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Sex is essentially just a penis thrusting inside a vagina. Why is starvation of such an experience so detrimental to mental wellbeing, then?
Being involuntarily celibate and unable to get girls is really not about wanting the physical act so much as craving the acceptance and validation from a member of the opposite sex. Humans are social beings, and social interaction reinforces validation of a sense of self-worth and happiness, in turn creating a positive feedback loop in which greater happiness and confidence leads to easier social interactions, which then leads to greater happiness and confidence, and so on and so forth.
In a society where sex is marketed incessantly in the media and couples can be seen everywhere, it can be incredibly frustrating and alienating to not be able to share those same experiences or relate to other people. Seeing couples everywhere is a reminder of what one cannot have, either due to rejection or difficulty socializing with other people. Alienation and starvation of social and sexual experiences leads to lessened confidence and greater mental apathy and frustration, in turn creating a positive feedback loop in which alienation leads to rage and frustration, which then leads to difficulty with socialization, which then leads to alienation, and so on and so forth.
Because of what has been stated above, when one has been starved of sexual experiences and rejected countless times by members of the opposite sex, it can be incredibly difficult to pull oneself out of the hole of mental castration because of the self-fulfilling prophecy nature of the situation. While this is happening, peers are enjoying their hedonistic, socially and sexually fulfilling lives, oblivious to how much suffering lonely people are going through. One example of this can be seen from /r/inceltears, a site dedicated to cherrypicking the most absurd statements from this forum and using those as catch-all examples of how absurd and delusional participants of this forum supposedly are. It is like neurotypical people mocking people with depression or another mental illness: cruel because these negative patterns of thought cannot easily be helped, and callous because the former has no personal experience with the latter.
In summary, though members of this forum are viewed by outsiders as pathetic and self-destructive in their thought patterns, the consequences of being socially and sexually alienated extend far beyond having no sexual experience. It can break a person's entire being and fill them with a range of negative emotions that persist as long as the situation does. The purpose of this entire post was not to be self-pitying or pretentious, but to offer a new perspective to outsiders who, to be fair, really have no idea how much being sexually rejected can break someone.
Being involuntarily celibate and unable to get girls is really not about wanting the physical act so much as craving the acceptance and validation from a member of the opposite sex. Humans are social beings, and social interaction reinforces validation of a sense of self-worth and happiness, in turn creating a positive feedback loop in which greater happiness and confidence leads to easier social interactions, which then leads to greater happiness and confidence, and so on and so forth.
In a society where sex is marketed incessantly in the media and couples can be seen everywhere, it can be incredibly frustrating and alienating to not be able to share those same experiences or relate to other people. Seeing couples everywhere is a reminder of what one cannot have, either due to rejection or difficulty socializing with other people. Alienation and starvation of social and sexual experiences leads to lessened confidence and greater mental apathy and frustration, in turn creating a positive feedback loop in which alienation leads to rage and frustration, which then leads to difficulty with socialization, which then leads to alienation, and so on and so forth.
Because of what has been stated above, when one has been starved of sexual experiences and rejected countless times by members of the opposite sex, it can be incredibly difficult to pull oneself out of the hole of mental castration because of the self-fulfilling prophecy nature of the situation. While this is happening, peers are enjoying their hedonistic, socially and sexually fulfilling lives, oblivious to how much suffering lonely people are going through. One example of this can be seen from /r/inceltears, a site dedicated to cherrypicking the most absurd statements from this forum and using those as catch-all examples of how absurd and delusional participants of this forum supposedly are. It is like neurotypical people mocking people with depression or another mental illness: cruel because these negative patterns of thought cannot easily be helped, and callous because the former has no personal experience with the latter.
In summary, though members of this forum are viewed by outsiders as pathetic and self-destructive in their thought patterns, the consequences of being socially and sexually alienated extend far beyond having no sexual experience. It can break a person's entire being and fill them with a range of negative emotions that persist as long as the situation does. The purpose of this entire post was not to be self-pitying or pretentious, but to offer a new perspective to outsiders who, to be fair, really have no idea how much being sexually rejected can break someone.
