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Experiment Inceldom ruins lives?

Did Inceldom ruin your career prospects?


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How many of you believe that you would have a better career/better paying job etc if you had a girlfriend at a normal age?

I believe that it played a major role in me giving up on everything, staying inside, being unproductive and playing games all day. Because at one point i found a "companion" online and while i never met her, the thought of having someone in my life motivated me to improve myself while it lasted. But now i am around the age of 25 and a total loser, i feel tired all the time and i struggle to motivate myself to do anything. Sometimes i don't even care if i die because i know that what is ahead is just wageslaving and loneliness.
 
How many of you believe that you would have a better career/better paying job etc if you had a girlfriend at a normal age?

I believe that it played a major role in me giving up on everything, staying inside, being unproductive and playing games all day. Because at one point i found a "companion" online and while i never met her, the thought of having someone in my life motivated me to improve myself while it lasted. But now i am around the age of 25 and a total loser, i feel tired all the time and i struggle to motivate myself to do anything. Sometimes i don't even care if i die because i know that what is ahead is just wageslaving and loneliness.
no matter what you do career wise or life in general, it will not achieve you relationship or sex status.
but its a good motivator if you have a companion by your side.
 
I'd say it did ruin my career prospects.

Because if i did have a gf i wouldnt obsess all day over having one and i wouldnt suffer from crippling depression.
 
If I was blue pilled I would be doing my first internship right now as a code janitor
 
I failed high scbool because of isolation, depression and admittedly lack of talent to some extent. I believe this would not have been the case had I had a successful social, sexual and romantic life.
 
can we talk about college degrees and how its doesnt guarantee you a high paying job?
 
I think inceldom effects all aspects of my life. It's fucked me over in every way, but I'm working really hard to get out of it
 
na i was never high iq i would still be working in retail regardless of my inceldom status tbh.
 
can we talk about college degrees and how its doesnt guarantee you a high paying job?

Well the higher education becomes easier each year and is very slow to change while thing change in the real world much faster today. Even if you are learning a STEM related field you will most likely be taught a lot of useless outdated things
 
na i was never high iq i would still be working in retail regardless of my inceldom status tbh.

I don't think it takes a high IQ to get a better education and there are other better paying jobs for low IQ people who try hard in life.
 
Well the higher education becomes easier each year and is very slow to change while thing change in the real world much faster today. Even if you are learning a STEM related field you will most likely be taught a lot of useless outdated things
yea most of its just useless stem degrees, you know how many people get degrees while getting low paying jobs.

my mom makes 20/hr at a warehouse job and is living comfortably.
 
yeah cuz i was gonna try get back into education then i found lookism and jaw surgery then i thought oh this is why no one likes me
 
In my case it's more complicated. Depression played a role (so admittedly inceldom), but I was also set to fail due to having the bad values. When young I was more into proving how smart I was than about working hard and humbly and doing all the homework. This was often successful but also often backfired spectacularly. I would have failed in college regardless of inceldom I think.
 
As was Tesla. In fact Tesla had many gorgeous women at the height of his career including an attractive actress.
whos telsa?
Nikola Tesla

10 July 1856 – 7 January 1943
ofc hypergamy was non existent in the past.
 
I don't think it takes a high IQ to get a better education and there are other better paying jobs for low IQ people who try hard in life.

u have to pay 9k a year for higher education as a uk born citizen and im a poorcel.

so no its not an option.
 
I'd say it did ruin my career prospects.

Because if i did have a gf i wouldnt obsess all day over having one and i wouldnt suffer from crippling depression.
 
every year I´ve been telling myself "this is the year when I get a gf then I can finally move on with life and focus 100% on work and my career"

Been telling myself that for over 15 years now and still haven´t gotten a gf.

I had so much potential, but women ruined everything for me.

During my teens and 20s I put 100% of my energy into trying to get a gf with zero success.

Meanwhile any woman nomatter what she looks like can get a looksmatched or above boyfriend within 30 minutes.

This world is beyond retarded.
 
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Ha, no! I'd be a lazy bum in any reality.

I'm inexorably imbued with failure.
 
It'll make life better, sure - but unless I was a gigachad I don't see how career and other aspects in life would be fixed. Incels are just below blue-pilled lowest tier normies anyway.
 
my social awkwardness kept me back from most things
 
Yup. Would probably be rich if i has a cute gf to motivate me
 
Inceldom helped my professional life cause I maxed out aspects of life which I could control.

I came to terms with the fact I never can get some Stacy and switched to escortcel. Can easily pay it so yeah.
 
Inceldom helped my professional life cause I maxed out aspects of life which I could control.

I came to terms with the fact I never can get some Stacy and switched to escortcel. Can easily pay it so yeah.

Pathetic. You are spending a fortune on lame sex with someone who is not attracted to you. No matter how much you earn some ugly whore makes more than you just for fucking guys like yourself.
 
Pathetic. You are spending a fortune on lame sex with someone who is not attracted to you. No matter how much you earn some ugly whore makes more than you just for fucking guys like yourself.

I spend as much as I can spend on it. It makes me somewhat happy to just fuck some whore Stacy. I really cant care less if she likes it or not.
Its just like a hobby. Coudnt care less for the money, I dont have friends or hobbies or whatever to spend it on instead.
 
Graduated college in 2015 with high marks. Rotted for the next 3 years
 
You more than likely will find a wife while working, the ugliest one will press onto you and you'll be forced to betabux
 
As was Tesla. In fact Tesla had many gorgeous women at the height of his career including an attractive actress.

Yet he still died a virgin.

The ultimate volcel.
 
It creates a scarcity mentality. You lose sight of the forest for the trees. Cant move on in other aspects of life.
 
Haven't heard of a truecel who wasn't miserable, so I'd say yeah.
 
How many of you believe that you would have a better career/better paying job etc if you had a girlfriend at a normal age?

I believe that it played a major role in me giving up on everything, staying inside, being unproductive and playing games all day. Because at one point i found a "companion" online and while i never met her, the thought of having someone in my life motivated me to improve myself while it lasted. But now i am around the age of 25 and a total loser, i feel tired all the time and i struggle to motivate myself to do anything. Sometimes i don't even care if i die because i know that what is ahead is just wageslaving and loneliness.

I was having your issue for few years. I went to the doc wanting to see someone for ADHD and after about 4 months finally got a dr willing to perscribe me ritilan and holy shit did it really help me clean, stay organized and a lot more motivated. But nothing lasts forever, I lost so much weight I decided to stop cause I was looking anorexic. Though now I gained it all back and then some I thought about going back on but I hate the dr visits cause you get treated like an addict
 
That implies I had a chance, inceldom made me realise that I wouldn't have made it anyway.
 
In my case it's more complicated. Depression played a role (so admittedly inceldom), but I was also set to fail due to having the bad values. When young I was more into proving how smart I was than about working hard and humbly and doing all the homework. This was often successful but also often backfired spectacularly. I would have failed in college regardless of inceldom I think.
When you lack value in general you try and make up for it by proving yourself and everybody else you are intelligent. I was like that too
 

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