, with nothing happening in between them. I was back home, far from the beautiful mediteranean sea, my youth was expiring, and it took a toll on my desire.

Just a year ago I was compelled to watch porn by pure instinct, now I was watching porn trying reignite the flames of a dying libido.

Looking back at it in retrospect it was pure fantasy that fueled my sex drive back in the day, the sheer optimism of a possible romantic adventure waiting around the corner kept the flames of desire burning in me, it made me feel alive and virile. Funnily, losing sexual desire as an incel should be a relief, but it's not, its a melancholic experience. Or to paraphrase Lacan: thing worst that can happen is not a desire fulfilled, but a loss of desire itself, to stop desiring at all.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

 

[LeDepravedCel]

I wish. My libido has been skyrocketing as I've been getting older. I simply cannot do nofap because the horniness and frustration build up and I lose all focus. I think about brutally fucking every cute girl I see irl. I never did this when I was 18.

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

Exactly.

 

[LooksAreLife]

Wrong.

 

[TheNEET]

I wish my libido could just die, so I could focus on coping

 

[Billowel]

so it's a roll of the dice.just like my birth kek

 

[Caesercel]

My life word for word minus the location. Even the part where 4 years of college seem like months.

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

I wish. My libido has been skyrocketing as I've been getting older. I simply cannot do nofap because the horniness and frustration build up and I lose all focus. I think about brutally fucking every cute girl I see irl. I never did this when I was 18.

Exactly.

Tell me your secrets.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

Hello horny as fuck and 25, this is dad.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Hello horny as fuck and 25, this is dad.

weird

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

weird

Yes son.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

I was 18 year old virgin loser, but as my college years are still ahead of me, opportunities to get laid still seemed endless. I remember being in Venice during a hot steamy summer trying to cool under a shade by the Palazzo Ducale, sucking on a strawberry ice cream while peaking at women's legs and furiusly masturbating to it in the evening -- never watched hardcore porn back then as I though it was low class. This was a year before I would be heading into college, an optimist with high hopes and a libido to match. I still almost had a whole decade ahead of me before I'd hit wizard territory, and I had my hair back then. Gadni lost his virginity at 21, chances were I could just be a late bloomer, which was a comforting thought to cope with. Seeing a group of girls in those years was a pleasantly thrilling experience, the ones with their ears sticking out and buck teeth seemed attainable and therefore even more fuckable, I lusted after all of them young and mature, my apetite was insatiable, it was also the thing I miss the most about that time --
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--This turned around in the senior year in college, making it a virgin was a killer blow to my morale as it would be to any man. I went into panick mode at first, waking up at night with my heart pounding, I would be hyperventilating, with my inner voices tormented me "did I just make it though 4 years of college without any meaningful romantic interaction?" No girls or wild parties like the movies showed. How could this happen? Looking back, retroactively, those years seem like months, with nothing happening in between them. I was back home, far from the beautiful mediteranean sea, my youth was expiring, and it took a toll on my desire.

Just a year ago I was compelled to watch porn by pure instinct, now I was watching porn trying reignite the flames of a dying libido.

Looking back at it in retrospect it was pure fantasy that fueled my sex drive back in the day, the sheer optimism of a possible romantic adventure waiting around the corner kept the flames of desire burning in me, it made me feel alive and virile. Funnily, losing sexual desire as an incel should be a relief, but it's not, its a melancholic experience. Or to paraphrase Lacan: thing worst that can happen is not a desire fulfilled, but a loss of desire itself, to stop desiring at all.

Cool story GrAYcel

 

[LeDepravedCel]

My life word for word minus the location. Even the part where 4 years of college seem like months.


Tell me your secrets.

No, you tell me yours. I want to escape from my misery.

 

[ionlycopenow]

I was already started to become disheveled and giving up on life at about 16-17

Nice juggernaut effect in there. Your whole optimism was just a combination of delusion and juggernaut effect.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

tbh.
niggas be low t and shieett

 

[Caesercel]

No, you tell me yours. I want to escape from my misery.

Dunno, maybe age, maybe acute depression, maybe unbridled hatred for foids. I just...don't feel like fapping anymore.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

I was 18 year old virgin loser, but as my college years are still ahead of me, opportunities to get laid still seemed endless. I remember being in Venice during a hot steamy summer trying to cool under a shade by the Palazzo Ducale, sucking on a strawberry ice cream while peaking at women's legs and furiusly masturbating to it in the evening -- never watched hardcore porn back then as I though it was low class. This was a year before I would be heading into college, an optimist with high hopes and a libido to match. I still almost had a whole decade ahead of me before I'd hit wizard territory, and I had my hair back then. Gadni lost his virginity at 21, chances were I could just be a late bloomer, which was a comforting thought to cope with. Seeing a group of girls in those years was a pleasantly thrilling experience, the ones with their ears sticking out and buck teeth seemed attainable and therefore even more fuckable, I lusted after all of them young and mature, my apetite was insatiable, it was also the thing I miss the most about that time --
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--This turned around in the senior year in college, making it a virgin was a killer blow to my morale as it would be to any man. I went into panick mode at first, waking up at night with my heart pounding, I would be hyperventilating, with my inner voices tormented me "did I just make it though 4 years of college without any meaningful romantic interaction?" No girls or wild parties like the movies showed. How could this happen? Looking back, retroactively, those years seem like months, with nothing happening in between them. I was back home, far from the beautiful mediteranean sea, my youth was expiring, and it took a toll on my desire.

Just a year ago I was compelled to watch porn by pure instinct, now I was watching porn trying reignite the flames of a dying libido.

Looking back at it in retrospect it was pure fantasy that fueled my sex drive back in the day, the sheer optimism of a possible romantic adventure waiting around the corner kept the flames of desire burning in me, it made me feel alive and virile. Funnily, losing sexual desire as an incel should be a relief, but it's not, its a melancholic experience. Or to paraphrase Lacan: thing worst that can happen is not a desire fulfilled, but a loss of desire itself, to stop desiring at all.

Lord shiva can bring it back for you and at the same time keep you mentally above its influence

 

[Eternal Observer]

I wish i had no libido at all. Sure would make getting shit done in a class where some attention whores wear ass shorts a lot easier.

 

[Alone75]

I feel I've been destroyed more mentally from literally decades of inceldom. I still have physical urges though and can't really go 4 days to a week without fapping at least once, although I try to avoid porn now as that makes me feel like shit.

I worry that I won't be able to perform if I ever got the chance of sex, eg. get hard, stay hard.

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

I wish. My libido has been skyrocketing as I've been getting older. I simply cannot do nofap because the horniness and frustration build up and I lose all focus. I think about brutally fucking every cute girl I see irl. I never did this when I was 18.

I wish my libido could just die, so I could focus on coping

I wish i had no libido at all. Sure would make getting shit done in a class where some attention whores wear ass shorts a lot easier.

History is driven by sexual motivation, or sex drive, the impulse to gratify sexual needs, either through direct sexual activity or through apparently unrelated activities (sublimation). A loss of libido is a melancholic experience -- right now you think that you're being bothered by it, but losing sexual desire itself will result in a even greater apathy.

My life word for word minus the location. Even the part where 4 years of college seem like months.

Did it happen quickly, and at what age? I noticed a considerable dive at 26, once I left college.

Cool story GrAYcel

Shitting on graceyls is low iq. Would you prefer me regurgitating prefabricated "it's over" type responses over and over?

I feel I've been destroyed more mentally from literally decades of inceldom. I still have physical urges though and can't really go 4 days to a week without fapping at least once, although I try to avoid porn now as that makes me feel like shit.

I worry that I won't be able to perform if I ever got the chance of sex, eg. get hard, stay hard.

No fap has the opposite effect on me, it get's my libido weaker after 7 days.

 

[Caesercel]

Did it happen quickly, and at what age? I noticed a considerable dive at 26, once I left college.

I think it has been gradual since I was 24. Became slightly noticeable at 25+. But the decline is quite noticeable now at 26. Heck I don't even remember when I fapped last time. That animalistic drive is pretty much dead. You are right it is melancholic. I am not even sure what I am doing with life.

 

[Eternal Observer]

History is driven by sexual motivation, or sex drive, the impulse to gratify sexual needs, either through direct sexual activity or through apparently unrelated activities (sublimation). A loss of libido is a melancholic experience -- right now you think that you're being bothered by it, but losing sexual desire itself will result in a even greater apathy.

Not if you just want money and power for the sake of being a sociopath. Just because most men can't mentally separate work from sexual validation doesn't mean it's impossible.

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

Not if you just want money and power for the sake of being a sociopath. Just because most men can't mentally separate work from sexual validation doesn't mean it's impossible.

outliers be outlining. We're talking in generalizations here.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

My libido has not been destroyed by age 25 or even 30. Not at all.

 

[careermax_aspiecel]

My sex drive is declining too, sometimes when I try to masturbate I start thinking about how pathetic I am being and I get flaccid immediately

 

[your personality]

I think it has been gradual since I was 24. Became slightly noticeable at 25+. But the decline is quite noticeable now at 26. Heck I don't even remember when I fapped last time. That animalistic drive is pretty much dead. You are right it is melancholic. I am not even sure what I am doing with life.

Yet another agepill.
Libido in your early 20s still isn't as extreme as it was in your teens though tbh

 

[Eternal Observer]

outliers be outlining. We're talking in generalizations here.

What if i choose to be an outlier?

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

My sex drive is declining too, sometimes when I try to masturbate I start thinking about how pathetic I am being and I get flaccid immediately

When did you notice a decline, at what age? Or where you more sexually charged while you were bluepilled?

What if i choose to be an outlier?

Then you'd be an outlier, or coping hard. Don't be so sure you can make a conscious decision about that, without some form of sublimination ( channeling it into other avenues of gratification, to achieve socially acceptable goals) going on.

 

[Incel Gamer]

I'm 23. Lost libido at 21. I just gave up.

When I see a cute girl, the first thing that pops into my mind is "I have no chance with her."
Negative thoughts take over before I even have a chance to fantasize about her. And that's why I have no libido.

 

[Deleted member 20207]

My interest in sex has already started to decline, and I am 19. I still have a libido though, but I am more content with only satisfying it by masturbation than before. Now I am only really interested in impregnating females. I do not really pursue non-reproductive sex anymore.

 

[Eternal Observer]

Then you'd be an outlier, or coping hard. Don't be so sure you can make a conscious decision about that, without some form of sublimination ( channeling it into other avenues of gratification, to achieve socially acceptable goals) going on.

Seems like you're applying your own motivations/willpower (or lack thereof) onto others based on anecdotal experiences and few studies of the conscious actions of these outliers. Human gratification is not immutably based in pleasing others.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I was 18 year old virgin loser, but as my college years are still ahead of me, opportunities to get laid still seemed endless. I remember being in Venice during a hot steamy summer trying to cool under a shade by the Palazzo Ducale, sucking on a strawberry ice cream while peaking at women's legs and furiusly masturbating to it in the evening -- never watched hardcore porn back then as I though it was low class. This was a year before I would be heading into college, an optimist with high hopes and a libido to match. I still almost had a whole decade ahead of me before I'd hit wizard territory, and I had my hair back then. Gadni lost his virginity at 21, chances were I could just be a late bloomer, which was a comforting thought to cope with. Seeing a group of girls in those years was a pleasantly thrilling experience, the ones with their ears sticking out and buck teeth seemed attainable and therefore even more fuckable, I lusted after all of them young and mature, my apetite was insatiable, it was also the thing I miss the most about that time --
View attachment 290446
--This turned around in the senior year in college, making it a virgin was a killer blow to my morale as it would be to any man. I went into panick mode at first, waking up at night with my heart pounding, I would be hyperventilating, with my inner voices tormented me "did I just make it though 4 years of college without any meaningful romantic interaction?" No girls or wild parties like the movies showed. How could this happen? Looking back, retroactively, those years seem like months, with nothing happening in between them. I was back home, far from the beautiful mediteranean sea, my youth was expiring, and it took a toll on my desire.

Just a year ago I was compelled to watch porn by pure instinct, now I was watching porn trying reignite the flames of a dying libido.

Looking back at it in retrospect it was pure fantasy that fueled my sex drive back in the day, the sheer optimism of a possible romantic adventure waiting around the corner kept the flames of desire burning in me, it made me feel alive and virile. Funnily, losing sexual desire as an incel should be a relief, but it's not, its a melancholic experience. Or to paraphrase Lacan: thing worst that can happen is not a desire fulfilled, but a loss of desire itself, to stop desiring at all.

Same tbh. I think I peaked sexually at 15.

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

Seems like you're applying your own motivations/willpower (or lack thereof) onto others based on anecdotal experiences and few studies of the conscious actions of these outliers. Human gratification is not immutably based in pleasing others.

why would it be about pleasing others? libido can be channeled into other avenues of gratification unrelated to actual sex. Lock up horny men in isolated monasteries and you'll get the single most powerful christian organization in the world, a leading cultural force in Europe that has unalterably shaped western civilization.

 

[Deleted member 17419]

Would you prefer me regurgitating prefabricated "it's over" type responses over and over?

I'd prefer you ask for a voluntary ban and then get the fuck outta here, ngl.

 

[Deleted member 22572]

I don't even know what libido means

Genuinely what does libido mean?

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

I don't even know what libido means

Genuinely what does libido mean?

An overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Libido is influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine) regulate libido in humans.

 

[Deleted member 22572]

An overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Libido is influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine) regulate libido in humans.

I'm 18 and I want sex so fucking bad everyday.

Losin it would be a good thing

 

[Eternal Observer]

why would it be about pleasing others? libido can be channeled into other avenues of gratification unrelated to actual sex. Lock up horny men in isolated monasteries and you'll get the single most powerful christian organization in the world, a leading cultural force in Europe that has unalterably shaped western civilization.

Except your definition of a variant application of the male libido included "channeling it into other avenues of gratification, to achieve socially acceptable goals"

"Socially acceptable" indicates the need to meet the social standards of others, which is not something that is impossible to deviate from.

 

[careermax_aspiecel]

When did you notice a decline, at what age? Or where you more sexually charged while you were bluepilled?

I started noticing the decline when I was 20/21 yo, that's when the mental weight of rejection and social isolation started impairing my sex drive.

I do think that I was more sexually charged when I was bluepilled and still had a positive outlook on my dating chances

 

[tea]

I wish i had no libido at all. Sure would make getting shit done in a class where some attention whores wear ass shorts a lot easier.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I wish i had no libido at all.

 

[Deleted member 22549]

I mean, hell yeah? That's not at bad as it sounds, my libido at the moment is nothing but a nuisance. At the end of the day, there's not much i can do in the short term besides fucking an escort, so losing my libido wouldn't be half bad.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

Its just a side effect of depression man

if you feel better mentally it will probably come back

the only problem is , how will you be happy again ?

I am 23 and my libido is almost nonexistent .
I feel the same way as you ,
but i am also in the deepest pit of depression i ever was , so its not something permanent i guess .

 

[B.O.G.A.R.T.]

I started noticing the decline when I was 20/21 yo, that's when the mental weight of rejection and social isolation started impairing my sex drive.

I do think that I was more sexually charged when I was bluepilled and still had a positive outlook on my dating chances

The power of bluepilled 'copes' is that it structures a fantasmatic support for our desires, think of them as coordinates that tell you what and how to desire what you want in a proper fashion that is still in the realm of plausibility. In my case the fantasy involved having affairs with italian mifls divorcees.

Except your definition of a variant application of the male libido included "channeling it into other avenues of gratification, to achieve socially acceptable goals"

"Socially acceptable" indicates the need to meet the social standards of others, which is not something that is impossible to deviate from.

coincided, yet if it's really anti-social in the proper sense, we call that death drive, a destructive impotent rage -- the opposite of sex drive, which is narcissistic.

I mean, hell yeah? That's not at bad as it sounds, my libido at the moment is nothing but a nuisance. At the end of the day, there's not much i can do in the short term besides fucking an escort, so losing my libido wouldn't be half bad.

I was 10x more productive when my sex drive was in full force, today I'm in a state of general apathy, I can't even enjoy music properly.

Its just a side effect of depression man

if you feel better mentally it will probably come back

the only problem is , how will you be happy again ?

I am 23 and my libido is almost nonexistent .
I feel the same way as you ,
but i am also in the deepest pit of depression i ever was , so its not something permanent i guess .

It took a nose dive after college, nothing happened, didn't become fat, yert as the prospect of losing my virginity became misicule it killed off my sexual apetite. Back then I could get aroused just by looking at a womans cleavege, now even 4k porn doesn't excite me.

 

[Deleted member 22549]

I was 10x more productive when my sex drive was in full force, today I'm in a state of general apathy, I can't even enjoy music properly.

Well my man, everything you're saying points out to an obvious realization. Your sex drive hasn't vanished, you have DEPRESSION. Yep, that's it, inceldom has pushed you towards depression. How and IF you're going to fight it are another problem altogether.

 

[Tenshi]

I already have none

 

[Neggr]

I hope

 

[Quarantined]

cope, i'm horny as fuck and 25

 

[Mainländer]

Didn't work for me.